Why Don't We Talk About It
Crowell Rodney Lyrics


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Once I had a woman with a high hand
And I let her treat me mighty low man
She made a lover of my best friend
And now he treats me like a has been

Yes, I've had my trouble with the world around me
No, I didn't give it my best
Now I get a chance to see some better weather
If you want to stay forever
Why don't we talk about it now

Yes my reputation says I'm flaky
Hey my whole situation's kinda shaky
Some people 'round here think I've lost it
They drew the line I stepped across it

Yes, I've had my troubles in some certain circles
No, I didn't bring it on myself
Now I get a chance to know they'll eat their words
And if you don't care what you've heard
Why don't we talk about it now

Sometimes I make it all up in my head
There's a whole lot of things that should have never been said
This new ground feels solid that I'm standing on

I have done some things that might amaze you
But then again most things don't even phase you
You got a way of standing steadfast
I've got a way of running dead last

Yes, I've had my trouble trying to start over
No, I didn't give it all I could
Now I get a chance to know what love can heal
And if you want to know the feeling
Why don't we talk about it now





If you want to know the feeling
Why don't we talk about it now

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Rodney Crowell's song "Why Don't We Talk About It" are a reflection on past mistakes and missed opportunities for communication. The first verse recounts the singer's experience of being wronged by a former lover and friend, and the regret they feel for not speaking up about their feelings. The second verse alludes to the singer's reputation as unreliable and erratic, with others perceiving them as having "lost it." However, the singer expresses a desire to start fresh and work things out through open and honest communication, hence the repeated refrain of "why don't we talk about it now."


Throughout the song, there is a sense of vulnerability and self-awareness, as the singer acknowledges their past mistakes but also expresses hope for a better future. The line "sometimes I make it all up in my head" suggests a tendency towards overthinking and anxiety, but the final verse emphasizes the stability and support that the singer's partner provides. The song as a whole is a plea for honest and open communication, and a recognition that it's never too late to start.


Line by Line Meaning

Once I had a woman with a high hand
I used to be with a woman who had a lot of control and power over me.


And I let her treat me mighty low man
I allowed her to mistreat and disrespect me.


She made a lover of my best friend
She started a romantic relationship with my best friend.


And now he treats me like a has been
As a result, my best friend now treats me with disrespect and disregard.


Yes, I've had my trouble with the world around me
I've had difficulties dealing with the people and situations in my life.


No, I didn't give it my best
I didn't put my all into trying to overcome those difficulties.


Now I get a chance to see some better weather
But now, I have an opportunity to experience something more positive in my life.


If you want to stay forever
If you're interested in being in a long-term relationship with me.


Why don't we talk about it now
Let's discuss our future together and what we both want.


Yes my reputation says I'm flaky
People view me as unreliable and inconsistent.


Hey my whole situation's kinda shaky
My life and circumstances are uncertain and unstable.


Some people 'round here think I've lost it
Some people believe that I've gone crazy or become unstable.


They drew the line I stepped across it
I crossed the line of what was socially acceptable.


Yes, I've had my troubles in some certain circles
I've had difficulties in certain social groups or communities.


No, I didn't bring it on myself
It's not entirely my fault or doing that I've faced these troubles.


Now I get a chance to know they'll eat their words
But now, I have an opportunity to prove those people wrong.


And if you don't care what you've heard
If you don't believe or care about the negative things people are saying about me.


Why don't we talk about it now
Let's discuss whether or not you're willing to be with me despite what others are saying.


Sometimes I make it all up in my head
Sometimes I create situations in my mind that aren't based in reality.


There's a whole lot of things that should have never been said
I've said and done things that I regret and wish I could take back.


This new ground feels solid that I'm standing on
But now, I feel like I'm on more stable ground and am making better choices.


I have done some things that might amaze you
I've accomplished some impressive things that might surprise you.


But then again most things don't even phase you
But you're not easily impressed by those things.


You got a way of standing steadfast
You have a strong and unwavering personality.


I've got a way of running dead last
But I tend to be slower or less successful in my endeavors.


Yes, I've had my trouble trying to start over
I've encountered difficulties when attempting to make a fresh start.


No, I didn't give it all I could
I didn't give my all when trying to start over.


Now I get a chance to know what love can heal
But now, I have an opportunity to experience healing through love.


And if you want to know the feeling
If you're interested in experiencing that healing with me.


Why don't we talk about it now
Let's discuss the possibilities of growing together through love and healing.




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Alberto Rinaldis Basses

One of the best songwriter of the last decades!

soulhealer49

True country! An amazing song with incredible low number of views!!

Frank Shearer

A big fan of Rodney,thanks for making these songs available ❤️

Rhondalove

Wow! This is just awesome. Time well spent indeed! THANKS FOR SHARING.

Stella Hansen

Great song.

Neil Brennan

Love it

wa2k99

I'm sad that I only just now found this. Gem.

Richard Sepulvado

From the best album of the past 30 years.
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Chris Ryan

Great song. Video is just okay.

lonewizzard

Now it's time for some Bluebird Wine!

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