Stolen Moments
Dan Fogelberg Lyrics


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Every time we speak, our words betray intentions
Insincere inventions that never quite reach the heart
So we turn the other cheek and gather our defenses
Again rebuild the fences that just been keeping us apart

Waiting out the worst, we keep the best inside us
In hopes our hearts can hide us, in hopes our tears don't show
And you know we're not the first to try and breach the distance
And though we meet resistance the love between us grows

And in the time it takes us to look beyond the lies
We could be sailing through each other's eyes
And in those stolen moments when love is caught off guard
We see it never had to be this hard

Every time we speak, our words betray intentions
Insincere inventions that never quite reach the heart
So we turn the other cheek and gather our defenses
Again rebuild the fences that just been keeping us apart
And in the time it takes us to look beyond the lies
We could be sailing through each other's eyes




And in those stolen moments when love is caught off guard
We see it never had to be this hard

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Dan Fogelberg's "Stolen Moments" are a poignant reflection on the difficulty of sincere communication in a relationship. The first verse suggests that the singers have been unable to express their true feelings to one another, instead resorting to insincere language that fails to reach the heart. This has resulted in a distance between them, symbolized by the metaphor of the fences they have erected. The second verse acknowledges that this is a common problem in relationships, and that it takes effort to overcome. The singers are waiting out the worst moments and keeping their true feelings hidden, in hopes that their love can still grow in spite of the barriers they have set up.


The chorus points to the possibility of genuine connection between the singers, if only they can get past the lies and defenses that have built up over time. The "stolen moments" referred to are those elusive instances when love breaks through and acts as a bridge between them. The repeated lines emphasize that the singers have the power to change their situation, if only they are willing to look beyond their own fears and reach out to one another. The final line, "We see it never had to be this hard," is a poignant commentary on the self-created difficulties that can arise in relationships, and an invitation to look beyond them to the love that is still present.


Line by Line Meaning

Every time we speak, our words betray intentions
Our spoken words always reveal our true intentions


Insincere inventions that never quite reach the heart
We often craft insincere excuses that fail to convince or charm


So we turn the other cheek and gather our defenses
When faced with rejection, we usually protect ourselves from hurt by being defensive


Again rebuild the fences that just been keeping us apart
To keep ourselves safe, we typically retreat and establish a safer distance


Waiting out the worst, we keep the best inside us
During adversity, we tend to suppress our real emotions and show only our best selves


In hopes our hearts can hide us, in hopes our tears don't show
We hope by concealing our true feelings, we can prevent further vulnerability or harm


And you know we're not the first to try and breach the distance
We aren't the first to attempt to bridge the gap between two people who are distant or disconnected


And though we meet resistance the love between us grows
Despite the difficulties, love can still persist and strengthen between two people


And in the time it takes us to look beyond the lies
If we focus on the truth and sincerity, we might be able to avoid further hurt and resolve issues faster


We could be sailing through each other's eyes
If we truly communicate and understand each other, we could easily overcome the emotional distance


And in those stolen moments when love is caught off guard
During unexpected moments when love is revealed, usually when defenses are down or not at all planned


We see it never had to be this hard
We realize that if we had opened our hearts and communicated honestly earlier, love could've been easier to achieve




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DAN FOGELBERG

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