This song first appeared on Colin Hay’s 1998 album “Transcendental Highway”… Read Full Bio ↴This song first appeared on Colin Hay’s 1998 album “Transcendental Highway” but is more well known due to it’s inclusion on the soundtrack of the film “Garden State”, released in 2004. While many listeners assume that the narrator of the song is speaking of getting over a romantic loss, Hay has stated that the narrator in this song is actually pining for the loss of alcohol in his life. Hay had stopped drinking when he wrote this song and he was lamenting the loss of the routine that it had provided him.

I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You
Colin Hay Lyrics

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I drink good coffee every morning
It comes from a place that's far away
And when I'm done I feel like talking
Without you here there is less to say

Don't want you thinking I'm unhappy
What is closer to the truth
Is that if I lived till I was a hundred and two

I just don't think I'll ever get over you

I'm no longer moved to drink strong whiskey
I shook the hand of time and I knew
that if I lived till I could no longer climb my stairs
I just don't think I'll ever get over you

Your face it dances and it haunts me
your laughter is still ringing in my ears
I still find pieces of your presence here
even after all these years

I don't want you thinking that i don't get asked to dinner
cause I'm here to say that I sometimes do
and even though I may seem to feel a touch of love
I just don't think I'll ever get over you

if I live till I was a hundred and two
I just don't think I'll ever get over you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Colin Hay's "I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You" speak to the lingering and pervasive nature of heartbreak. Hay describes his daily routine of drinking coffee and feeling compelled to talk, yet finding less to say without the presence of his former love. He clarifies that his lack of words is not a reflection of unhappiness but rather an acceptance that he may never fully recover from the loss. Even with the passage of time and the shaking of the "hand of time," Hay believes that he will always carry a lasting connection to his past love, as evidenced by their memory still being present in various ways.

The song conveys a sense of bittersweet nostalgia that is relatable to anyone who has wrestled with the aftermath of a difficult break up. Hay acknowledges that he still receives invitations to dinners and that he may feel a sense of affection for others, yet there is an underlying sense that he is unable to fully move on. The final line of the song reinforces that sense of constancy, with Hay asserting that even if he lives to be over 100, he will never be able to fully let go of his former love.

Line by Line Meaning

I drink good coffee every morning
Starting the day with a good cup of coffee helps me feel ready to face the world.

It comes from a place that's far away
My coffee isn't just something I enjoy, it's a reminder of my adventures and the places I've been.

And when I'm done I feel like talking
Coffee makes me feel energized and ready to connect with someone.

Without you here there is less to say
But without you, I find myself at a loss for words. Conversation just isn't as meaningful without you in my life.

Don't want you thinking I'm unhappy
I'm not necessarily unhappy, but I'm not complete without you.

What is closer to the truth
The truth is that I miss you terribly and nothing can replace what we had.

Is that if I lived till I was a hundred and two
Even if I live to be incredibly old, I don't think I'll ever get over you.

I'm no longer moved to drink strong whiskey
I used to try drowning my sorrows in alcohol, but even that doesn't help me forget you now.

I shook the hand of time and I knew
I've come to understand that time doesn't heal all wounds; some pain just never goes away.

That if I lived till I could no longer climb my stairs
Even if I reach a point where I'm physically incapable of doing things on my own, I don't think I'll ever get over you.

Your face it dances and it haunts me
I can't escape the image of your face in my mind, it's always there, reminding me of what I've lost.

Your laughter is still ringing in my ears
I can still hear your laughter even though it's been years since we were together. It's like you're still with me in spirit.

I still find pieces of your presence here
Your presence lingers in my life, the places we shared and the things we did together have left their mark on me.

Even after all these years
Time hasn't dulled the pain of losing you, it's still as real and raw as ever.

I don't want you thinking that I don't get asked to dinner
I might go out and try to have a good time with other people, but it doesn't change the fact that you're still the one I want to be with.

Cause I'm here to say that I sometimes do
I want you to know that I'm still out there, trying to make the best of things, even if I'm still struggling to move on.

And even though I may seem to feel a touch of love
I might find fleeting moments of happiness or connection with someone else, but it's all just a pale substitute for what I had with you.

I just don't think I'll ever get over you
No matter what I do or how much time passes, I don't think I'll ever be able to let go of the love I have for you.

Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: COLIN JAMES HAY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@garyandrews1976

3y↑1

We all have a story to tell.
It’s just that some people are better at it than others.
Colin Hay is one of those people.
Masterfull story teller combined with beautiful guitar.
I lost my wife to cancer some 8 years ago
It took a long time but I eventually did get asked out for “dinner”.
I have just remarried (I’m 66).
A second chance for me, I feel so lucky.
God bless you Colin for your music, as it soothes the soul and always inspires.

