I Won't
Colbie Caillat Lyrics


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I won't do what you told me
I won't do what you said (no)
I'm not gonna stop feeling
I'm not gonna forget it
I don't wanna start over
I don't wanna pretend it
You are not my lover
That you're only my friend

Cause when you took my heart
It took it all
When you gave it back
I fell apart
So

I won't do what you told me
I won't do what you said, no
I'm not gonna stop feeling
I'm not gonna forget it
I don't wanna start over
I don't wanna pretend it
You are not my lover
That you're only my friend
My friend
I won't

Well, maybe you're not right for me
Maybe this is hard to see
I get lost in your beauty
And I just stop questioning
Cause when you took my heart
You took it all
When you gave it back
It fell apart
So

I won't do what you told me
I won't do what you said, no
I'm not gonna stop feeling
I'm not gonna forget it
I don't wanna start over
I don't wanna pretend
That you are not my lover
That you're only my friend
Friend
I won't

You say it's easier to burn than to build
You say it's easier to hurt than to heal
But I say you lose when you give up what you love
And I've lived my life without you long enough
So

I won't do what you told me
I won't do what you said, no
I'm not gonna stop feeling
I'm not gonna forget it
I don't wanna start over
I don't wanna pretend
That you are not my lover
That you're only my friend
Friend
I won't

I won't
I won't




I won't
No, I won't

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Colbie Caillat's song "I Won't" tell the story of a woman who has had her heart broken by someone she trusted, and who is determined not to let that person control her or manipulate her further. The repeated refrain of the song, "I won't do what you told me, I won't do what you said," is a powerful statement of defiance, a rejection of the kind of emotional abuse that many people experience in relationships. The verses of the song explore the pain and confusion that come with heartbreak, as well as the difficulty of moving on from a relationship that has meant so much.


The song includes a number of striking images that capture the singer's emotional turmoil. For example, in the second verse, the singer admits that she gets "lost in your beauty," suggesting that she may have been initially drawn to this person for all the wrong reasons. Later in the song, the singer challenges the idea that it's easier to hurt than to heal, arguing that ultimately, "you lose when you give up what you love." This is a powerful statement of self-love and self-respect, a declaration that the singer is no longer willing to compromise her own integrity and well-being in order to please someone else.


Overall, "I Won't" is a song about empowerment and resilience in the face of heartache. It's a reminder that we always have the power to take control of our lives and refuse to accept mistreatment at the hands of others.


Line by Line Meaning

I won't do what you told me
I refuse to follow your instructions


I won't do what you said (no)
I won't listen to you


I'm not gonna stop feeling
My emotions won't be suppressed


I'm not gonna forget it
I won't forget what you did to me


I don't wanna start over
I don't want to begin again from the beginning


I don't wanna pretend it
I won't pretend that everything is okay


You are not my lover
We are not in a romantic relationship


That you're only my friend
We are just friends


Cause when you took my heart
When you captured my love


It took it all
You took all of my love


When you gave it back
When you returned my love


I fell apart
I became emotionally broken


Well, maybe you're not right for me
Perhaps we are not a good fit


Maybe this is hard to see
Perhaps it's difficult to realize


I get lost in your beauty
I am captivated by your appearance


And I just stop questioning
I don't question my feelings for you


You say it's easier to burn than to build
You believe it's easier to destroy than to create


You say it's easier to hurt than to heal
You believe it's easier to cause pain than to mend


But I say you lose when you give up what you love
I think when you give up on what you love, you are losing


And I've lived my life without you long enough
I've been without you for a long time


Friend
A reminder that we are just friends


I won't
Reiteration of the refusal to comply with the other person's wishes


No, I won't
Another strong refusal to comply




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC
Written by: COLBIE CAILLAT, JASON REEVES, MAKANA ROWAN

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Comments from YouTube:

@simpliciteass

the intro to this actually makes my heart hurt thinking of little innocent aria in the first episode <3

@cc.laylasluvr

Same!! 😫❤

@amandataiscopetti1042

Yeah 👏🏻❤️

@terrancejustin2555

Same😊

@lilly27sings

I heard this on Pretty Little Liars and looked it up straight away cause I knew I'd be obsessed. I was right! Awesome song!!

@shavelbrown3198

Me too

@JakeFilmsProductioyt

Same with my brother

@ToRockyForYou

I loved this song as soon as I heard it on the show Pretty Little Liars!! (:

@blakedanielle2000

first PLL reference on this song!

@BextheGet

I just recently rediscovered this song and I'm SO in love with it!

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