Next To You
Ciara & R.Kelly Lyrics


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I hope I don't make you mad
With what I'm 'bout to say, boy
Here we are once again
And I'm having second thoughts, boy
I'm not messing with you head
But I changed my mind, boy
I don't know why I'm here
At the same time I want you near
If you want me to leave (whoa-oh, whoa)
I will understand
See, I would just have to respect your wishes, boy
'Cause if I stay ain't no telling what may happen, boy (oh-ooh)
Although you look so good to me
It's best that I leave

I'm scared of being next to you
Because of what I think I might do
Boy, you're turning me on right now
I can't get down like that right now
Don't want to disturb the flow
But this is not my M.O.
Hold up, wait a minute, movin' too fast
I want somethin' like this here to last

(Don't say no, baby)
(Not right now, baby)
(I want you to be my lady)
(You got me going crazy)

Well, I guess I'll stay for a minute
Then I have to go, boy
This moment is so temptin'
Right now it's not what I want, boy
Maybe if we just embrace
With a simple kiss, boy
But that'll only make things worse
Hope I'm not getting on your nerves, boy
I just want it to be right for both of us (and I just wanna)
When you don't have to say a thing to make me comfortable, boy
Boy, you make me so weak when you look at me
But right now I'm a little confused, I think it's best that I refuse

I'm scared of being next to you (so scared)
Because of what I think I might do (oh-oh)
Boy, you're turning me on right now (right now)
I can't get down like that right now
Don't want to disturb the flow (don't want to disturb the flow)
But this is not my M.O.
Hold up, wait a minute, movin' too fast (too fast)
I want somethin' like this here to last

Supposed to be playing cards (oh)
Or watching a movie
But we keep locking eyes, boy
Now, why you tryna tease me?
This room is getting heated (oh-oh)
Would you open a window?
I think that I should go now
'Cause I can't take this no more

I'm scared of being next to you (next to you)
Because of what I think I might do (think I might do)
Boy, you're turning me on right now
I can't get down like that right now (whoa-whoa)
Don't want to disturb the flow (don't wanna)
But this is not my M.O. (that just ain't me)
Hold up, wait a minute, movin' too fast (but I'm sorry)
I want somethin' like this here to last (yes, I am)

I'm scared of being next to you (I'm so scared)
Because of what I think I might do
Boy, you're turning me on right now (uh-huh)
I can't get down like that right now (uh-huh)
Don't want to disturb the flow (don't wanna)
But this is not my M.O. (disturb the flow, but boy)
Hold up, wait a minute, movin' too fast (this ain't me, it just ain't me)
I want somethin' like this here to last

I'm scared of being next to you (I'm so scared)
Because of what I think I might do
Boy, you're turning me on right now
I can't get down like that right now
Don't want to disturb the flow (don't wanna disturb the flow)
But this is not my M.O. (not my M.O.)




Hold up, wait a minute, movin' too fast
I want somethin' like this here to last (too fast)

Overall Meaning

In Ciara and R. Kelly's song Next to You, Ciara expresses her fear of being physically close to the person she is singing to. She is having second thoughts about being there with the boy, and she's not trying to play with his emotions but she has changed her mind. She is unsure why she is there, but at the same time, being near him is what she wants. However, if he wants her to leave, she will understand and respect his wishes. Ciara desires to have something with him, but she wants it to last. At the same time, their eye contact is already turning her on, which is why she is scared of being close to him.


From the lyrics, it is evident that Ciara has a difficult time communicating with her love interest. She is having mixed feelings about the relationship and does not know what to do. The song's chorus shows how being close to the person she loves can be both scary and thrilling. The apprehension and excitement can cause her to want to leave despite feeling some attraction towards the person.


One of the primary themes of the song is the ambiguity that comes along with love. Ciara's indecisiveness shows that making decisions in love is not always straightforward. The song is an eye-opener for people who struggle with uncertainty in a relationship or who are not sure about their true feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

I hope I don't make you mad
I am worried that what I am about to say might anger you.


With what I'm bout to say boy
I am hesitant but I want to express what's on my mind.


Here we are once again
We are in this situation again.


And I'm having second thoughts boy
I am doubting my original decision.


I'm not messing with you head
I'm not trying to deceive you.


But I changed my mind boy
I have a different opinion now.


I don't know why I'm here
I am unsure of the reason for being here.


At the same time I want you near
Despite my confusion, I still like being close to you.


If you want me to leave
If you prefer me to exit the situation.


I will understand
I'll respect your opinion.


See I would just have to respect
I acknowledge your decision and validate your opinion.