All comments from YouTube:

@plumbersteve

1y↑111

Years ago, i was driving with my wife to meet her family on the beach. When we got to the beach, I stayed in the car and she said why aren’t you getting out? I said “because I want to finish this song” I was listening to Colin Hay on Prairie Home Companion”.
After the song was over, I got out and her dad got out of his car at the same time. She asked him what took him so long…he said “I was listening to Colin Hay on Prairie Home Companion”.

They say a woman looks for a man like her father. I don’t know how true that is, but this lends some credence to it.

@-GuitarZero

1y↑4

I love that story. I miss A Prairie Home Companion and Live From Here. For me, they were some of the most memorable music moments. They also gave me a lifetime of Dad jokes.

@TheToolscloud

4y↑1.2K

Lost my wife of 37 years 2 years ago. I have never felt a song like this before... rips me up in a memorable way. Thank you Colin.

@jolkraeremeark6949

4y↑29

Sorry, Skip, for your loss, but thank you for your perspective.

@actsbaptist

4y↑17

Bless you Skip!!

@pritcharddesign

4y↑24

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my partner 7 months ago. This song is so beautiful.

@SimoneBamboo

4y↑8

♥️♥️♥️

@cotreerat9108

4y↑13

best way to patch words to this emotions skip. My condolences for your loss

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@snook7100

30w↑9

Songfacts®:

Colin Hay wrote this song after a long battle with alcoholism that cost him his marriage and sent him into a depression. "I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You" came to him very quickly - it took him only about 40 minutes to write. The "you" in the song is alcohol, which was so important to him for so long that it seemed to take on its own persona. Sober, he can drink good coffee every morning, but he'll never completely get over the whiskey.

In 2007, he released a more direct song on this topic: "I Wish I Was Still Drinking."

@stringologymchugh4245

26w↑30

One of the most under-rated Scots singer-songwriter EVER!

@bubbaluv6487

19w↑1

he really is, kind of under the radar since the 80s

@gavincarrollmusic7401

13w↑1

Well said he's awesome

@kurtbicycle

39w↑42

This is the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard. My dad lost my mom four years ago. They were married for 57 years. This song is about my dad since my mom’s death. This song gives voice to my fathers tragic loss. Thanks Colin.

@stephaniebatten5861

2y↑6

He broke up with me when I was 20. At 59, this song hits home. Ily A.F. Always will.

@rogerbecker2122

39w↑7

2 yrs ago today, I lost my husband of over 47yrs. He was a musician/guitarist & the love of my life. He loved this song, music is how he expressed his feelings. He had a whole list of love songs for us. It is now my reality as I will never get over losing him. He was an amazing person, his love was endless & unconditional. Thank you Colin.

@victorperez1965

3y↑6

I'm listening to this song in the bathroom and I'm crying like a baby thinking I'm so happy having my wife and son with me. I thank everyday to life for this privilege. This song reminds me how important they are to me. Thank you Colin, you are a true artist, touched my soul. Greetings from Argentina.

@dennispescitelli8356

2y↑235

This rendition should be released as a standalone single. It's the best I've seen or heard anywhere, including the original cut on Transcendental Highway. Colin's guitar and vocals are so powerfully elegant. Masterpiece level.

@leebarrineau5456

2y↑14

Transcendent. I just saw Colin Hay in person only hours ago in Atlanta. And while his performance of the song was incredible, I couldn't help but think of this recording, and this variation of his song. The phrasing on the line, "I just don't think" is unlike any other recording, and it is... transcendent. And the slower pace of the song is like a confession.

But in the end, I guess it doesn't really matter, I was still in tears before the end of the song.

@byronjohnson4097

2y↑5

Couldn't agree more - this version is incredible and deserves its own release!

@glennfwilliams

39w

Agreed Colin loves his open D tuning I [think} but man his performance that night was right in the pocket

@gregoryjackson9654

35w

I rather wholeheartedly agree. This performance, this rendition, is simply how it's done. Bravo, mate.

@mitchmuscat8089

33w↑12

I lost my girlfriend.
21 year to go. I dedicate this song to her, her name was Jackie. I love the song. I don't drink anymore and I drink coffee.
This is a awesome song. I relate to it and it helps me so much mind, body soul spirit.😊❤❤❤❤

@Cognitoman

27w

21 years ago?

@robingoodrich4498

32w↑37

Everything about this. The lyrics kill me every time. Exquisitely honest. No pretense. No drama. His voice. The guitar. It’s just all so poignant.

Thank you Mr. Hay. You are an amazing talent. This song has gotten me through some rough nights.

@PACOMON68

27w

Amen. This is great song writing. A musical gift card.

@DK-dx3gx

2y↑32

My husband passed away about 2 weeks ago. He always loved this track from the garden State soundtrack. I can't stop listening to it and it breaks my heart. it says everything I need to feel and everything I'm going through and it's really really hard right now.

