When I Was Your Man
Chris Jamison Lyrics


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Oh
Yeah, yeah

Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name
It all just sounds like ooh
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize

That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should've gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

My pride, my ego, my needs and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
And it hurts me every time I close my eyes

Although it hurts
I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know

And I hope he buys you flowers
I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours
When he has the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Do all the things I should've done
When I was your man




Do all the things I should've done
When I was your man

Overall Meaning

The song "When I Was Your Man" by Chris Jamison is a confession of regret and a lament of a lost love. The lyrics speak to the universal theme of taking for granted the love and affection of a partner in a relationship, failing to show them the attention, love, and respect they deserve. Jamison's honest and vulnerable performance of the song highlights the deep remorse and sadness that can come with the realization of what has been lost.


The first verse sets the scene with the realization of how empty and lonely life has become since the end of the relationship. Although the couple shares the same bed, it now feels "just a little bit bigger," and the memories of the love they once shared only bring pain. The second verse is an acknowledgement of the mistakes made in the relationship. The singer recognizes that he should have been more attentive and given his partner the love and time she deserved. He reflects on how his "pride, ego, needs and selfish ways" caused her to leave him.


The chorus has a bittersweet tone as the singer expresses his hope that his former partner finds someone who loves and respects her as she deserves. He wishes he could turn back the clock and do all the things he should have done when he was her man. Despite the hurts and regrets, the song ends on a note of acceptance, with the singer recognizing that it may be too late to make amends for his past behavior.


Line by Line Meaning

Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Being in the same bed doesn't feel as cozy as it used to be because you're not there anymore.


Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
Hearing our song on the radio doesn't bring me joy anymore because you're not here to sing it with me.


When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
Hearing our friends talking about you only makes me feel worse about losing you.


'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name
Just hearing your name is enough to cause my heart to hurt a little.


It all just sounds like ooh
All of my emotions towards losing you can be summed up by a simple 'ooh'.


Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
I was too young and foolish to recognize what I had with you.


That I should have bought you flowers
I regret not buying you flowers and showing you more affection when I had the chance.


And held your hand
I should have held your hand more often and made physical connections with you.


Should've gave you all my hours
I should have spent all the time I had with you instead of wasting it on other things.


When I had the chance
I realized too late that I missed my chances of making you mine.


Take you to every party
I regret not taking you to every party where we could've danced and enjoyed ourselves.


'Cause all you wanted to do was dance
Dancing was one of the things that made you happiest, and I wish I could have given that to you.


Now my baby's dancing
You're no longer mine, but I see you dancing with someone else.


But she's dancing with another man
It hurts me to see you dancing with someone else, especially when I realize that I could have been that man.


My pride, my ego, my needs and my selfish ways
My pride, ego, and selfishness played a role in driving you away from me.


Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
You were a good and strong woman, but my flaws made you leave me.


Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
I can't make things right because you're not here, and the mess I made still remains.


And it hurts me every time I close my eyes
Even when I try to forget about you, the pain of losing you still haunts me.


Although it hurts
Even though it hurts to admit my mistakes, I know I need to own up to them.


I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
I know I was wrong, and I'm willing to admit it.


Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
I know it's too late to win you back.


To try and apologize for my mistakes
I wish I could apologize to you and make things right, but it's too late for that.


But I just want you to know
Even though I can't change what's happened, I still want you to know how much I regret my mistakes.


And I hope he buys you flowers
I hope your new man treats you better and gives you the affection and attention that I failed to give.


I hope he holds your hand
I hope your new man holds your hand and makes you feel loved and cherished.


Give you all his hours
I hope your new man spends every moment and every bit of energy making you happy.


When he has the chance
I hope your new man recognizes the value in you and makes every effort to keep you happy.


Take you to every party
I hope your new man takes you to all the parties and dancing events that you love.


'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
I remember how much dancing made you happy, and I hope your new man makes sure you get to experience it as much as possible.


Do all the things I should've done
I realize too late what I should have done and I want your new man to do all of them for you.


When I was your man
I want your new man to do all the things I should have done when I had the chance to be with you.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew Wyatt, Ari Levine, Peter Gene Hernandez, Philip Martin II Lawrence

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He was the lead singer for the band at my daughter's wedding last weekend. He and the band were amazing!!

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STILL my favorite Voice performance...EVER!!!

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