You Don't Own Me
Cindy Standage Lyrics


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You don't own me
I'm not just one of your many toys
You don't own me
Don't say I can't go with other boys

Don't tell me what to do
Don't tell me what to say
An' please, when I go out with you
Don't put me on display

You don't own me
Don't try to change me in anyway
You don't own me
Don't tie me down 'cause I'll never stay

I don't tell you what to say
I don't tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you

I'm young and I love to be young
I'm free and I love to be free




To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please

Overall Meaning

Cindy Standage's song "You Don't Own Me" is an empowering anthem about independence and self-determination. The lyrics are addressed to a controlling partner who is trying to limit the singer's freedom and assert their ownership over her. The singer is not content to be treated like a possession or a toy, and she wants to make it clear that she has the right to make her own choices and live her life on her own terms.


The song's opening lines quickly establish the central theme: "You don't own me / I'm not just one of your many toys." These lines convey a sense of frustration and rebellion as the singer pushes back against her partner's attempts to exercise control over her. The chorus, repeated throughout the song, emphasizes the point: "You don't own me / Don't try to change me in any way / You don't own me / Don't tie me down 'cause I'll never stay." These lines make it clear that the singer values her freedom and independence above all else, and she is not willing to sacrifice either for the sake of a controlling relationship.


The lyrics of "You Don't Own Me" are straightforward and easy to understand, but they pack a powerful emotional punch. The song's message of empowerment and self-determination has resonated with generations of listeners since it was first released in 1963, and it continues to be relevant today. The song is a testament to the enduring human desire for freedom, autonomy, and the right to make our own choices in life.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't own me
I am not your possession or property.


I'm not just one of your many toys
I am not a plaything for you to manipulate.


Don't say I can't go with other boys
You do not have the right to restrict my choices of companionship.


Don't tell me what to do
You cannot dictate my actions or choices.


Don't tell me what to say
You cannot control my words or opinions.


An' please, when I go out with you Don't put me on display
Do not treat me like an object meant to boost your social status.


Don't try to change me in anyway
You cannot force me to conform to your wishes or ideals.


Don't tie me down 'cause I'll never stay
You cannot restrict my freedom as I will not tolerate being confined.


I don't tell you what to say
I do not have the right to dictate your expressions.


I don't tell you what to do
I cannot control your actions.


So just let me be myself That's all I ask of you
Please allow me to express and be true to myself without interference or coercion.


I'm young and I love to be young
I am in the prime of my youth and intend to enjoy it fully.


I'm free and I love to be free
I cherish my liberty and will not be chained or fettered.


To live my life the way I want To say and do whatever I please
I am entitled to live my life on my own terms and express myself as I see fit.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: David White, John Madara

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