The Man in You
Chuck Jackson Lyrics


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Now don′t you know my daddy told me
Told me right from the start
Said, listen

Said no matter how old a man is
He's partly a boy in his heart

Now you′d be surprised at the things
You do now that you still wanna do

But when it comes to the way
(The way you treat your woman)
When it comes to the way
You treat your woman

You can't let the boy
Overpower the man in you

Oh, let me tell you that
Every man has to
Understand that you can

Go out with the fellas
But if the boy in you
Tells you to stay late
Don't listen

Well, if you stop to think about it
The man in you is gonna say wait
Listen here (that ain′t right)

Oh, you′d be surprised at the things
That a man who loves his woman won't do
′Cause when it comes to the way
(The way you treat your woman)
When it comes to the way
You treat your woman

You can't let the boy
Overpower the man in you

One more thing now
That all you guys have to realize

That there are many pretty women
And if the boy in you looks their way
Take a good look

You know that if you
Stop to think about it
The man in you is gonna say
Come on

Oh, you′ll be surprised at the girls
Who are gonna wink an eye at you too

But when it comes to the way
(The way you treat your woman)
When it comes to the way
You treat your woman

You can't let the boy
Overpower the man in you
Oh, no, oh, no, the man in you
Oh, no, no, no

Overall Meaning

Chuck Jackson's "The Man In You" is a song about growing up and taking responsibility, specifically in regards to relationships with women. The song begins with Jackson recalling advice he received from his father, that every man has a little boy inside of him, and it's important not to let that boy take control in situations where he might make bad decisions. The song then goes on to discuss how men sometimes struggle to balance their desire to have fun with their responsibility to treat their partners with love and respect.


The chorus repeats the message that men need to take responsibility for their actions when it comes to how they treat their partners. While it might be tempting to act impulsively, the "man" part of the person needs to be in control, making thoughtful decisions that prioritize their partner's feelings and wellbeing.


Line by Line Meaning

Now don't you know my daddy told me
The singer's dad taught him something important


Told me right from the start
The father's advice was given to his son at an early age


Said, listen
The father wanted his son to pay attention to what he was saying


Said no matter how old a man is
The father's advice is applicable to all men of any age


He's partly a boy in his heart
Men still have a playful or childish side to them


Now you'd be surprised at the things
There are some things that are unexpected or surprising


You do now that you still wanna do
Despite getting older, there are still activities that a man enjoys doing


But when it comes to the way
However, there is a certain behavior that needs to change


(The way you treat your woman)
The behavior in question pertains to how a man treats his partner


You can't let the boy
The playful or childish traits in a man cannot override


Overpower the man in you
The maturity and responsibility that is also part of a man's personality


Oh let me tell you that
The singer emphasizes the importance of this message


Every man has to
This is a universal message for all males


Understand that you can
Men need to recognize that they have the power to control their actions


Go out with the fellas
Men can still enjoy socializing with their male friends


But if the boy in you
However, the childish or immature traits can still emerge


Tells you to stay late
There may be temptation to ignore responsibilities or obligations


Don't listen
Men need to resist these temptations


Well if you stop to think about it
Men need to consider the consequences of their actions


The man in you is gonna say wait
The responsible and mature part of a man will advise to wait and not give in to temptation


Listen here (that ain't right)
The singer states that the right thing to do is to be responsible and not be swayed by childish urges


Oh you'd be surprised at the things
Men may realize that there are some things they cannot bring themselves to do to their partner


That a man who loves his woman won't do
A man who truly loves and respects his partner will prioritize their feelings


(The way you treat your woman)
It is important for men to show love and respect towards their partners


You can't let the boy
Childish urges should not take priority


Overpower the man in you
Responsible and mature choices should be made instead


One more thing now
The singer has more advice to offer to men


That all you guys have to realize
All men need to understand this next message


That there are many pretty women
There are many attractive women in the world


And if the boy in you looks their way
Childish tendencies may result in a wandering eye


Take a good look
The singer suggests that men should acknowledge the beauty of others


You know that if you
Men need to recognize the potential consequences of their actions


Stop to think about it
It is important for men to assess their actions


The man in you is gonna say come on
The more mature and responsible part of a man will urge them to not give in to temptation


Oh you'll be surprised at the girls
Men may not realize how many women may show interest in them


Who are gonna wink an eye at you too
Women may show subtle signs of attraction towards men


(The way you treat your woman)
Despite this, men should always treat their partner with love and respect


You can't let the boy
Childish or immature thoughts and actions should not take priority


Overpower the man in you
Men should prioritize being responsible and mature in their actions


Oh no, oh no, the man in you
The singer ends by emphasizing that men should prioritize responsible and loving behavior towards their partner


Oh no, no, no
Repeats the previous affirmation




Writer(s): William Robinson Jr.

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