@davidcurson5206

❤

@sweetcron3819

So sorry for your loss. 😔

@bones549

Prayers

@davegardner5672

1y↑1

It gets easier.
Trust me..I know

@DK-dx3gx

@Dave Gardner I'm trying to figure it out. But it's not getting easier yet..

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@SlamHammer23686

3y↑140

Can we all stop for a second and appreciate the lovely tone that acoustic puts out and the playing that accompanies it. Tremendous.

@dougloggie2880

3y↑4

a beautifully built Maton

@70snuttodd95

1y↑6

Was thinking the same, I play acoustic and this sound grabbed me, beautiful tone and chimey like I had to look closely because it sounds like a 12 string or 9 string guitar, his music is powerful

@michellenotherday1482

1y↑2

@70snut Todd I heard he usually plays with a “drop D”, which I think adds fullness to the sound. My son, before he passed away a few years ago, tried to get me to tune down and learn using it, but I never tried until I heard this acoustic version and followed the video Colin did on playing it in drop…such an awesome and under rated musician he is! And my son was right. I love it Tu Ed that way now…

@70snuttodd95

1y↑2

@Michelle Notherday , sorry for your loss, music and love is the healer

@DaveDexterMusic

I actually really dislike the sound, it sounds plastic and processed. Despite the fact that it seems to be miked up, it sounds like a cheap onboard acoustic pickup to me.

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@edmerkel2407

2y↑68

Just stumbled onto Colin Hay today. I know, I'm late to the game...I'm just glad I got here. Not every musician affects us on an emotional level, This song succeeds in doing that. Truly beautiful.

@rectify2003

1y↑2

Better late than never
Welcome

@BreaktheTrend

1y↑2

Never too late Ed. Sometimes you just have to thank the fates for peeling back the onion to reveal exactly what you need for a particular moment in time. Enjoy. We're in the company of a true legend here.

@okiepol

3y↑38

Lost my wife to a stroke last year and have grown to love this song. I’m a big Colin Hay fan, but had never heard this song until she died, and it’s provided me loads of comfort. ❤️

@SamJohnson26

5y↑577

“Your face it dances, and it haunts me. Your laughter still ringing, in my ears. I still find pieces of your presence here... even...even after all these years.” - Unbelievable

@leonardbarron8684

4y↑24

straight from the heart of one who has been there

@pepperjanehq

4y↑5

I know right 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 WOW

@drone2778

4y↑8

This hits hard.

@thedoobiesistersandsackbla3342

4y↑1

yeah...........................................whew!!!!!!

@glosstech1

4y↑6

The emotion in this song is so so overwhelming , it hits really hard.

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@arthurclarke3731

19w↑4

Am I the only one that thinks this has to be one of the best live ecoustic songs ever recorded it's flawless

@lindsaymuse3705

4y↑134

I heard this song for the first time on the Garden State soundtrack in 2004, when I was 18 years old. A few months later, my dad died of a massive heart attack. To this day, 15 years later, I can’t listen to this song without thinking of him and completely breaking down into tears. “Your face, it dances, and it haunts me.. your laughter still ringing in my ears. I still find pieces of your presence here, even after all these years.”

@Joey.R

2y↑6

Late to this, but I feel the same way about my mama. She died of liver cancer about a month after diagnosis. Came out of nowhere, she never drank a drop in her life, just went for a checkup and her bloodwork was way off, no other family members had ever gotten cancer. But I think of her and my dad when I hear this. He passed in 09, her in 15. I was in my mid 20s and early 30s, and I miss them both terribly. I was the youngest and stayed back to help them as they were older and both had issues getting around. My older brothers left the state, so it was me and them since I was around 12.

@michaelwhite8031

1y↑2

God bless you

@cesiralucia

I’m so sorry. I lost my dad last summer… the memories of him over all of the years have been flooding back since. I don’t think I’ll ever get over the pain of losing him.

@pymebones

1y↑1

@Eric Rivera quite similar story here, Eric. I hope you are doing well.

@amywalsh542

51w

Late to this post....i read this, and it made me so sad for you. I still have my dad, but he is my hero and my best friend. Reading your story broke my heart, I just really felt for you and your pain. I know you will never forget your dad, but I hope the pain has gotten easier with time, I wish this for you! ❤

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@kennyswain1596

4y↑309

I have been on YouTube for several years and have never commented on a video.....at least not until now. This is one of the most masterful performances I have ever seen. At the same time, it's genuine. My hat is off.....

@mrwankie

3y↑7

Don't lie, I can clearly see your hat is on, sir.

@justinhuff7915

3y↑12

Keep commenting on things that move you. YouTube could use more real comments instead of garbage that fills our day.

