The Lover After Me
Darren Hayes Lyrics


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Here I go again, I promised myself
I wouldn't think of you today
It's been seven months and counting
You've moved on
I still feel exactly the same
It's just the that everywhere I go
All the buildings know your name like
Photographs and memories of love
Steel and granite reminders
The city calls your name and I can't move on

Ever since you've been gone
The lights go out the same
The only difference is
You call another name
To your love
To your lover now
To your love

Am I all alone in the universe?
There's no love on these streets
I have given mine away to a world
That didn't want it anyway
So this is my new freedom
It's funny, but I don't remember being chained
But nothing seems to make sense anymore
Without you I'm always twenty minutes late

Ever since you've been gone
The lights go out the same
The only difference is
You call another name
To your love
To your lover now
To your love

And time goes by so slowly
The nights are cold and lonely
I shouldn't be holding on
But I'm still holding on for you

Here I go again, I promised myself
I wouldn't think of you today
But I'm standing at your doorway
I'm calling out your name 'cause I can't move on

Ever since you've been gone
The lights go out the same
The only difference is
You call another name
To your love




To your lover now
To your love

Overall Meaning

"The Lover After Me" by Darren Hayes is a melancholic ballad about a man who is struggling to move on after a break-up. The singer promises himself he would try to forget her and move on, but he still thinks about her every day, even though she has already moved on to someone else. The city holds too many memories of her; every building triggers memories of their past love. The singer also questions whether he is alone in the universe and wonders why he has given his love away to a world that didn't want it anyway. Even though he knows it's time to let go of his past lover, he finds it hard to move on and is still holding on to her.


Line by Line Meaning

Here I go again, I promised myself
The singer is struggling to move on from a past lover.


I wouldn't think of you today
Despite the promise not to think of their ex-lover, they are currently having a hard time moving on.


It's been seven months and counting
Seven months have passed since the relationship ended.


You've moved on
The ex-lover has already started a new relationship.


I still feel exactly the same
The singer's feelings for their ex-lover haven't changed since the break-up.


It's just that everywhere I go
The singer is reminded of their ex-lover wherever they go.


All the buildings know your name like
Everywhere the singer goes, they see things that remind them of their ex-lover.


Photographs and memories of love
The singer is surrounded by things that remind them of their past relationship.


Steel and granite reminders
Even the buildings and structures around them hold memories of their past love.


The city calls your name and I can't move on
The city itself reminds the singer of their ex-lover, making it difficult for them to move on.


To your love, to your lover now, to your love
The singer is aware that their ex-lover has moved on to someone new.


Am I all alone in the universe?
The singer is feeling alone and lost after the break-up.


There's no love on these streets
The singer feels like there is no love or hope left in the world.


I have given mine away to a world that didn't want it anyway
The singer feels like they have given their love to the wrong person or to a world that doesn't appreciate it.


So this is my new freedom
Although the singer is alone now, they are trying to find joy in their newfound freedom.


It's funny, but I don't remember being chained
The singer didn't realize they were trapped in a loveless relationship until after it ended.


But nothing seems to make sense anymore
The singer is struggling to make sense of life after the break-up.


Without you I'm always twenty minutes late
The singer is having a difficult time adjusting to life without their ex-lover and is constantly running behind schedule.


And time goes by so slowly
The singer feels like time is moving too slowly since the break-up.


The nights are cold and lonely
The singer feels lonely and isolated at night.


I shouldn't be holding on
The singer knows they shouldn't be holding onto the past, but they can't help it.


But I'm still holding on for you
Despite knowing it's not healthy, the singer is still holding onto their feelings for their ex-lover.


But I'm standing at your doorway
The singer is at their ex-lover's doorstep, unwilling to let go.


I'm calling out your name 'cause I can't move on
The singer is still struggling to move on and is hoping for reconciliation with their ex-lover.




Writer(s): Daniel Jones, Darren Hayes

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