They have released two EP's: Innocence Surround and Introduction, a demo and four full length albums: Shout The Truth in 2008, which was re-recorded and re-released when Joel Piper joined the band in 2009, Recover in 2010 and then All Is Calm in 2013. The band ended in 2010, but had a comeback for their last album released in 2013.
All former members (in order of joining):
Jeffrey Helberg (2004 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): guitar (only original member left)
Aaron Van Zuthpen (2004 - 2009): guitar, vocals (now in Nekrogoblikon)
Joshua Plesh (2004 - 2007): vocals
Billy Pruden (2004 - 2009): bass
Jason Pickard (2004 - 2006): drums
John Paul Penton (2006 - 2007): drums
Ross Kenyon (2007 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): vocals (Ex-PenknifeLovelife)
Arin Ilejay (2007 - 2009): drums (ex-Avenged Sevenfold)
Joshua Patrick Paul (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): guitar (Ex-In Fair Verona)
Joel Piper (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): drums, vocals (also in Avery PkwyEx-Olivia the Band)
Trevor Vickers (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): bass (Ex-Underneath The Gun)
Confide was formed by Joshua Plesh, Aaron Van Zuthpen, Billy Pruden, Jason Pickard and Jeff Helberg. They were in the same youth group and wanted to start a hardcore band. Two EP's were recorded in this formation: Innocence Surround and Introduction.
In the end of 2006, drummer Jason Pickard left the band and was replaced by John Paul Penton. Joshua Plesh also left the band. Ross Kenyon (who was fronting Penknifelovelife at that time) contacted Jeffey Helberg through the internet and told him he wanted to sing in an American band because his girlfriend lived there.
After being in the States for three months, Ross was forced to move back to England and John decided to quit the band.
In July Ross moved back to California and Arin Ilejay joined the band on the drums. In this formation they recorded Shout The Truth and their videoclip for If We Were a Sinking Ship.
In March 2009 two new members were introduced to the band: Joshua Paul and Joel Piper. Aaron and Arin left the band because they wanted a normal life off the road.
With Joel taking over the clean vocals, they re-recorded Shout The Truth and also a cover of The Postal Service's 'Such Great Heights'. They also recorded a videoclip for that song.
In August 2009 Billy Pruden, bassplayer and founding member, left the band. He was replaced by Trevor Vickers.
Vickers was introduced on their national headliner tour 'Thriller Tour' with Agraceful. They also recorded a video for 'I Never Saw It Coming' in September.
In December 2009 the band recorded their new album with Joey Sturgis (Asking Alexandria, The Devil Wears Prada, Attack Attack!). The album was released in May 2010 and featured one single Tighten it Up..
On October 4th, 2010, it was officially announced by Confide of their breakup. They have stated that they'll part ways when they return from their tour of Japan in early October. The band plans to play a handful of farewell shows on the West Coast. A statement released on behalf of the band says, "There is no easy way to say this at all but it's time to put an end to all the rumors you guys keep hearing about us breaking up. Unfortunately, the rumors are true and we wish we could have been the first to tell you guys but there are reasons why we couldn't release this statement until now. We want to be 100% honest with you guys and let you know the real reasons that Confide will be no longer because you deserve to know. First of all, we want to let you know that each member of the band remains friends and the band breaking up was a positive thing and nothing bad happened to result in this. After being a touring band for over three years now, Confide is on the road for nine to ten months out the year and for some people in the band, it was getting to be a struggle to be gone so much, living in a van, sleeping in parking lots and not eating/sleeping well. We absolutely love making music, playing shows and especially meeting/hanging out with fans but we feel God has a new chapter for our lives right now. Around two weeks ago, Joshua, Trevor & I (Ross) sat down and talked about how we felt about touring and how it is really taking a toll on our lives. After the talk, we then sat down as a full band and told Jeff & Joel how we felt and they were very understanding and knew exactly what we were going through. Jeff & Joel discussed keeping Confide going but we decided as a group that it would be for the best if Confide came to an end after our Japan tour, which is in early October. Each member of the band will continue to work in the music industry in some way or another, whether it be in a band, work for a record label/management company, work in a studio, or whatever it may be, we're not giving up on music and you will definitely hear from each of us again. We hope that you guys will show each of us the same support that you have shown Confide over the years. Since the beginning, Confide has been a band that strives to help, encourage and inspire people and even though the band will be no more, we want you guys to still be able to talk to us on a personal level so if you ever want to talk or just say hey, please never hesitate to contact us through our Facebook, twitter or myspace profiles. As a huge thank you to our fans, we will be doing a bunch of farewell shows. We'll post dates and details on the farewell shows once we get back from Japan and figure all of that out. We want to thank fans and give you guys a chance to come to a show and celebrate the life of Confide with us."