@luismartins6239

2y↑1

You are not a YouTube virgin anymore, welcome to the team, becarefull commenting in YouTube is addictive...
As you can see.....
Congrats Kenny and welcome to a new world

@susanlaurence8745

41w↑1

I was the same and then I commented and have received many responses that filled my heart with support and agreeance for my headache and love for beautiful music. I love this forum

@lorismith1412

2y↑44

I lost my 15 year old son in 2009 , I will never get over him 💔

@michaelwhite8031

1y↑2

God bless you and comfort you !

@marymem9864

1y↑2

That is heartbreaking 💔 You never completely heal from that.

@richardferris6976

1y↑3

❤

@susanl.fensore1314

1y↑1

💔

@charlesbraun8867

36w

Lori i wish i could say something to comfort you. Cherish those 15 years .

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@genyolkartosupono

45w↑3

Do you know Matty Healy, the frontman of the 1975? Number 1 public enemy of the century, he's been punished more than he should be.. (I don't want to go into that hatred any further, people won't listen either way)

No one dares to stand or be seen with him; even his girlfriend leaves him at his lowest point.

Yesterday, he sang this song to open the concert of his own band, the 1975. He is a man. Men tend to ignore their own hurt or feelings, but it is the way he regulates his feelings, singing the song that suits him. It is so lovely to see him finally able to regulate his feelings. We are not his family, we are just his fans.. but, we consider us as the friend of the band. We love their music.

As one of his fans, I am so thankful that your song exists to save him and help him go through this darkest valley. Your artwork is amazing. This song is so beautiful.. Thank you, sir! Keep on shining like a star...❤

@MrTibbs90

4y↑190

I've been divorced for 14 years. I still haven't gotten over my ex. She was the most wonderful part of my life and gave me the most wonderful daughter. I don't know how I've been so blessed to still be in contact with her. Nowadays, I just feel blah because I do miss my ex, her smile, her laughter, her singing. If you ever have issues in your marriage don't be afraid to get counseling. I wish I would have, but I was a different person back then.

@davidknowler4719

3y↑15

Mr Tibbs , just reflecting on your post , shit I feel exactly the same , I will never get over my ex . I know I wont . We did so much , so much , then it went wrong . I wish , as you do , I had sort counseling as well . I have told her I will love her till the day I die .Still we have a fantastic daughter, who is just so , so sound . we talk couple of times a week , so good . I am lucky in another respect , Music , and listening to this Colin Hay just inspires me to play well . Oh for my daughter and music . ciao. btw got my name up there , dont care .

@AdjectivesRGreaterThanPronouns

3y↑7

I don't think I'll ever get over my Janis either, some days are better than others but I always feel like I'm just wandering aimlessly thru life just going from one goal to the next in an effort to stay occupied but in those rare moments that we're together I feel a sense that I'm home.

@smithy280663

3y↑4

yep............know how you feel........

@vincentfisher3885

Sorry to hear that - listen to Colin's intro (long, but good). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HaNlJ5kxWDM

@bsmith8943

3y↑2

Yep. Same here man.

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@josecorrea175

3y↑28

Years later I keep returning to this song, it contains all of the elements of my life written by a man who has never met me. And yet, knows everything about me.

@q9738

45w↑5

Matty Healy brought me here 🖤🤍

@68404

6y↑718

Being old, sad, drunk, and lonely brought me here

@1984PointGuard

6y↑66

68404 You're not alone in your loneliness, friend :)

@tombonaroo7937

5y↑6

Loser

@andylong5211

5y↑20

I'll drink to that, you just describe my thoughts except I have an angel lookin over me

@hangingwithmatty9465

5y↑3

@Tom Bonaroo 🤣🤣

@doggonemess1

5y↑51

Being old, sad, drunk, and lonely is what made this song, too.

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@BlueGuitars1

3y↑61

Iv'e just listened to the most beautiful Song I have ever heard and just found Colin thank you Colin you made an old man very happy l lost my Partner Roger 5 years ago we were together for nearly 40 years he was the most beautiful person l have ever known and he would love this Song thank you Colin. 🎵🎶👍

@robert9407

27w↑1

That guitar is the most beautiful I’ve ever heard, as well it should for $19,000. Played beautifully of course.

@mcdflint

5y↑273

I've given up drinking for a couple of years now and every time I feel like a drop of "strong whiskey" I watch this video and it just makes me feel good about myself. Thanks Colin.

@philipwilliams5808

4y↑7

Congratulations! Keep it up friend.

@sergiopimentel337

4y↑4

Proud of you! Love yourself and your family 🙏👏☺️

@williammcmillan1108

3y↑3

thanks

@williammcmillan1108

3y↑1

awesome

@mcdflint

3y↑9

Thanks for the encouragement but in January 2020 I broke my leg so went into "lockdown" early, and then Covid sealed my fate; and still is! About 3 months go I started drinking again; no whiskey, just beer and wine. Sad but I didn't want to die without having a beer! I still listen to this so many times and I'm sure it will help me give up again, hopefully sooner rather than too late. I turn 70 next week so I hope I give it up soon. Where there's a will there's a way and when there's a will there's hope.

