They have released two EP's: Innocence Surround and Introduction, a demo and four full length albums: Shout The Truth in 2008, which was re-recorded and re-released when Joel Piper joined the band in 2009, Recover in 2010 and then All Is Calm in 2013. The band ended in 2010, but had a comeback for their last album released in 2013.
All former members (in order of joining):
Jeffrey Helberg (2004 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): guitar (only original member left)
Aaron Van Zuthpen (2004 - 2009): guitar, vocals (now in Nekrogoblikon)
Joshua Plesh (2004 - 2007): vocals
Billy Pruden (2004 - 2009): bass
Jason Pickard (2004 - 2006): drums
John Paul Penton (2006 - 2007): drums
Ross Kenyon (2007 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): vocals (Ex-PenknifeLovelife)
Arin Ilejay (2007 - 2009): drums (ex-Avenged Sevenfold)
Joshua Patrick Paul (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): guitar (Ex-In Fair Verona)
Joel Piper (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): drums, vocals (also in Avery PkwyEx-Olivia the Band)
Trevor Vickers (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): bass (Ex-Underneath The Gun)
Confide was formed by Joshua Plesh, Aaron Van Zuthpen, Billy Pruden, Jason Pickard and Jeff Helberg. They were in the same youth group and wanted to start a hardcore band. Two EP's were recorded in this formation: Innocence Surround and Introduction.
In the end of 2006, drummer Jason Pickard left the band and was replaced by John Paul Penton. Joshua Plesh also left the band. Ross Kenyon (who was fronting Penknifelovelife at that time) contacted Jeffey Helberg through the internet and told him he wanted to sing in an American band because his girlfriend lived there.
After being in the States for three months, Ross was forced to move back to England and John decided to quit the band.
In July Ross moved back to California and Arin Ilejay joined the band on the drums. In this formation they recorded Shout The Truth and their videoclip for If We Were a Sinking Ship.
In March 2009 two new members were introduced to the band: Joshua Paul and Joel Piper. Aaron and Arin left the band because they wanted a normal life off the road.
With Joel taking over the clean vocals, they re-recorded Shout The Truth and also a cover of The Postal Service's 'Such Great Heights'. They also recorded a videoclip for that song.
In August 2009 Billy Pruden, bassplayer and founding member, left the band. He was replaced by Trevor Vickers.
Vickers was introduced on their national headliner tour 'Thriller Tour' with Agraceful. They also recorded a video for 'I Never Saw It Coming' in September.
In December 2009 the band recorded their new album with Joey Sturgis (Asking Alexandria, The Devil Wears Prada, Attack Attack!). The album was released in May 2010 and featured one single Tighten it Up..
On October 4th, 2010, it was officially announced by Confide of their breakup. They have stated that they'll part ways when they return from their tour of Japan in early October. The band plans to play a handful of farewell shows on the West Coast. A statement released on behalf of the band says, "There is no easy way to say this at all but it's time to put an end to all the rumors you guys keep hearing about us breaking up. Unfortunately, the rumors are true and we wish we could have been the first to tell you guys but there are reasons why we couldn't release this statement until now. We want to be 100% honest with you guys and let you know the real reasons that Confide will be no longer because you deserve to know. First of all, we want to let you know that each member of the band remains friends and the band breaking up was a positive thing and nothing bad happened to result in this. After being a touring band for over three years now, Confide is on the road for nine to ten months out the year and for some people in the band, it was getting to be a struggle to be gone so much, living in a van, sleeping in parking lots and not eating/sleeping well. We absolutely love making music, playing shows and especially meeting/hanging out with fans but we feel God has a new chapter for our lives right now. Around two weeks ago, Joshua, Trevor & I (Ross) sat down and talked about how we felt about touring and how it is really taking a toll on our lives. After the talk, we then sat down as a full band and told Jeff & Joel how we felt and they were very understanding and knew exactly what we were going through. Jeff & Joel discussed keeping Confide going but we decided as a group that it would be for the best if Confide came to an end after our Japan tour, which is in early October. Each member of the band will continue to work in the music industry in some way or another, whether it be in a band, work for a record label/management company, work in a studio, or whatever it may be, we're not giving up on music and you will definitely hear from each of us again. We hope that you guys will show each of us the same support that you have shown Confide over the years. Since the beginning, Confide has been a band that strives to help, encourage and inspire people and even though the band will be no more, we want you guys to still be able to talk to us on a personal level so if you ever want to talk or just say hey, please never hesitate to contact us through our Facebook, twitter or myspace profiles. As a huge thank you to our fans, we will be doing a bunch of farewell shows. We'll post dates and details on the farewell shows once we get back from Japan and figure all of that out. We want to thank fans and give you guys a chance to come to a show and celebrate the life of Confide with us."
The fans missed Confide and the band listened to the words online. The band started a Kickstarter campaign and on September 30, 2012 Confide was successfully funded and had received $38,709 in fan support for their album project to be released in 2013 called All Is Calm. Confide performed on several festivals after this.
