Second Hand Love
Connie Francis Lyrics


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They tell me that there's someone else you really truly love
And even when we kiss that she's the one you're thinking of
I guess it's true 'cause once or twice you called me by her name
I need you so but now I know that you don't feel the same
It's all over town, you've put me down
A second hand love, a second hand love

Though late at night I sit alone and count the tears that fall
I'd rather have this kind of love than not see you at all
My friends all say I'm better off if we should drift apart
But every day I hope and pray I'll be first in your heart
It's all over town, you've put me down




I'm a second hand love, a second hand love
Just a second hand love, a second hand love

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Connie Francis's "Second Hand Love" describe the feelings of a woman who is in love with a man who loves someone else. Despite the fact that he often calls her by the other woman's name and it's known around town, she prefers to have this small piece of him rather than not have him at all. She sits alone at night, counting the tears that fall and hoping every day that she'll be first in his heart. The lyrics are bittersweet, showcasing the pain of unrequited love and the desperation to hold on to what little love she can get.


The repetition of "second hand love" throughout the chorus highlights the woman's sense of being disposable and replaceable, as if she is only a temporary fix until the man's true love comes back around. This presents a sad reality for many people who give their hearts to someone who can't or won't reciprocate fully. Despite this, the woman's love endures, showing the power of their connection even if it's not ideal.


Line by Line Meaning

They tell me that there's someone else you really truly love
People have informed me that you are in love with someone else.


And even when we kiss that she's the one you're thinking of
During our kisses, you are thinking about the person you truly love.


I guess it's true 'cause once or twice you called me by her name
I suppose it's true because you have accidentally referred to me by her name a few times.


I need you so but now I know that you don't feel the same
Although I crave your love, I have come to accept that you don't feel the same way about me.


It's all over town, you've put me down
Everyone knows about our situation and you have caused me emotional distress.


A second hand love, a second hand love
I am experiencing a love that is not reciprocated, it feels like I'm just a backup plan.


Though late at night I sit alone and count the tears that fall
During late hours, I'm alone and crying over our troubled relationship.


I'd rather have this kind of love than not see you at all
I would choose to endure this type of relationship rather than cutting ties with you completely.


My friends all say I'm better off if we should drift apart
People who care about me believe that it would be healthier for me to end things with you.


But every day I hope and pray I'll be first in your heart
Despite our situation and what others say, I still hope and pray to be the one who holds the biggest place in your heart.


Just a second hand love, a second hand love
I am still feeling like a second choice in your eyes, and our love feels one-sided.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: HANK HUNTER, PHIL SPECTOR

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Rick Eden

This has always been my favorite Connie Francis song. And there are SO MANY to choose from. It's the perfect Connie Francis song. She brings a huge smile to my face whenever I hear her. The one and only!

jakre10

One of my favorite country type songs that Connie did. She was the most versatile singer ever

Jorge Mario Rodas

I always liked Connie Francis as she could really sing with feeling.  I was one of her fans in those days. And what is more, her songs are still good to hear so many years later.

Walt Eb

Hi Jorge Mario Rodas, yes, I agree. Connie is simly the best, thanks for the comment. Walt

George May

Connie backed by Floyd Cramer on piano , the Jordanaires' vocals , and the rest of Nashville's "A Team". What a sound !

Walt Eb

+George May
Hey George,
is one of the best songs ever, thanks for checking it out. THX

luis grant

Produce by Phil Spector

George May

In spite of the horrible way Phil Spector's career came to an end , we should all remember what a huge contribution he made to our music history .

Rene LeClerc

Yes, George, the so-called "Nashville Sound" was the big thing in the early 60s, and Connie wanted to tap into it.  She did so quite successfully.

Rebel Racer

Well I now have a new favorite Connie Francis song. Four Stars! One of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard. Thanks so much for posting it.

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