If I Were You
Danko Jones Lyrics


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If I were you tonight
I'd hold her and make her mine
I'd meet her half way
If I were you
And maybe her love can follow me home
'Cause I'm weak and at home

If I were you tonight
I'd hold her and make her mine
I'd meet her half way
If I were you
And maybe her love can follow me home
'Cause I'm weak and at home


And damn this heart
And damn these feelings
And damn my living in the past
And damn this song
And damn these hands
'Cause yours are the ones she'll be kissing




And maybe her love can follow me home
'Cause I'm weak and at home

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Danko Jones's song If I Were You focus on the themes of regret, jealousy and longing for a lost love. The singer is addressing someone whom he believes has the opportunity to be with the woman he desires. If he were in their position, he would take the chance to hold her and make her his own, even if it means compromising and meeting her halfway. He goes on to express the hope that maybe her love could follow him home, but acknowledges that he is weak and lonely on his own.


The chorus of the song is particularly poignant, with Danko Jones shouting "damn this heart, damn these feelings, damn my living in the past." His frustration and sadness is palpable as he realises that he cannot change the past or make someone love him, even if he wants to. Interestingly, he acknowledges that the hands she will be kissing are not his own, suggesting that the woman is involved with someone else.


The song's lyrics are relatable to anyone who has experienced heartbreak or unrequited love, particularly the sense of helplessness and desperation that can come with it. The melody is upbeat and catchy, contrasting with the melancholy lyrics to create a bittersweet atmosphere that resonates with listeners.


Line by Line Meaning

If I were you tonight
If I were in your position tonight


I'd hold her and make her mine
I would embrace her and take possession of her


I'd meet her half way
I would compromise and make an effort to bridge the gap between us


If I were you
If I were in your shoes


And maybe her love can follow me home
Perhaps by showing her love and affection, I can win her heart


'Cause I'm weak and at home
I admit that I am vulnerable and lacking in confidence when it comes to love


And damn this heart
I curse the emotions that I feel


And damn these feelings
I curse the sensations that I experience


And damn my living in the past
I curse my tendency to dwell on past experiences


And damn this song
I curse the music that reminds me of her


And damn these hands
I curse the fact that I cannot touch her


'Cause yours are the ones she'll be kissing
Because she will be giving her affection to you, rather than me


And maybe her love can follow me home
Despite my doubts, I hope that she will come to love me


'Cause I'm weak and at home
I am open and vulnerable, and ready for her love




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Steve Jones

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Comments from YouTube:

@Lichtspuren

Why, oh why did this gorgeous song never make it to iTunes??
And why do they never play it in a show? 😭😭😭😭

@iluvdavegrohl

This song is great because it's vulnerable. It's not easy to bear your soul to others.

@nationofcool83

This is easily my favourite Danko Jones track. Too bad it's his only (that I've heard anyway) ballad!

@68coneejo

omggggggggggggggg LOVE THISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS wow!!!

@fernandoy.narciso2176

This song is way too sad, it makes me think of a mix between Unchained Melody and I Want You (She's so heavy)

@TrichomeDeluxe420

I disagree, I love this song

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