Control
China Drum Lyrics


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Don't try and make yourself hate him
He tried that one with you
He ended up just hating himself
And more in love with you

You'll have to learn from all his mistakes
The brain can lie but your heart will never fake
He's been rushing around
Grabbing all he can find
As quickly as he could
Cause he knew you would
When he saw that distant look
He had to say goodbye
Cause he knew you could

People say that he's a bastard,
That's an unfair use of words
When I don't know what was going on, no
I never really heard
Why don't you wake up to what he's got
Do you have the time to find out
If he's lost control?

There's no point in hanging around
If happiness can't be found, you'd better go
He never stopped to ask you why
He never had to try, well he was wrong

Why don't you wake up to what you want
And listen to his lines
Cause what you two have been going through
Has happened many times

I've never seen you taking any prisoners
But I've seen you weep
Yeah, I've seen you apologizing,
But that's not gonna work with me

I've heard you're telling everybody
What you've done to him
But that doesn't add up to a sorry
And it's not gonna work with me

He's been rushing around
Grabbing all he can find
As quickly as he could
Cause he knew you would
When he saw that distant look
He had to say goodbye
Cause he knew you could

Why don't you wake up to what he's got
And stop filling him with lies
Cause what you two have been going through




Has happened many times
It's happened too many times

Overall Meaning

The song Control by China Drum is a narrative of a relationship where one person, the male speaker in this case, is losing control and trying to hold onto his partner. He has made mistakes and rushed through the relationship, grabbing all he could find as quickly as he could. But in the end, he knew he had to say goodbye, recognizing that his partner would walk away. The singer warns the partner not to make themselves hate the man and try to understand his mistakes. The brain may lie, but the heart will never fake. The singer hints that there may be more to the situation than what is known, and to not hang around if happiness cannot be found.


The lyrics of Control delve deeply into themes of control, power dynamics, and fear. The singer acknowledges that the man in the relationship tried to make the partner hate him, ultimately resulting in him hating himself. The lyrics highlight that relationships are not always perfect, and that people make mistakes. The line "There's no point in hanging around if happiness can't be found" is particularly poignant and encourages the partner to put their own happiness first. Similarly, the line "Why don't you wake up to what you want" shows a desire for the partner to take control of their own life.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't try and make yourself hate him
Do not force yourself to hate him.


He tried that one with you
He has already tried forcing himself to hate you.


He ended up just hating himself
But ended up hating himself instead.


And more in love with you
And loving you even more.


You'll have to learn from all his mistakes
You must learn from his mistakes.


The brain can lie but your heart will never fake
Your heart will always tell you the truth even if your brain tries to deceive you.


He's been rushing around
He has been in a rush.


Grabbing all he can find
Trying to get everything he can.


As quickly as he could
As fast as possible.


Cause he knew you would
Because he knew you would leave.


When he saw that distant look
When he realized that you were distant.


He had to say goodbye
He had to let go.


Cause he knew you could
Because he knew you were capable of it.


People say that he's a bastard,
Some people call him a jerk.


That's an unfair use of words
But that is not a fair thing to say.


When I don't know what was going on, no
But I do not know the full story.


I never really heard
I have not heard it from him.


Why don't you wake up to what he's got
Why don't you realize what he has to offer?


Do you have the time to find out
Do you have the time to figure it out?


If he's lost control?
If he has lost his way?


There's no point in hanging around
There is no reason to stay.


If happiness can't be found, you'd better go
If you cannot find happiness, you should leave.


He never stopped to ask you why
He never bothered to ask you why you were unhappy.


He never had to try, well he was wrong
He did not try to make things better, but he was wrong.


Why don't you wake up to what you want
Why don't you wake up and realize what you really want?


And listen to his lines
And listen to what he has to say.


Cause what you two have been going through
Because what you have been experiencing has been happening for a long time.


Has happened many times
It has happened too many times.


I've never seen you taking any prisoners
I have never seen you deliberately hurting someone.


But I've seen you weep
But I have seen you cry.


Yeah, I've seen you apologizing,
Yes, I have seen you apologize.


But that's not gonna work with me
But that is not enough for me.


I've heard you're telling everybody
I have heard that you are telling everyone.


What you've done to him
What you have said or done to him.


But that doesn't add up to a sorry
But that is not a real apology.


And it's not gonna work with me
And that is not enough for me.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Adam Lee, Bill McQueen, Dave McQueen

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