On the Outside Looking In
Connie Francis Lyrics


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I'm on the outside looking in
An' I wanna be, an' I wanna be back on the inside with you
You are with somebody new and I don't know what to do
'Cause I'm still in love with you (in love with you)

I'm on the outside looking in
I don' wanna be, I don' wanna be left on the outside all alone
Well, I guess I've had my day as you left me go my way
Now it's me who has to pay

I never should have gone away
I never should have gone away and left you, like I did
With tears in your eyes
I thought you'd take me back
But now, to my surprise (to my surprise)

I'm on the outside looking in
Gotta find a way, gotta find a way
Back to your heart, dear, once again
Won't you take me back again?
I'll be waiting here till then
On the outside looking in (ah-ah-ah-ah)

Won't you take me back again?
I'll be waiting here till then
On the outside looking in (ooh, ooh, ooh)
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
On the outside looking in (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, looking in
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
I don' wanna be, I don' wanna be




I don' wanna be looking in
Oh, looking in

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Connie Francis's song "On the Outside Looking In" depict the sorrowful emotions of a person who has lost their loved one to someone else. They wish to return to the relationship, but they feel cut off from the inside, where they want to be. The singer can't seem to get over the fact that their previous lover has moved on, leaving them alone and stranded. The pessimistic language of the verses amplifies the gloomy undertone of the song. The singer repeatedly uses phrases like "left on the outside all alone," "now it's me who has to pay," and "to my surprise," highlighting an undercurrent of shame, hopelessness, and despair. The singer longs to go back to the past, where they made mistakes and try again. They still love their ex-partner, but they regret the choices they made that brought them to this moment.


In summary, the song conveys a sense of resignation and melancholy that also reveals the universal theme of heartbreak and regret—a theme that resonates with many listeners.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm on the outside looking in
I feel excluded and isolated from you and your life.


An' I wanna be, an' I wanna be back on the inside with you
I long to be a part of your life again and have the same closeness that we used to have.


You are with somebody new and I don't know what to do
Your relationship with someone else is causing me distress and confusion about what actions to take.


'Cause I'm still in love with you (in love with you)
My feelings for you have not faded and I still have romantic love for you.


I don' wanna be, I don' wanna be left on the outside all alone
I don't want to feel like I'm completely on my own without you.


Well, I guess I've had my day as you left me go my way
I recognize that you wanted to go a different direction in your life and I let you, but I regret doing so now.


Now it's me who has to pay
I am bearing the consequences of my choice to let you go and it is a heavy burden.


I never should have gone away and left you, like I did
I realize that leaving you was a mistake and I regret that decision now.


With tears in your eyes
I caused you emotional pain when I left, as evidenced by the tears you shed.


I thought you'd take me back
I had hope that you'd forgive me and we could be together again.


But now, to my surprise (to my surprise)
I was wrong and things did not turn out the way I had hoped or expected.


Gotta find a way, gotta find a way
I am determined to do what it takes to regain your love and trust.


Back to your heart, dear, once again
I want to return to being close to you and having your love.


Won't you take me back again?
I am asking for your forgiveness and a second chance at our relationship.


I'll be waiting here till then
I am committed to waiting for you and hoping for our reconciliation.


On the outside looking in (ah-ah-ah-ah)
I am still separate from your life and looking in from afar.


Oh, looking in
My perspective is that of an outsider, looking in on a life that I long to be a part of again.


I don' wanna be, I don' wanna be
I want to change my current situation and no longer feel isolated from you.


I don' wanna be looking in
I don't want to feel like I'm on the outside and missing out on being close to you.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: HOWARD GREENFIELD, NEIL SEDAKA

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Comments from YouTube:

steelmanK

I've been a Connie Francis fan for 65 yrs and I've never heard this before. It's iconic Connie - albeit, this is a little known recording. Thank you for posting this.

Christopher Quinn

My favourite, old time, Female singer. God Bless, her soul.

jakre10

I absolutely love this song. I loved it from the first time I heard it

Ozmulki

Thank you jakre10

Tarquin45

I have quite a large collection of Connie’s songs, but never heard this one before. I like it very much indeed. Apparently, she never had much of a liking for country music at first, but grew to love it thanks to Don and Phil Everly’s influence on her. Undoubtedly, a great, great singer.

Ozmulki

Tarquin45 gladypu liked it.

Gladys Betancourt

MARAVILLOSA CONNIE 😘

Joe Smith

she is one beautiful lady you cannot mistake her beautiful voice she had songs on nearly every jukebox in the UK has one or more song i have got quite a collection of her songs, she dresses beautiful she looks so glamorous she is the best, god bless you miss Connie have a wonderful life and a happy one you made a lot of us very happy with your songs thank you again.

Michael Turner

Neil Sedaka wrote and recorded this beauty in English and German.

William Dane

Thanks for posting this recording from 1960 unissued till Bear Family Records finally did so.

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