Heartbreak
Danko Jones Lyrics


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How many times did I let it slide by when the boys got the pick of the best
I didn't know what to do I couldn't pick up a clue going home all alone in my bed
I was a high school loser never made it with a lady when I did I got the best
She knew it all taught me everything
But what I learned best lesson was when she left, I learned

Heartbreak's a blessing
But you don't know it then
It likes to mess your mind up
Heartbreak's your best friend

I need a woman just like I need a hole in my head
I got a wall going 'round my heart
I see my friend's go through trouble
And when trouble's around it always leads to a girl in the end
I didn't know it'd be this hard to find
Never knew it'd take this long
But if I'm gonna have to wait I'm gonna wait
I'll probably die an old man alone

Heartbreak's a blessing
But you don't know it then
It likes to mess your mind up
Heartbreak's your best friend

When I see a pretty lady walking down the street
My eyes get overtaken my knees get weak
I can talk the talk but I'm easily tempted
Resisting a good looking woman ain't so easy in the end

I need a woman just like I need a hole in my head
I got a wall going 'round my heart
I see my friend's go through trouble
And when trouble's around it always leads to a girl in the end
I didn't know it'd be this hard to find
Never knew it'd take this long
But if I'm gonna have to wait I'm gonna wait
I'll probably die an old man alone, I like that

Heartbreak's a blessing
But you don't know it then




It likes to mess your mind up
Heartbreak's your best friend

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Danko Jones's song Heartbreak's a Blessing reflect the thoughts and emotions of the singer about his struggles with relationships and heartbreak. The song talks about how he has been left alone multiple times because he couldn't compete with his male friends who always got the best among the ladies. He further reflects on how he has been taught everything about relationships by his ex-lover, but the best lesson he learned was when she left him. He has now built a wall around his heart and is hesitant to get involved with anyone. Jones sings that heartbreak is a blessing in disguise as it messes up your mind and teaches you hard lessons necessary for surviving future relationships. Heartbreak, in the end, is your best friend.


The lyricist tries to convey how relationships can be challenging and how it's difficult to find the right partner. They may come with heartbreak, but at times the best thing that can make one stronger is learning from the heartbreak. Jones also talks of how men get easily tempted by good-looking women and how it's hard for him to resist these temptations. Overall, the song conveys the message that sometimes relationships don't always work out, but one can learn from heartbreak to improve one's self.


Line by Line Meaning

How many times did I let it slide by when the boys got the pick of the best
I have missed opportunities with women because other men got to them first.


I didn't know what to do I couldn't pick up a clue going home all alone in my bed
I was clueless and uncertain about how to attract women, leading to loneliness.


I was a high school loser never made it with a lady when I did I got the best
I struggled to get with women in high school, but when I did, they were amazing.


She knew it all taught me everything but what I learned best lesson was when she left...I learned
I learned the most from a woman who broke my heart.


Heartbreak's a blessing
Heartbreak can be a positive experience.


But you don't know it then
At the time, you may not realize the benefits of heartbreak.


It likes to mess your mind up
Heartbreak can be mentally and emotionally challenging.


Heartbreak's your best friend
Heartbreak can teach you valuable lessons.


I need a woman just like I need a hole in my head I got a wall going 'round my heart
I am emotionally closed off and do not feel a strong need for a romantic relationship.


I see my friend's go through trouble and when trouble's around it always leads to a girl in the end
I have observed that my friends often turn to relationships when they are dealing with problems.


I didn't know it'd be this hard to find
I underestimated the difficulty of finding a compatible partner.


Never knew it'd take this long
I did not anticipate that finding a partner would be such a lengthy process.


But if I'm gonna have to wait I'm gonna wait
I am willing to be patient and wait for the right person.


I'll probably die an old man alone
I am resigned to the possibility that I may never find a partner.


When I see a pretty lady walking down the street
I am attracted to attractive women.


My eyes get overtaken my knees get weak
I feel physically overwhelmed by attractive women.


I can talk the talk but I'm easily tempted Resisting a good looking woman ain't so easy in the end
Although I can flirt and express interest in women, I struggle to resist their attractiveness.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Danko Jones, John Calabrese, Damon Richardson

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