The members of Confide have gone on to take part in many other bands and projects, most notably Avenged Sevenfold and Of Mice & Men. Former drummer Arin Ilejay joined Avenged Sevenfold and then was fired from the band, but as of 2015 has joined the nu metal band Islander. Drummer Joel Piper started his own solo project after quitting Of Mice & Men, and later the band Lifelong with also previous Confide members Ross Kenyon and Trevor Vickers. Aaron Van Zutphen currently plays in the metal band Nekrogoblikon.
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Confide Lyrics
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I've been waiting, I've been taking notes
All along
What did you expect to happen
When you left us out
Did you think we would give up?
Just look at us now
It's not the same without you here
And so we all agree
I really hope your dreams come true
And that you think about me
Absolutely lost and broken
How can you say we need you now?
We need you now and forever
You never did tell me what you wanted
I've been waiting, I've been taking notes
All along
For what you said, for what you did
You've been waiting, you've been losing hope
For so long
I thought you knew that this was coming
I sung this just for you
But don't be afraid to sing along
Because it's all that you can do
I hear your name a thousand times
Everywhere I go
If it's declared that we've moved on
I want everyone to know
Look at me now!
You never did tell me what you wanted
I've been waiting, I've been taking notes
All along
For what you said, for what you did
You've been waiting, you've been losing hope
For so long
Absolutely lost and broken
How can you say we need you now?
We need you now and forever
In Confide’s “Delete,” the lyrics describe a relationship that has ended; one where the other person never communicated their wants and needs. The singer of the song has been waiting and taking notes trying to understand what went wrong. The other person left them out of the equation, but did not think they would give up. The singer hopes that the other person’s dreams come true, but also wants them to think about them. They are lost and broken without the other person, and it is unclear why that person chose to leave in the first place. The song emphasizes that the singer needs the other person now and forever, despite the pain that ensued.
The song’s lyrics illustrate the idea that communication and keeping each other in the loop about one’s needs and wants is essential in a relationship. The singer feels lost and broken without the other person, and it is clear that the other person had something to do with it. However, the singer still wishes the other person the best and hopes their dreams come true. The song has a melancholy tone and emphasizes the pain that one goes through when one’s relationship ends. The song is a testament to the fact that while moving on is possible, it is still hard to do so.
Line by Line Meaning
You never did, tell me what you wanted
You never expressed what you really desired, leaving me in the dark
I've been waiting, I've been taking notes
I've been patiently waiting for you to tell me what you wanted and keeping tabs on our interactions
All along
This has been going on for a while
What did you expect to happen
What did you think would occur? Did you believe we would give up?
When you left us out
When you excluded us from your life
Did you think we would give up?
Did you believe we would quit trying to connect with you?
Just look at us now
Observe how we've persevered and grown without you
It's not the same without you here
Things have changed since you've been gone
And so we all agree
Everyone is in agreement
I really hope your dreams come true
I genuinely want your aspirations to be fulfilled
And that you think about me
I hope that I am still on your mind
Absolutely lost and broken
Feeling completely disconnected and shattered
How can you say we need you now?
You abandoned us before, how can you expect to come back and be necessary?
We need you now and forever
Despite your disappearance, we still require your presence and involvement permanently
For what you said, for what you did
For your statements and deeds
You've been waiting, you've been losing hope
You have been waiting for something from me while feeling disappointed and discouraged
For so long
This has been going on for an extended period
I thought you knew that this was coming
I believed you had anticipated this situation
I sung this just for you
This song was written particularly for you
But don't be afraid to sing along
However, don't hesitate to join in and participate
Because it's all that you can do
Because that's the only option you have left
I hear your name a thousand times
Your name is mentioned frequently around me
Everywhere I go
In every location I visit
If it's declared that we've moved on
If people believe that we have progressed without you
I want everyone to know
I want everyone to be aware
Look at me now!
Despite your absence, look at how well I am doing!
Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JEFFREY HELBERG, JOEL PIPER, JOSHUA PAUL, ROSS KENYON, TREVOR VICKERS
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Tragic Hero Records
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Alex Hernandez
I remember seeing this band live when I was 13. Was an awesome experience. This song still bangs
Alessandro Conti
The best memories of my life, thank you Confide
Madara
I love this song
Cassie Hibben
this is my number 1 favorite band ever!
ANTONIO ECHEVERRIA
no son las unicas pro yo amo mas a confide me se la mayoria de sus canciones :3
Melvin González
No eres la única! :) Esa es la pregunta que yo aveces me hago cuando escucho mi música :D PD: Yo también AMO Confide *-*
Kyle Tyre
High School memories <333333 Recover is honestly my favorite Confide album...just nothing quite like it.
yogiprodigy
Awesome song like it allot!
Mackenzie Rayne
I love this song <3