Your wishes boy
Whatever you want or desire.


Cause if I stay ain't no telling
If I continue to stay, it might lead to more uncertain events.


What may happen boy
Any number of things could occur in this situation.


Although you look so good to me
I am physically attracted to you.


It's best that I leave
Perhaps it's better for me to depart the situation.


I'm scared of being next to you
I am afraid of what might happen in your proximity.


Because of what I think I might do
I am afraid that I'll act according to these thoughts if I am close to you.


Boy your turning me on right now
Your actions are making me feel aroused at the moment.


Can't get down like that right now
I'm not ready for intimacy at this moment.


Don't want to disturb the flow
I don't want to disrupt the current peaceful state of our environment.


But this is not my M.O.
But this kind of situation doesn't fit my standard modus operandi.


Hold up wait a minute movin' too fast
Wait! We may be moving too quickly.


I want somethin' like this here to last
I want a long-lasting relationship instead of a brief moment of intimacy.


Don't say no baby
I hope you don't refuse me.


Not right now baby
Not at this exact moment, please.


I want to be your lady
I want to be in a committed relationship with you.


You got me going crazy
You're making me feel excited and anxious.


Well, I guess I'll stay for a minute
I'll stick around for a little longer.


Then I have to go boy
But then I must leave soon after.


This moment is so temptin'
I am strongly attracted to you at this moment.


Right now it's not what I want boy
However, at present, I don't wish for intimacy.


Maybe if we just embrace
Perhaps a kiss or a hug is acceptable.


With a simple kiss boy
Just a brief and simple kiss.


But that'll only make things worse
But that might complicate things more.


Hope I'm not getting on your nerves boy
Hoping that I am not annoying you.


I just want it to be right for both of us
I desire that everything between us is perfect.


When you don't have to say a thing to make me comfortable
Being in your presence is enough for me to feel relaxed.


Boy you make me so weak when you look at me
When you gaze at me, I feel powerless and vulnerable.


But right now I'm a little confused
But currently, I am not sure what I want in this situation.


I think it's best that I refuse
I think it's better if I decline your advances.


Supposed to be playing cards
At first, we were just supposed to play cards.


Or watching a movie
Or maybe just watch a movie together.


But we keep locking eyes boy
But instead, we can't seem to take our eyes off one another.


Now, why you trying ta tease me
Are you intentionally trying to excite me?


This room is getting heated
The atmosphere of the room is feeling more intimate.


Would you open a window
Could you please open a window to cool down the room's temperature?


I think I should go now
I feel like it would be better for me to leave now.


Cause I can't take this no more
I can't handle this level of intimacy any longer.


I'm scared of being next to you
I am afraid of what might happen in your proximity.


Because of what I think I might do
I am afraid that I'll act according to these thoughts if I am close to you.


Boy, you're turning me on right now
Your actions are making me feel aroused at the moment.


Can't get down like that right now
I'm not ready for intimacy at this moment.


Don't want to disturb the flow
I don't want to disrupt the current peaceful state of our environment.


But this is not my M.O.
But this kind of situation doesn't fit my standard modus operandi.


Hold up wait a minute movin' too fast
Wait! We may be moving too quickly.


I want somethin' like this here to last
I want a long-lasting relationship instead of a brief moment of intimacy.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Robert Kelly, Ciara Princess Harris

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Comments from YouTube:

JesMarie Jonz

I still love this song. Her vocals have improved so much more since then. It's funny hearing her talking about waiting to give it up back them but now she's all "he love the way I ride it & now my body's your party." Lol! Go CiCi! 💞

castro21lev

i think its a thing of growth, at 28 years old how many adults can relate with waiting to have sex... this album was made when she was 16, 17 years old and released when she was 18 going on 19 it was more suiting for her age at the time 

castro21lev

UrbanMonsterHigh lmfaoo right

Ieshia Shealey

Im listening to this song right now !! One of my fav songs by her 🥰

Teryca Kimble

This whole track goes hard! I remember just sitting and listening to it over and over

nakitaboo85

This still my favorite song by her. Still jamming this on into 2016

Nardo Howard

nakitaboo85
joint was fire

Daphne Joseph

Please stop spoiling good music because of R Kelly. This song was and is still very relatable. This song and the message helped me and many other girls a lot when I was younger.

Tiara Merriman

2021 I'm still here for it... Love some Ci Ci and this album is a classic 💕 definitely 05 vibes🤙🏾

Milton Carter

2021 and I’m still jamming this ... love me some Ciara 💪🏾💙🤞🏾

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