Tell Me Why
Cold Lyrics


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I could see her fall from grace
Like a movie star too old to change her life
With a bottle by her hand
Every night she went away
I would pray for someone else to change her life
If she wouldn't change for me

Tell me why
Please tell me why
You stole my life

Tell me why

Just drown her fear in the same old song
Everytime you came back frozen deep inside
Was it my love that you feared
I was a misfit all the way
Never there to help me grow and change my life
Then you smiled and walked away

Tell me why
Please tell me why
You stole my life

Tell me why

All the little things she said to me
(said to me)
Were broken thoughts and tainted dreams
(tainted dreams)
If she can't take these memories
It doesn't change a thing
(it doesn't change a thing)
Every little word she said to me
(said to me)
That broke my heart and stayed with me
(stayed with me)
I wish that she could hear me scream
She never changed a thing

Tell me why
Please tell me why
You stole my life
Life

Tell me why

This can't go on
This can't go on
This can't go on




This can't go on
This can't go on

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Cold's song "Tell Me Why" tell the story of someone who has lost a loved one due to their addiction, and is struggling to understand why they couldn't change for the better. The opening lines describe the singer watching their loved one "fall from grace," using the imagery of a movie star too old to change her life. The loved one clearly has a serious addiction, with a bottle by her hand every night, and the singer has been praying for someone else to intervene and change her life.


The chorus consists mainly of the plea "tell me why," as the singer struggles to understand why their loved one couldn't overcome her addiction for the sake of their relationship. The next section of the song suggests that the addiction was a kind of barrier to the relationship, with the loved one "drowning her fear in the same old song" and "coming back frozen deep inside." The singer wonders if maybe it was his love that she feared - perhaps he was too intense or too demanding, unable to help her grow and change her life.


The final section of the song speaks again to the loved one's brokenness, with "broken thoughts and tainted dreams" and "every little word she said...broke my heart and stayed with me." The singer wishes that she could hear him scream, but ultimately concludes that "this can't go on." The song ends on this repeated phrase, underscoring the finality of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

I could see her fall from grace
I witnessed her decline from a higher status to a lower one


Like a movie star too old to change her life
She was like an actor who is too old to get good roles and turn their life around


With a bottle by her hand
She often drank alcohol and was frequently seen holding a bottle


Every night she went away
She would leave every night, perhaps going out to drink or distance herself from her current situation


I would pray for someone else to change her life
I hoped that someone else would influence her and improve her life


If she wouldn't change for me
If she was not willing to make any changes based on my influence


Tell me why
Asked as a rhetorical question, suggesting that there is no discernible reason


Please tell me why
A plea for an explanation, even though the artist may feel like there is none


You stole my life
The person in question took away the artist's sense of fulfillment and enjoyment in life


Just drown her fear in the same old song
She tried to numb her fear by listening to the same thing over and over again


Everytime you came back frozen deep inside
Whenever you returned from your time away, you seemed emotionally shut off


Was it my love that you feared
The artist wonders if their love was a source of fear for the person in question


I was a misfit all the way
The singer sees themselves as someone who doesn't quite fit in


Never there to help me grow and change my life
The person in question did not provide enough support for the singer to improve their own life


Then you smiled and walked away
After making no impact on the situation or relationship, the person in question left with a smile on their face


All the little things she said to me
The various remarks she made to the artist


(said to me)
A parenthetical reminder that these things were said directly to the artist


Were broken thoughts and tainted dreams
She spoke incoherently and her dreams were sullied in some way


If she can't take these memories
If she cannot handle remembering what she's said and done


It doesn't change a thing
Nothing will be improved or resolved even if she cannot handle the memories


Every little word she said to me
Another reference to the remarks made by her directly to the artist


(said to me)
Reiterated to emphasize the point


That broke my heart and stayed with me
The things that she said were deeply hurtful to the singer and had a lasting impact


I wish that she could hear me scream
The artist desires to express their anger to her directly


She never changed a thing
Despite the hurtful words and actions, she never made any effort to change herself or her ways


This can't go on
The current situation is unsustainable or unbearable


This can't go on
Repeated for emphasis and urgency


This can't go on
The situation must be resolved or ended


This can't go on
Stated one final time as a definitive declaration




Lyrics ยฉ Royalty Network, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: RONALD WARD, JR., SAMUEL MC CANDLESS, JEREMY D. MARSHALL

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