The fans missed Confide and the band listened to the words online. The band started a Kickstarter campaign and on September 30, 2012 Confide was successfully funded and had received $38,709 in fan support for their album project to be released in 2013 called All Is Calm. Confide performed on several festivals after this.
The members of Confide have gone on to take part in many other bands and projects, most notably Avenged Sevenfold and Of Mice & Men. Former drummer Arin Ilejay joined Avenged Sevenfold and then was fired from the band, but as of 2015 has joined the nu metal band Islander. Drummer Joel Piper started his own solo project after quitting Of Mice & Men, and later the band Lifelong with also previous Confide members Ross Kenyon and Trevor Vickers. Aaron Van Zutphen currently plays in the metal band Nekrogoblikon.
I Am Scared Of Me
Confide Lyrics
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And hope there's something more to
This wretched place called home,
That we continue to drown in
We must be more than this
Something had to be said before we,
Followed the footsteps, of everyone else
The world has eyes to see, between you and me
And how cruel we are
Tell me I am born,
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
Tell me I am born,
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
O God can you keep me grounded?
I don't wanna let it pull me under
O God keep me grounded,
I don't wanna let it pull me
Under keep me grounded,
Don't let this pull me under
O God keep me grounded,
Don't let this pull me under
Why do we continue to,
Live day by day without you?
Are we too proud,
To ever move out from your comfort?
Now I could never live without
The strong beat that continues to
Get me through these days
That are getting colder in this dying land
[Chorus]
The world has eyes to see,
Between you and me
And how cruel we are
Tell me I am born,
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
Tell me I am born,
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
[Chant]
Tell me I am born,
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
Tell me I am born,
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
I'm not home, until I'm done in this place
I'm not home, until I'm done in this place
I'm not home
This is so clear to me
This is understanding
The lyrics to Confide's song "I Am Scared Of Me" reflect a desire to break free from the monotony and despair of everyday life. The lyrics suggest that there must be something more to life than the present reality, and there is a need to break away from the conformity of following in the footsteps of others. The lines "We need to break the mold, And hope there's something more to this wretched place called home," express the sentiment that the world has more to offer, and there must be an escape from the daily routine.
The chorus emphasizes the cruelty that people show to each other and reminds listeners that their actions are being observed by the world. The lines "The world has eyes to see, between you and me, And how cruel we are" suggest that our actions affect not only ourselves but also those around us. The need for validation and recognition is also apparent in the lines "Tell me I am born, Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on," as the singer seeks affirmation of their existence and worth.
In the final lines, the chant "I'm not home, until I'm done in this place," expresses the desire to break free from the current reality and find a new home. The song suggests that transformation is possible, but it requires a willingness to break free from the norm and seek something more profound.
Line by Line Meaning
We need to break the mold
We should try to be different and not follow the same pattern as others.
And hope there's something more to
We wish that something better exists beyond our current situation.
This wretched place called home,
The place that we live in currently feels miserable to us.
That we continue to drown in
We keep on suffering and struggling in our current situation.
We must be more than this
We are meant to be greater than what we are currently.
Something had to be said before we,
We need to speak up before it's too late.
Followed the footsteps, of everyone else
We don't want to end up regretting following the same path as others.
The world has eyes to see, between you and me
Other people can observe the difference between us.
And how cruel we are
They may see us as being unkind or mean.
Tell me I am born,
Please confirm that I am worthy of existence.
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
Assure me that I am as valuable as the things you hold in high esteem.
O God can you keep me grounded?
Oh God, can you help me remain humble and not lose my sense of self?
I don't wanna let it pull me under
I am afraid of being overwhelmed and lost in my struggles.
Why do we continue to,
What is the reason we have to keep on?
Live day by day without you?
Why do we have to keep on living without your guidance and help?
Are we too proud,
Are we too arrogant to ask for help?
To ever move out from your comfort?
Are we not willing to leave our comfort zone and try new things?
Now I could never live without
I cannot survive without
The strong beat that continues to
The strong strength and courage that keeps on
Get me through these days
Helps me cope with the difficulties in my life
That are getting colder in this dying land
The situation seems to be getting worse in a place that is slowly dying.
Tell me I am born,
Reiterate that I am deserving of existence.
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
Tell me that I am as significant as the things you value the most.
I'm not home, until I'm done in this place
I don't feel a sense of belonging here until I have completed what I set out to do.
This is so clear to me
I understand this so well.
This is understanding
This is the wisdom I have acquired through my experiences.
Tell me I am born,
Again, please assure me of my worthiness.
Tell me I'm worth the ground you walked on
Please emphasize my value again.
Contributed by Mila R. Suggest a correction in the comments below.