I'm Not the Same
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When my soul is in pain
I'm going away
Going away, yeah, we're both going our ways
You want me to come along
But, I'm not coming undone
It's never going to be the same again

Come and see my fingernails are growing
The woman at the store recall my name
Yeah, I'm sorry if I was coming on as a burden
I'm never going to be the same again

I had to bring it up
A small complaint
Bring it up and moving on
We'll meet again..
So goodbye my absent friend
Don't know where - don't know when
It's never going to be the same again





Come and see my fingernails are growing...

Overall Meaning

In the opening stanza of the song, it seems like the singer is trying to get away from a difficult situation or person, which has caused him emotional pain. The lines "When my soul is in pain, I'm going away, going away, yeah, we're both going our ways" indicate that the singer and the object of his pain are separating from each other. The next line "You want me to come along, but I'm not coming undone" shows that the singer is resolute in not letting the situation or person affect him any longer. He has decided to leave and not get affected by it anymore. The final lines of that stanza - "It's never going to be the same again" - reinforce his decision to make a clean break and not look back.


In the second stanza, we see the physical manifestation of the singer's emotional turmoil. His nails are growing, which could indicate that he's either struggling with anxiety or depression or that he's neglecting his self-care due to his emotional state. The lines "The woman at the store recalls my name, Yeah, I'm sorry if I was coming on as a burden" are indicative of the singer's awareness that his emotional state has not gone unnoticed. He's apologized for what he perceives as putting a burden on the woman at the store. The final line of the stanza, "I'm never going to be the same again" confirms this point.


In the final stanza, we see the singer trying to move on from the situation. He has a small complaint that he voices before moving on. "We'll meet again, so goodbye my absent friend, don't know where, don't know when", indicates that he's hopeful about the future, possibly meeting his friend again, but he's not sure when or where. The song ends with a final confirmation that things are never going to be the same again.


Line by Line Meaning

When my soul is in pain
When I am experiencing deep emotional hurt


I'm going away
I am leaving, physically and emotionally


Going away, yeah, we're both going our ways
We are both heading in different directions, parting ways


You want me to come along
You desire my company and want me to stay


But, I'm not coming undone
But I will not lose control or give in to the situation


It's never going to be the same again
Things are changing permanently and will never be the way they were before


The woman at the store recall my name
The store assistant remembers me


Yeah, I'm sorry if I was coming on as a burden
I apologize if I seemed like a problem or inconvenience


I'm never going to be the same again
I am transformed and cannot go back to the way things were before


A small complaint
A minor issue that I am bringing up


Bring it up and moving on
Addressing the problem and continuing to move forward


We'll meet again..
We will see each other again in the future


So goodbye my absent friend
Farewell to a friend who is no longer present


Don't know where - don't know when
Uncertain of the time and place of our next meeting




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