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@bengotagun

3y↑198

What I love about this song, and all of his songs really, is how unassuming the lyrics are. There’s no pretense, he says exactly what he means. He says it plainly and earnestly. And it’s still incredibly moving and deep.

@RichardHughes15

3y↑10

You are exactly right. So much strength underneath his hurt. That is what makes this song so special. He’s not feeling sorry for himself or complaining . He’s just breaking your heart.

@RetroTekGuyAU

2y↑8

It's funny you say that because nearly everyone here thinks he's singing about a long lost lover. He's actually singing about alcohol

@pepperjanehq

2y↑3

@Dr Quin Barra we paint these things in ways people can see their own pains in it. It's magic, isn't it?

@RetroTekGuyAU

2y↑1

@Pepper Jane Yeah absolutely. As I stated in another comment everyone has the right to interpret a song anyway they feel like. I just thought it'd be interesting to some as to what the songs actually about. I myself attach my own lost love pain to this song as well.

@mtotheHo

2y↑1

You would like Hemingway.

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@richardcasper2209

4y↑26

Grew up w Men at Work. 40 yrs later and I stumble across Colin Hay, thanks to a Norman’s Guitar video of him playing Overkill. Then.... I find this. No words.

@barrybr1

Me too.

@waltersobchak2540

Same here....

@KS-sh4xn

Totes

@andrewsantarsiero5342

7y↑454

certain songs stop you in your tracks. This song did just that. Incredibly haunting, a .masterpiece.

@SummitGuitarSchool

Andrew Santarsiero Agreed!

@butchquintana913

5y↑2

Andrew Santarsiero agreed truly amazing the music has that ability. But found that with other songs and artists. This is absolutely a masterpiece.

@kobyashimaru1353

4y↑1

Andrew Santarsiero Totally agree. A simple yet haunting song

@daddyg59

4y↑1

Andrew Santarsiero oh so true. Sadly damn true!

@nemesys6

4y↑3

waiting for my real life to begin did that to me

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@SteveMiller-yw7kv

3y↑4

Two years ago the love of my life walked out of my life after being married for over twenty years.. it's living hell to see someone you love with every fiber of your being becoming a complete stranger before your very eyes..in some ways it is worse than death..God help me keep believing that there is still hope

@independentmusicguy

1y↑6

At least once a week, I look at Colin's tour schedule to see if he is coming within hundreds of miles of my home. If he ever plays in the midwest or south, I will be there. This guy has the gift.

@matthewridgway8374

4y↑33

How has Colin not had a proper renaissance? Good lord what heart breaking brilliance.

@48tilt

Need s a bit more rock

@prew123

1y↑32

As always, this man tells chilling stories in his songs.
But I also want a to put my hands up for the sound guy. This mix is insanely good

@E-M-66

14w

My second comment here. Still listening to this heartbreakingly beautiful song. I just can't let go of him. I'll never get over him. He is my twin flame. I'm stuck in crippling silence not knowing how to speak to anyone. I can't bring myself to even message him because what can i say that's not already been said.
One day i hope i find someone who asks me to dinner for the right reasons and will love me genuinely. He will forever haunt my heart.
He and I should be together. I hate this! Some other girl in his arms no doubt and I'm STILL being loyal in the hopes he comes back. Call me an idiot but that's just where I'm at. 💔

@adolpholiverbush2

6y↑117

Colin, in the September of his years, sober and strong, is finally getting his deserved recognition.

Love ya, mate, since way back in '82.

@norwegianblue2764

34w↑3

We all have chapters in our lives. This is a beautiful example of how a later chapter can be glorious, when we thought our best days were behind us.

@tubingtomtom

22w↑1

I know Santa Cruz guitars are great and all.
But this guy can make a guitar sound like an orchestra. It’s more him than the instrument. He has become my top five acoustic favs over the years. Often number 1…
As I feel now

@smokestackstudiosgem

5y↑78

Thank you Colin for articulating one of the most difficult things to say when you are hurting beyond belief.

@marydonald1224

@richardlavoy4

3y↑4

We were married forty three years,this song makes me think of the love we shared, cancer ended our time together but music helps tremendously. Thank-you and keep singing

@LagmasterB

The 180 people that downvoted this are empty inside... are puppy killers in their off-time.

@andyrobertson4096

6y↑831

He draws from a deep well of sorrow and doesn't spill a drop on the way up.

@dave1wood571

6y↑26

i love that..i don't say that often on this site

@tomv3999

6y↑14

Very well said.

@iamdjsluggo

6y↑14

Very poetic and acurate

@doggonemess1

5y↑20

I've spilled a few drops because of this song.

