Harder
Claire Toomey Lyrics


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Here we are at the same place again
Looking for ways to cross bridges
And say what we really need to be talking about
Stop trying to keep your feelings inside
It does no good for us if you hide
I wanna' reach out for you
But I'm not sure if you want me to
Don't make it easier
Don't make it easier on yourself
The truth may be hard to tell
But the further we'll fall
If we don't face it all
Right now

The harder we'll hit the ground.
The harder we'll hit the ground.

Now you know that I won't run away
I'll be standing right here till you tell me
That it's here that you want me to stay
I'm making it clear
I won't be the one to push you aside
I'm here for the future not just for the ride
I wanna' reach out for you
But I'm not sure if you want me to

Don't make it easier
Don't make it easier on yourself
The truth may be hard to tell
But the further we'll fall
If we don't face it all
Right now

The harder we'll hit the ground.
The harder we'll hit the ground.

Are you hearing a word that I say?
I know I can't carry on this way.

Don't make it easier
Don't make it easier on yourself
The truth may be hard to tell
But the further we'll fall
If we don't face it all
Right now

It don't make it easier
It don't make it easier on yourself
The truth may be hard to tell
But the further we'll fall




If we don't face it all
Right now

Overall Meaning

In "Harder," Claire Toomey sings about the difficulties of communication in a relationship. The song is about wanting to have an open and honest conversation with a partner, but feeling unsure about how they will receive it. The phrase "Looking for ways to cross bridges" represents the desire to overcome obstacles and work through challenges together. The singer implores the partner to not keep their feelings inside and to be truthful, even if it's hard. The repeated refrain of "Don't make it easier, the harder we'll hit the ground" emphasizes the importance of facing difficult conversations head-on, rather than avoiding them, as it will ultimately cause more harm in the long run.


Toomey's use of imagery, such as "the harder we'll hit the ground," creates a sense of urgency and an understanding of how impactful avoiding communication can be. The lyrics also reflect the singer's willingness to stay and work things out with her partner, as long as there is an openness in communication. The line "I'm here for the future not just for the ride" shows her commitment to building a strong and lasting relationship.


Overall, "Harder" is a powerful and emotionally charged song about the importance of communication in a relationship. The singer reminds us that though it may be difficult to have those tough conversations, it is necessary to move forward and prevent further hurt.


Line by Line Meaning

Here we are at the same place again
We are in a familiar situation or problem again.


Looking for ways to cross bridges
We are trying to find solutions to our problems.


And say what we really need to be talking about
We need to address the real issue at hand.


Stop trying to keep your feelings inside
Don't hide your feelings, express them instead.


It does no good for us if you hide
Hiding your feelings is detrimental to us.


I wanna' reach out for you
I want to connect with you emotionally.


But I'm not sure if you want me to
I am not certain if you want to open up.


Don't make it easier
Don't take the easy way out.


The truth may be hard to tell
The truth is difficult to express and accept.


But the further we'll fall
If we avoid the truth, things will only get worse.


If we don't face it all
If we don't tackle everything head-on.


Right now
We need to act immediately.


The harder we'll hit the ground.
The longer we wait, the more intense the consequences will be.


Now you know that I won't run away
I am committed to this and won't flee.


I'll be standing right here till you tell me
I am present and ready to listen.


That it's here that you want me to stay
I am willing to stay if that is what you want.


I'm making it clear
I am expressing myself directly and transparently.


I won't be the one to push you aside
I won't abandon you or dismiss your feelings.


I'm here for the future not just for the ride
I am here for the long haul, not just temporarily.


Are you hearing a word that I say?
Are you truly listening and comprehending what I am saying?


I know I can't carry on this way.
I know we can't continue like this.


It don't make it easier
Taking the easy way out won't help us.


It don't make it easier on yourself
Avoiding the truth is only making things worse for you.


But the further we'll fall
If we keep avoiding the problem, things will only get worse.


If we don't face it all
If we don't confront and deal with everything.


Right now
We need to take immediate action.




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