Big Bed
Danko Jones Lyrics


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If your lady drives you crazy
And all your money goes back to your honey
You got a job, you work harder
But it don't matter 'cause you take her out

So you sweat her, you know better
But it don't matter 'cause you always give in
She always pulls you left to right, pulls you left to right
Pulls you left to right when you're about to begin

Please take my advice
I wanna do you right

You got a small bed, you want a bigger bed
You want the biggest fuckin' bed of them all
But she decided you get a bunk bed
and now you ain't getting no action at all

You're always hog-tied down, man
I can't treat you right you'd better believe that woman you should've known
It always pulls you inside out, pulls you inside out
Pulls you inside out, oh baby why don't you go





Please take my advice
I wanna do you right

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Danko Jones's song Big Bed, deals with the common theme of a toxic relationship where one partner is giving more than the other, and yet they stay trapped in the relationship. The opening lines describe how the woman is driving the man crazy, and despite the fact that he works harder and has a job, he still spends all his money on her. This suggests that the man may feel he is being taken advantage of and is constantly trying to keep up with his partner's demands. However, the man ignores the warning signs and continues to cater to her every whim.


The next section, "Please take my advice, I want to do you right" shows that the man recognizes that his behavior is harming his own well-being, but also notes that he wants to help the woman as well. The chorus then takes on a different tone, as the man describes how he wants a bigger bed but the woman insists on a bunk bed, and he is no longer getting any action. This could symbolize how the man is being confined, both physically and emotionally, to a situation where he is not happy, but is also unable to break free from. This is further emphasized when he says, "It always pulls you inside out", indicating that he is being torn between what he wants and what she wants.


In conclusion, the song Big Bed deals with the concept of an unbalanced relationship, where the man feels trapped and confined by his partner. Despite recognizing the harmful nature of such a relationship, he continues to remain in it. The lyrics suggest that the man is torn between his own desires and those of his partner, leaving him feeling stuck.


Line by Line Meaning

If your lady drives you crazy
If your significant other is causing you a lot of stress


And all your money goes back to your honey
If you're spending a lot of your money on your partner


You got a job, you work harder
You have a job and you're trying to work harder to make more money for your partner


But it don't matter 'cause you take her out
But it doesn't make a difference because you still take your partner out, despite the financial strain it causes


So you sweat her, you know better
You try to control your partner and know you should be firmer with them


But it don't matter 'cause you always give in
But you always end up giving in to your partner's demands


She always pulls you left to right, pulls you left to right
Your partner always makes you feel like you're being pulled in different directions


Pulls you left to right when you're about to begin
Your partner makes it difficult for you to start anything new


Please take my advice
Please listen to my advice


I wanna do you right
I want to help you and give you good advice


You got a small bed, you want a bigger bed
You have a small bed and want a bigger one


You want the biggest fuckin' bed of them all
You want the largest bed possible


But she decided you get a bunk bed
But your partner decided you should have a bunk bed instead


and now you ain't getting no action at all
And now you're not getting any intimacy from your partner


You're always hog-tied down, man
You always feel trapped in your relationship


I can't treat you right you'd better believe that woman you should've known
Your partner is not treating you well, and you should have known this would happen


It always pulls you inside out, pulls you inside out
Your partner always makes you feel like you're being pulled apart from the inside


Pulls you inside out, oh baby why don't you go
Your partner is causing you a lot of stress and you should consider leaving the relationship


Please take my advice
Please listen to my advice


I wanna do you right
I want to help you and give you good advice




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