@MyChrissyb

5y↑9

What a glorious thing to say Andy Robertson.,tis a great song ,sung from his heart I'd say.

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@boljdurk8790

24w↑2

This is music, this is talent. 117000 views and he is still the king... the king in the shadows. May you sing forever Colin, I sure as hell appreciate you.

@turbo7757

1y↑8

One of the best songs ever written. Colin is so underrated- he is a unique talent and just absolutely brilliant. Thank you, Colin for all you have done for me with your music and others that find you as great as I do.

@turbo7757

Would love to play drums on any of your tours. I’m not a hack - been on the thick of things with big national bands.

@otto5378

32w↑1

This video should have 100 million views.

@chriswasdell2776

40w

To quote a lady who did a show that featured Colin's biography.. "The best living troubadour of our time."

@manuelarturog

4y↑15

23 years ago I met the only woman I´ve ever loved. now she´s married to another man, has 3 children and lives far away and after all that i can´t get over her.

@NigelTaylor7609

7y↑523

One of the greatest song writers of our generation.

@MarceloSilva-cz4yu

7y↑8

I agree 100%!!!!!

@charlieranger4598

6y↑7

One of the greatest Dudes ever! Everybody should know that. :-/

@CowbellProfessional

6y↑7

Agree. I can't get sick of Overkill, no matter how many times I listen or play it. His acoustic version is great as well.

@andymayneguitartuition922

6y↑1

True comment ! No one goes close

@marksmela7748

6y↑6

Storyteller vs. songwriter. Colin is 100% a storyteller.

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@maryhilliard206

1y↑13

This just shredded me... your ability to captivate your listener is tremendous....Mr. Hay, thanks for the enlightenment.

@ksl1816

2y↑5

Our brains always remember it, coffee helps me to and forget it. Perfect song...well done Colin. Thank you.

@justbe646

4y↑13

Finally YouTube’s algorithm has found a most phenomenal artist of LOVE

@mizb.9170

40w↑1

Oh my Peter 😢miss you on this earth, our grand babies are beautiful

@channelinfinity7084

40w↑8

Just found this tonight. How heartbreakingly beautiful. What a talent.

@vericose1001

4y↑4

This song helped me heal from the death of my mother on 4/28/05. There wasn't much else to lean on at that time. Thank you, Colin, for this release. Song writing at its very finest.

@bethdixon501

15w↑1

My Daughter Dana Forever30 met him years before she passed away in September 2022. She knew him from his appearances on Scrubs & I grew up listening to him ❤️🕊️🙏🏻👑🪽✝️ My Princess loved this man 🙏🏻🕊️👑✝️

@octaneartllc

4y↑20

"Don't cry because its over smile because it happen"

-Dr Seuss

For those who have loved and lost, there may be nothing that can replace what you've lost but thats also what made it so special...
Moments are gifts live in the present fully.

@jameselkin4687

5y↑116

I have to listen to this one more time for the 50th time.

@jameselkin4687

4y↑7

Still here two months later. Such a heartbreaking song!

@golin3760

I just discovered this song. I'm on number 25 of repeats!

@markadams7328

I'm not sure how many times for me, but I still get something 'new' out of it every time.

@angelicaluce3230

Colin can BREAK YOUR HEART and within moments HE HEALS IT AGAIN - with the PROMISE in HIS SPIRIT!
GOD BLESS YOU COLIN - FOREVER

@remforever7466

3y↑3

I wonder if you’ll find me here.
I visit often.
Always with a heavy heart.
Remembering how good it was... until it wasn’t.
I miss you every single day.
I just don’t think I’ll ever get over you.
💔

@rileyschilling9268

10w

🙏❤‍🩹

@TheRocknRollGhost

6y↑359

Colin has what some rightfully call a "signature voice." There are so many amazing singers, but then there are those whose voices have a truly unique signature. It's simply something you're either born with, or you're not. It is a rare gift. I could listen to him sing from the phone book.

@tossedpenny

6y↑19

Jason Furlong it truly is incredible. The videos do not do him justice. I've seen him live a few times now and when he hits his high notes at full volume it takes your breath away and you then realize you are witnessing something magical and unique. And his song writing skills are on another level. John Mayer himself said he wishes he could someday write a song as good as Colin can. Quite the complement right there.

@TheRocknRollGhost

6y↑13

tossedpenny
Well said, my friend. Colin is my favorite kind of artist: he prefers the journey to any one destination, and he trusts his instincts. He truly has what they call “artistic integrity” and it’s impossible to imagine him ever losing that. Cheers.

@stanarthur

6y↑12

When Colin sings, there is no mistaking it.

@BobStein

6y↑11

Yes, but ... then there's his GUITAR!!

@Bigfella1068

6y↑6

The late actor Leo McKern who played Rumpole in Rumpole of the Bailey was the same with his speaking voice. I heard the same quote about him with his voice. They said he could read the phone book and make it sound like Shakespeare.

