Like A Boy
Ciara ft. Trey Songz Lyrics


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Pull up your pants (just like 'em)
Take out the trash (just like 'em)
Gettin' your cash like 'em
Fast like 'em
Girl, you wanna act like he did (I'm talkin' 'bout)
Security codes on everything
On vibrate so your phone don't ever ring
Joint account and another one he don't know about (hey)

Wish we could switch up the roles and I could be that
Tell you I love you, but when you call, I never get back
Would you ask them questions like me, like where you be at?
'Cause I'm out, four in the morning on the corner, rolling, doing my own thing

What if I, had a thing on the side
Made you cry?
Would the rules change up or would they still apply?
If I played you like a toy
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Girl, go ahead and be (just like 'em)
Go run the streets (just like 'em)
Go home, missin' sleep like 'em, creep like 'em
Front wit' your friends
Act hard when you wit' 'em, like 'em
Keep a straight face when you tell a lie
Always keep an airtight alibi
Keep it hid in the dark
What he don't know won't break his heart (hey)

Wish we could switch up the roles and I could be that
Tell you I love you, but when you call, I never get back
Would you ask them questions like me, like where you be at?
'Cause I'm out, four in the morning on the corner, rolling, doing my own thing

What if I, had a thing on the side
Made you cry?
Would the rules change up or would they still apply?
If I played you like a toy
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

If I was always gone
Let the sun beat me home (Would you like that?)
I told you I was with my crew when I knew it wasn't true if I act like you
Walked a mile off in your shoes (Would you like that?)
Messing with your head again
Dose of your own medicine

What if I, had a thing on the side
Made you cry?
Would the rules change up or would they still apply?
If I played you like a toy
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Can't handle that

R-A, go, here's the clutch

If I paged you (Would you like that?)
Had friends (Would you like that?)
Never call (Would you like that?)
No, no, you wouldn't like that, no!

What if I, made you cry? Would they still apply?




What if I, if I played you like a toy
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ciara ft. Trey Songz's song "Like A Boy" express a longing for gender role reversal in relationships. The first verse urges women to act more like men: pulling their pants up, taking out the trash, and making money fast. The second verse depicts a hypothetical scenario in which the singer (presumably a woman) acts like a man: ignoring calls, withholding love, and having secret affairs. The chorus imagines how these actions would change the rules of the relationship and asks if the man would handle it the same way he expects women to. The bridge poses a similar hypothetical scenario in which the woman behaves like the man, and the song ends with a final assertion that these actions are not desirable after all.


The song is an exploration of gender norms and how they affect romantic relationships. It highlights the unfair standards that women are held to while men are given more leeway in their behavior. It also shows the frustration that comes with conforming to these norms and a desire to break free from them. By imagining a role reversal, the song invites listeners to question and challenge these norms.


Line by Line Meaning

Pull up your pants (just like 'em)
Ciara is asking women to wear their pants as high as men wear them.


Take out the trash (just like 'em)
Women should also take out the trash, just like men do.


Gettin' your cash like 'em
Ciara is encouraging women to make their own money, just like men do.


Fast like 'em
Women should also be fast in their work, just like men.


Girl, you wanna act like he did (I'm talkin' 'bout)
Ciara is addressing women who want to act tough and behave like men.


Security codes on everything
Women should protect their valuables with security codes, just like men.


On vibrate so your phone don't ever ring
Ciara suggests putting the phone on vibrate mode, to avoid calls and distractions.


Joint account and another one he don't know about (hey)
Women should have a joint account with their partner, as well as a secret account, just like men do.


Wish we could switch up the roles and I could be that
Ciara wishes women could switch traditional gender roles and act like men.


Tell you I love you, but when you call, I never get back
Ciara imagines herself as a man, who neglects his partner's calls and feelings.


Would you ask them questions like me, like where you be at?
Ciara is wondering if men would also be suspicious, and ask their partners similar questions, if they were the ones who were neglected.


