It's Safe to Say You Dig the Backseat
Dance Gavin Dance Lyrics


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I threw her away on the second we met
I couldn't have lied, I tried I was cashing a check
The ink was smeared, the lines were drawn and scribbled unclear
A cancellation, its time to learn to fly
Now that I've decided that you cant be trusted
One by one, wasn't that fun, this party dies, fades away

Late night phone calls that end in surprise
I can't believe you would give up your dignity
Just to take a ride with me
And how does it feel to be used
Climb in the back seat like luggage
Whores don't trip, they bleed on the tapestry

Whores don't trip, they bleed at the bar
Its your persistence that makes me sick its not the sight of your face
And now I am so faint caught up in just this way
I know that you can be more then this
This wasn't what I wanted you said I sewed that dream alive
Climb farther into hate is it this back seat making you itch

Morals become something from a dream
this isn't the way to blow off steam its all in your head
Give up this is making me sick my patience is wearing thin
I will be leaving you now stay away for long
Drag his body down to the mill,
Cut the ice with counterfeit bills, I'll take my share
Like lightning bolts that strike down in pairs

This is all justified
Step aside and watched the lie
This is all justified
Wont heal in time, this is all justified now
Stationed wit. I believe will go there
Now were all afraid to see why we can't give it up




But now your shirt comes off
I need something more tonight then your word

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "It's Safe to Say You Dig the Backseat" by Dance Gavin Dance paint a picture of a toxic relationship and the aftermath of the singer finally realizing they cannot trust their partner any longer. The opening lines convey a sense of regret; the singer admits that they "threw her away" upon meeting her, suggesting that the relationship was never built on a solid foundation. The line "I was cashing a check" indicates that the singer may have been using the partner for financial gain or social status, further emphasizing the falseness of their connection.


As the song progresses, it becomes clear that the partner is willing to compromise their values to be with the singer - the "late night phone calls that end in surprise" and the invitation to "climb in the back seat like luggage" suggest a willingness to be objectified and used. The line "whores don't trip, they bleed on the tapestry" reinforces this sense of degradation, implying that the partner sees themselves as nothing more than a disposable object.


Despite their initial attraction, the singer comes to realize that their partner is not someone they can rely on: "now that I've decided that you can't be trusted." The closing lines, "I need something more tonight then your word," suggest that the singer is seeking a deeper connection and is no longer content with empty promises.


Overall, "It's Safe to Say You Dig the Backseat" is a poignant depiction of the destructive nature of toxic relationships and the importance of being able to recognize when to walk away.


Line by Line Meaning

I threw her away on the second we met
I didn't care about her from the beginning


I couldn't have lied, I tried I was cashing a check
I was dishonest for personal gain


The ink was smeared, the lines were drawn and scribbled unclear
The relationship was messy and ambiguous


A cancellation, its time to learn to fly
It's time to move on and grow


Now that I've decided that you cant be trusted
I don't believe in you anymore


One by one, wasn't that fun, this party dies, fades away
The relationship ended badly


Late night phone calls that end in surprise
Unexpected events occurred during late night calls


I can't believe you would give up your dignity
I'm disappointed in your actions


Just to take a ride with me
Just for a momentary experience with me


And how does it feel to be used
Do you feel taken advantage of?


Climb in the back seat like luggage
Get in the back and be treated as a disposable object


Whores don't trip, they bleed on the tapestry
Prostitutes don't stumble, they maintain their composure


Whores don't trip, they bleed at the bar
Prostitutes don't make mistakes, they make money


Its your persistence that makes me sick its not the sight of your face
I dislike your constant pursuit, not your appearance


And now I am so faint caught up in just this way
I feel overwhelmed by my current situation


I know that you can be more then this
I believe you have more potential


This wasn't what I wanted you said I sewed that dream alive
This relationship didn't meet my expectations


Climb farther into hate is it this back seat making you itch
Is this situation causing you to become more upset?


Morals become something from a dream
Values are being disregarded


this isn't the way to blow off steam its all in your head
This isn't a healthy way to cope with stress


Give up this is making me sick my patience is wearing thin
I am losing patience and feeling overwhelmed


I will be leaving you now stay away for long
We are breaking up and I don't want to see you again


Drag his body down to the mill,
This is a violent and graphic image


Cut the ice with counterfeit bills, I'll take my share
I will make a profit in this negative situation


Like lightning bolts that strike down in pairs
I am metaphorically striking down


This is all justified
I believe my actions are justified


Step aside and watched the lie
Don't get involved in the deceit


Wont heal in time, this is all justified now
Time won't heal this, my actions were warranted


Stationed wit. I believe will go there
I think something is going to happen


Now were all afraid to see why we can't give it up
We are afraid to confront why we can't let go


But now your shirt comes off
A sexual act is about to take place


I need something more tonight then your word
I want action instead of empty promises




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Jonathan Mess, Jonny Craig, Matthew Mingus, William Swan

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