Love The One You're With
Classified Lyrics


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[Mic Boyd]
All I can do is watch while friends move out west
Thinkin' to myself, wonderin' who goes next
Kinda makes me feel like everyday I lose a step
I feel trapped and I gotta chew through the net

Now life moves on, I ain't gettin' any younger
All my high school friends all marryin' their lovers
My ex got a baby and she's carryin' another
While I'm still livin' with my mother, whateva!

Well my ___ we separate, yeah we seen better days
Had some great times and the memories never fade
But now it's time to move on and get that new job
And be happy for the friends that found true love
But by losing some friends, I think I gained some
You see, I remember where I really came from
And that is the people that been there since day one
It's called family, can't no one replace them (thanks son!)
I guess I been missin' the me
It's like I been gone without ever leaving
And now I finally see it
Disappeared for what seemed like ten light years
Searchin' for love but the whole time it's been right here

[Classified]
Yee, now I been told your friends are the family you choose
Your family you don't appreciate until you lose
'Scuse the attitude, I don't mean to kill the mood
But fuck it, I'm doin' Luke __
Do what's real for you, been growin' up
You could say I live and learn
My friends show me love and I give it in return
A lot of things have changed though
Ever since I came home
Infield isn't all sunshine and rainbows




See after high school, I never woulda ...
(I'll write the rest later)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Classified's song "Love The One You're With" are about the changes in life and the importance of valuing the people around us. Mic Boyd expresses his feelings of being left behind while his friends move out west and start their lives as he feels trapped and losing a step every day. He even mentions his ex-girlfriend, who is carrying another baby while he is still living with his mother, making him feel stagnant. However, he realizes that losing some friends has actually made him appreciate the people he truly cares about. The ones who have been there for him since day one, his family, are irreplaceable. He reflects on how he has been searching for love in all the wrong places, but it has been right beside him all along.


Classified's verse continues with the theme by emphasizing the importance of friends being family. He reiterates the old saying that your friends are the family you choose, and you don't appreciate your family until you lose them. He acknowledges that after he came back home, he realized that things have changed, and life isn't all sunshine and rainbows, especially in the Infield. However, his friends show him love and support, and he reciprocates that.


Overall, the song stresses the importance of valuing the people you care about and cherishing them. Life can be tough, and people come and go, but the ones who stick around and support you are the ones who truly matter.


Line by Line Meaning

All I can do is watch while friends move out west
I feel powerless as I see my friends move away to start new lives in the west.


Thinkin' to myself, wonderin' who goes next
I am constantly wondering which friend will be the next to leave.


Kinda makes me feel like everyday I lose a step
Their departures make me feel like I am losing my momentum in life.


I feel trapped and I gotta chew through the net
I am stuck in my hometown and must work hard to break free and make a life for myself.


All my high school friends all marryin' their lovers
All of my high school buddies are settling down and starting families.


My ex got a baby and she's carryin' another
My ex-girlfriend is having a second child with someone else.


While I'm still livin' with my mother, whateva!
Meanwhile, I am still living with my mom.


Well my ___ we separate, yeah we seen better days
My romantic relationship has seen better days and is now ending.


Had some great times and the memories never fade
While our relationship wasn't perfect, we shared some amazing memories.


But now it's time to move on and get that new job
It's time for me to move on and focus on my career.


And be happy for the friends that found true love
I should be happy for my friends who have found true love and happiness.


But by losing some friends, I think I gained some
Although I have lost some friends, I have also realized the true value of my family and close friends.


You see, I remember where I really came from
I am reminded of my roots and the important people who have been there with me from the beginning.


And that is the people that been there since day one
My true family and friends are the ones who have been there for me since the beginning of my life.


It's called family, can't no one replace them (thanks son!)
The love and support of family cannot be substituted by any other relationships.


Now I been told your friends are the family you choose
People often say that friends are the family you choose for yourself.


Your family you don't appreciate until you lose
I have come to realize that one can take family for granted until they are no longer around.


'Scuse the attitude, I don't mean to kill the mood
Sorry for the bad mood, I don't mean to bring everyone down.


But fuck it, I'm doin' Luke __
But whatever, I'm doing what I believe is right for me.


Do what's real for you, been growin' up
I have learned to prioritize what is truly important to me and to continue to mature.


You could say I live and learn
I have experienced a lot and have learned from my mistakes.


My friends show me love and I give it in return
I have a wonderful group of friends who love and support me, and I do the same for them.


A lot of things have changed though
Despite the constants in my life, many things have changed over time.


Ever since I came home
Since my return home, my perspective on life has shifted in many ways.


Infield isn't all sunshine and rainbows
Life in my hometown isn't always easy and happy-go-lucky.


See after high school, I never woulda ...
After graduating from high school, I never would have imagined how different my life would be now.




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