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@Psilocybin77

41w↑1

I have one of those memories that becomes engrained in your soul. I was desperately in love with my first girlfriend and she broke up with me to be with my best friend. A kind of loving friend who'd moved 3 hours south down the highway, invited me to come visit for the weekend. One evening, after a stressful day of moving, then a nice long talk and dinner, we went for a drive around night time Calgary, Alberta. As we explored this gorgeous, old part of the city, this song was playing. I wondered if I'd remember that girl many years down the road. I still do. I love this song, for the memories and for something beautiful long gone.

@leslieharrington4535

41w↑1

My big brother and I listened to the Garden State soundtrack on the way to the airport every time we would skydive. This soundtrack was our blessing. Our lucky charm. I was terrible at skydiving (he was great!), and it’s a miracle that I survived it. But this song- and that whole soundtrack- have always meant everything to me. That was many years ago that we were jumping out of planes like a couple of nuts, but those memories are everything to me.

My big brother moved on to the next world just a little over a week ago.

I never knew how much that soundtrack- and this song- would mean to me.

@marlaplunk2833

4y↑7

Knowing that he wrote this song about his alcoholism and the life he struggled to live after giving up drinking makes me love it even that much more. Of course, we can all interpret the song as how it feels to have lost a loved one. In his words, he did lose a loved one when he quit drinking. And he had to learn to live without it. Unbelievable lyrical capture of that struggle. And as a guitar player myself, I can say that it's VERY difficult to match that kind of expression in your playing to the expression of your words and voice. He's flawless in his effort to do just that.

@jarlebernhoftofficial4640

You have such a profound impact on my carrier that even the biggest thank you text would fall short to express my gratitude. Thanks for your support❤❤❤

@RobertoMaioDosil

2y↑6

For me this song is about my mother, I'm almost 50 years old and I still miss her every day... It's amazing how the same song can mean so many different things and at the same time so similar. Thank you Colin for all these years of music that touches people in so many different ways.

@stephkof

2y↑1

Can't send this song to Carol, she never wants to see or hear from me again. If I had one more chance, this song is what I would say to her, word for word. It may not change anything but at least I'll have had my say. Thank You Colin Hay

@charleskellogg8386

5y↑3

I love this guy, I have listened to Colin since he started. My father was killed in a train accident and we played Colin's Father song at his funeral! It was insuperably!

@jimthompson8409

1y↑2

Skip, perfectly put. I managed to see him performing last Friday 3 Feb 2023 in London.
The songs lyrics and your words are both very moving, my sentiments exactly.
I hope you find peace and may your young wife rest peacefully.
Jim T.

@blueguy3451

Thank God this video doesn't have ads so I can listen to this on repeat.

@rikvee

39w↑4

I was too young, too young when I worked with Men At Work to realize how good you are Colin, songs like this illustrate again how great your talent is, thank you for not giving up!

@youknowme7150

52w↑2

Such beautiful testimonials to ❤ on here, all so different, some with great sadness, prompted by this truly stunning music. It shows the power of love we are all capable of, how lucky we are to have experienced ❤ in such depth to be hit so hard by this song. How very vulnerable, yet strong, the human race is, including all of us commenting on here. Even on our most difficult days and when we want to curl up and fade away, we try to keep going. To the person who introduced me to this song, the lyrics remain true....even after all these years. If you ever see this post, and work out who I am, you'll know who you are 💛

@allthebass

5y↑22

What a perfect performance of a perfect song. His vocal phrasing is so relaxed and full of character. Absolutely beautiful.

@bobbyboykin7137

3y↑6

One of the most under-rated talents ever. The more I listen to his catalog and live performances, the more I get humbled by the enormous talent he has. Well done, sir.

@andrewwislocki7389

Lost my wife of 52 years two weeks ago - so painful but this song says how I feel.

@Bigtime1998

11w↑1

This is a masterpiece.

@tinahamilton707

2y↑3

I wish I could talk to this man...to let him know that no matter what his life's pathway has been he has been blessed by God. He has so much soul and talent and I've been blessed by it. Every note has a purpose. May the Lord bless and keep you Colin.

@luc4metal

2y↑19

what i love about DADGAD tuning is that when its played like this it sounds firm, but also has this vibration that almost makes me think of a cat purring..
these chords make me feel so melancholy too.
absolute beauty of a song :)

@plumbersteve

Never knew this was the tuning. I just played in drop D. I bet this is much easier. 🤦🏻‍♂️

@tonyhaines3093

2y↑2

How rich is the tracking on that guitar, too? Beautiful <3

@beaverfribente982

4y↑1

lost my son now with god miss him every day 1980 love you shaune

@adamweston4152

6y↑100

Such a beautiful song, I lost my girlfriend nearly five years ago and these lyrics are very meaningful to me. Thanks Colin.