'Cause I'm out, four in the morning on the corner, rolling, doing my own thing
Men often hang out with their friends and stay out late, and Ciara wants women to do the same.


What if I, had a thing on the side
Ciara is exploring the idea of having a side relationship, as men often do.


Made you cry?
Ciara is asking if women would still cry and be hurt by infidelity, just like men do.


Would the rules change up or would they still apply?
Ciara is questioning if gender roles and expectations would still apply if women acted like men.


If I played you like a toy
Ciara is imagining a scenario where women toy with men's emotions, just like men often do.


Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy
Ciara is expressing her desire to act like a man and not conform to traditional gender norms.


Can't be getting mad what, you mad?
Ciara is telling men not to get angry with women for acting like men.


Can't handle that
Ciara suggests that men should learn to handle women acting like men.


Girl, go ahead and be (just like 'em)
Ciara is telling women to go ahead and behave like men.


Go run the streets (just like 'em)
Women should also go out and enjoy the nightlife, just like men.


Go home, missin' sleep like 'em, creep like 'em
Ciara wants women to stay up late, and sneak around like men often do.


Front wit' your friends
Ciara encourages women to put on a tough front in front of their friends, just like men do.


Act hard when you wit' 'em, like 'em
Women should also act tough and aggressive, just like many men do.


Keep a straight face when you tell a lie
Ciara suggests that women should be able to lie convincingly, just like men do.


Always keep an airtight alibi
Women should also have a solid plan in place to avoid getting caught doing something wrong.


Keep it hid in the dark
Ciara suggests that women should keep their secrets hidden, just like men often do.


What he don't know won't break his heart (hey)
Ciara is suggesting that keeping secrets from one's partner won't hurt them, as long as they don't find out.


If I was always gone
Ciara imagines herself as a man, who is always absent.


Let the sun beat me home (Would you like that?)
Ciara wonders if her female partner would appreciate a man who is always on the go, never coming home early.


I told you I was with my crew when I knew it wasn't true if I act like you
Ciara is imagining a scenario where she lies to her partner, just like men often do.


Walked a mile off in your shoes (Would you like that?)
Ciara is wondering if men could handle being treated like women are often treated.


Messing with your head again
Ciara suggests that men often play mind games with women, and she wants to do the same.


Dose of your own medicine
Ciara wants to give men a taste of their own medicine.


R-A, go, here's the clutch
Ciara is ready to take control, just like a man would.


If I paged you (Would you like that?)
Ciara is questioning if men would appreciate being paged by their partner, just like women do.


Had friends (Would you like that?)
Ciara is wondering if men would enjoy having their own friends outside of their relationship, just like women do.


Never call (Would you like that?)
Ciara is imagining a scenario where men never call their partner back, and wondering if they would like that same treatment from their partner.


No, no, you wouldn't like that, no!
Ciara is insinuating that men would not appreciate being treated like women are often treated.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CIARA PRINCESS HARRIS, CANDICE CLOTIEL NELSON, BALEWA M. MUHAMMAD, CALVIN KENON, EZEKIEL L. LEWIS, PATRICK MICHAEL SMITH

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Comments from YouTube:

michael carnahan

Trey and Ciara are a perfect team. 3 reasons why? 1.Love sex 2.Good singers 3.Ciara is pretty, girls say Trey is cute

Bigjapo jr Hester

Great music!!

Raphael Firmino

Bom.

Amari S.B. Foxx

Young Money's new artist AMARI FOXX is AMAZING!!!!! But i still love me some TREY SONGZ!!!!!!!! i Love you Trey!!!!!!!!

itsSandyslifehere

my baby trey :):

Charmaine Neverson

2020💙

utterbullspit

Is that even Trey?

Gianna Talucci

No it's not i like it I was kidding :)

Talia Seays

If. 👀. We're. A. Boy. 👀. Would. Went. To. Be. My. Boyfriend. He. Think. All. The. Gril. Went. 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

Charmaine Neverson

2020

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