@emmawilcock1304

5y↑4

Im sorry Adam x

@Lucitin

5y↑4

Same exact thing here. July 9, 2014.

@beaverfribente982

5y↑10

I lost my son in 1980 and this song says it all for me crying happy

@phillipmoshoyannis2158

5y↑5

I am sorry to hear that. I lost mine last year, and like you, this song means so much.

@thomassullivan4742

4y↑2

Condolences.....to move on.....

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@garyandrews1976

3y↑1

@charlieranger4598

3y↑1

Wow! This man is a living legend. Thank you, Colin! And sorry for all the guys here in the comments which are still suffering because of their terrible loss.

@bobbyjones55

5y↑13

This is one of the most sad and beautiful songs that I have ever heard. I think this is the best Colin has ever done.

@randytate2755

30w↑3

Not many artists quite like Colin. The voice,his Melodie’s and story telling is remarkable!

@skyy256

5y↑5

That was truly spectacular...here I am at 52 yrs of age and I’ve never heard this song before ....jeez

@killab5505

6y↑78

This is one of those songs that you love from the first moment until you realize you love it even more later. Anybody still pumping blood can relate, and can we take a moment to appreciate the incredibly warm guitar? I don't know what he paid for that instrument, but its sound is worth more than the purchase price.

@paulhennessy419

5y↑3

What a song what a voice

@dss2856

5y↑6

Great instruments help, but the life of the instrument is the person playing it.

@ianabbott4939

4y↑5

After my beautiful wife of 23 years left, this hits home.

@tonirodriguez6649

2y↑1

I lost my dearest and closest friend 4 years ago. Even though this song is about losing a partner it has so much that speaks to me about the loss of my dearest Shannon.
We traveled together and had so many memories and shared secrets that now there really is so much less to say because she is the only one who I could talk to about so many things. So much of my life and keepsakes around me reminds me of her too. It broke my heart when she left us.
I miss her terribly and don’t think I’ll ever get over losing her 🥲

@andrewlighton

22w

Lost my boy xmas eve ,25 yr old , he turned to drugs after losing his mum , MS , then my mum then my dad .
All in 5 yrs ,
This is OUR song

@marilynharrington9821

20w↑1

Bless you...

@robert9407

28w↑1

Probably the most beautiful song ever

@lisas9034

11w

I was the only one "married" in my marriage of 18 years. He was unfaithful, and I was blind. He never even did anything nice for me. He died in 2023, 23+ years after our divorce was final. This song fits me to a T. I've remained single.

@johnnybrace

6y↑295

the guitar work is also stellar...

@mrmusic248

5y↑9

John Brace: He does accompany himself well, doesn't he.

@Truthmoses

5y↑1

indeed.

@johnysmrz

5y↑2

Ehm... nope :) It is just the magic of alternative tuning (afaik he using drop-D or DADGAD often). Because you are not used to this tuning it sounds amazing.... that is all :)

@prestontaylor8549

4y↑9

@Jan Smrz you're right he totally sucks, ha.

@9legolas7

4y↑37

@Jan Smrz Ehm... nope, his guitar work is stellar. Yes its an alternate tuning and fairly simple, but his dynamics and technique are spot on. Good try though on attempting to seem smart from your expansive guitar knowledge, cheers :)

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@jackiepaval5759

18w

I am so glad I am learning that the presence of my loved ones will always be with me🎉😊❤

@jennielomaa3996

3y↑1

Just lost my husband two weeks ago and the memorial is tomorrow. I am shattered. We love this song. And all the Aussie greats. He was an Aussie.

@disneydorks6396

3y↑1

I lost my wife last year..........this song really floods me with with all the emotions my broken heart can stand. Thank you for sharing this Colin.

@SteveFinnegan

3y↑17

When I sit down and try to write a song... this is the kind of song I hope I’ll write.

@roberthunter3048

4y↑20

The nuances in this performance are something I hope everyone hears...it's what makes it

@rustyupton168

2y↑1

And only six people have figured it out, I live with one that doesn't hear anything special about songs like this...very sad

@kimb50

50w↑8

Breathtakingly beautiful song 🎶

@VonDutch68

There are 4 songs that resonate beyond words for me.
Empty Chairs, Don Maclean
Both Sides now, Joni Mitchell
Overkill, Colin Hay.

And this one.....I still am not over you

@ktd2956

I've come back to this so many times and it touches my soul more each time,such memories come flooding back of times with my lady,we met in July 1973 when we were both sixteen,married at 21 and had four beautiful daughters over the next 6 years,Times were tough but we always got through them together.But now 49 years later,I am losing her to Alzheimers and soon all that I will have is those memories.Bitter sweet ,many good times,some hard,hard times.But she was always by my side through it all.