Where You Want to Be
Darren Hayes Lyrics


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Hey there stranger
Do you remember?
You were a part of my life
Early December
Think I remember?
Sentiment cuts like a knife
The seasons are changing
Life's rearranging
Full of could have dones
Would a have beens
It's all your fault
And where've you been
And how times goes
And though I don't even know
How to fill in the spaces
of the love you've erased in my life

Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you get there easily?
Did I make you sacrifice?
Did you make a sharp left
When you should have turned right?
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you sell off all of your gold
Did you trade it in?
Did you wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold?

And barely symphonic
But strangely ironic
Moments contained in one glance
Oh how I adored you
But now I'm ignored by you.
Nowhere a tint of romance
And now it's vaguely familiar
I think I remember sharing every single intimacy
It doesn't seem so strange to me that we barely entertained
Even the politest of phrases
But sometimes at night
I conjure you up in my mind.

Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you get there easily?
Did I make you sacrifice?
Did you make a sharp left
when you should have turned right?
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you sell off all of your gold
Did you trade it in?
Did you wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold.

While I was busy
Perfecting the art
Of deflecting compliments
I took it too far
And I let a ripple run right through my heart
Of battle stations we're building
You and I just grew apart
We grew apart

While I decided
To make everyone else happy
I just put aside
My foolish pride
I guess I denied
My own desire
I was too busy pleasing
To ever be pleased
I forgot how to breathe
Or question anything
Or ask why?
Am I?

Am I where I wanted to be?
Did I get here easily?
Did I make a sacrifice?
Did I take a sharp left
When I should have turned right?
Am I where I wanted to be?
Can I sell off all of my gold?
Can I trade it in?
Will I wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold.

I'd settle for somebody to hold now

You know that I've been up and I've been down
I've been picked up and spun around
I'd do it all again
If I could just have somebody to hold now
I just need somebody to hold me now
Could somebody hold me now?




I just want somebody to hold me now
I'd do it all again

Overall Meaning

In Darren Hayes's song Where You Want to Be, the singer addresses a stranger who was once a part of his life, specifically early December. He remembers every single detail of the intimacy they shared, and the sentiment of it cuts him like a knife. He is confused with how time goes by and how he cannot fill in the spaces of the love that has been erased from his life. The seasons are changing and life is rearranging, but he still thinks about his past relationship with this person. Even though there was no tint of romance, he still conjures the person up in his mind at night.


The song reflects on the idea of wanting to understand if the person in question is where they wanted to be in life and if they got there easily, and if he made them sacrifice anything. He questions if the other person chose to settle for somebody they did not truly love or hold out for love instead. The song then turns to the singer questioning if he himself is where he wanted to be and if he took a sharp left when he should have turned right. He ponders if he sacrificed anything and if he was too busy pleasing others and forgot to please himself.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey there stranger
Addressing someone who used to be close to him, but now feels distant and unfamiliar


Do you remember?
Asking if the other person has fond memories of the past, specifically a time in early December


You were a part of my life
Acknowledging the other person's role in his past, suggesting they once held significance to him


Early December
Referring to a specific time in the past that holds sentimental value, potentially a time when he was with the other person


Think I remember?
Uncertain if his recollections are accurate, questioning his memories and the emotions they bring up


Sentiment cuts like a knife
Memories of his past with the other person bring back strong emotions that feel painful, as if he is being cut by a knife


The seasons are changing
Metaphorically referencing how life experiences are always shifting and evolving


Life's rearranging
Suggesting life is always changing, often without our control or input


Full of could have dones
Regretful of missed opportunities or choices not taken


Would a have beens
Wondering about alternative realities that could have been, but never were


It's all your fault
Blaming the other person for his current feelings of loss and regret


And where've you been
Asking why the other person isn't around now, after once being such an important part of his life


And how times goes
Reflecting on how quickly time can pass and how much can change in a short period


And though I don't even know
Admitting uncertainty about his own thoughts and feelings towards the situation


How to fill in the spaces
Struggling to emotionally reconcile the void that the other person's absence has created in his life


Of the love you've erased in my life
Feeling as if the other person has taken away a part of his life that he held dear, specifically the love they shared


Are you where you wanted to be?
Questions about the other person's current state in their life, specifically whether or not they have achieved what they once desired


Did you get there easily?
Asking if the other person faced difficulties or challenges in order to reach their desired place in life


Did I make you sacrifice?
Recognizing the potential role he played in holding the other person back from achieving their dreams, leading to sacrifices being made


Did you make a sharp left, when you should have turned right?
Wondering if the other person made a mistake or took a wrong turn that led them away from where they wanted to be in life


Did you sell off all of your gold, Did you trade it in?
Asking if the other person has given up something valuable or important in order to get where they are now


Did you wait for love or settle for somebody to hold?
Questioning the other person's choices and motivations when it comes to love and relationships


While I was busy perfecting the art
Admitting to being too consumed in his own flaws and inadequacies instead of working on himself and his life


Of deflecting compliments
Not taking compliments or positive feedback well, and instead shrugging off the praise


I took it too far
Acknowledging that he went too far in deflecting compliments, potentially leading to negative consequences


And I let a ripple run right through my heart
Implication that his lack of self-confidence and self-love resulted in negative emotions and feelings


Of battle stations we're building
Metaphorical language used to describe the tension and conflict being created between himself and the other person


You and I just grew apart
Realizing that his relationship with the other person had run its course and they no longer had the same connection they once shared


While I decided to make everyone else happy
Acknowledging his tendency to prioritize other's happiness over his own, potentially leading to neglect of his own needs and desires


I just put aside my foolish pride
Recognizing that he valued his pride too much and it held him back from doing what he really needed to be happy


I guess I denied my own desire
Acknowledging that he ignored his own wants and needs, potentially due to fear or insecurity


I was too busy pleasing
Putting other's happiness above his own even to the point of sacrificing his own well-being


To ever be pleased
Unable to find satisfaction with his own life or accomplishments, despite how much he prioritizes others


I forgot how to breathe
Hyperbolic language to describe how overwhelmed he is with his own thoughts, feelings, and circumstances


Or question anything
Acknowledging that he wasn't willing to question authority or examine his own life more deeply


Or ask why?
Confused about his own life and circumstances, unsure of what steps he needs to take to find happiness


Am I where I wanted to be?
Acknowledging that he may not be completely satisfied with his own life, and questioning if he's in the right place


Can I sell off all of my gold?
Asking if he has anything of value or importance that he could sell in order to help him achieve what he wants in life


Can I trade it in?
Asking if there is a way to exchange what he has for something that might make him happier


Will I wait for love or settle for somebody to hold?
Questioning whether he is willing to wait for someone he truly loves or if he would settle for someone to keep him company


You know that I've been up and I've been down
Acknowledging that life isn't always full of happiness, and that he's struggled in the past


I've been picked up and spun around
Metaphorical language used to describe the ups and downs of life, specifically moments of being lifted and turned around by life's events


I'd do it all again
Implies that despite the hardships, he would still live his life over again


If I could just have somebody to hold now
Feeling lonely and longing for someone to comfort him


I just need somebody to hold me now
Reiterating his desire for physical touch and connection in his life


Could somebody hold me now?
Asking if anyone is willing to provide him with the comfort he desires


I just want somebody to hold me now
Repeating the theme of loneliness and desire for affection


I'd do it all again
Despite the hardships, he would still choose to live his life over again




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Where are you want to be

Hey there stranger
Do you remember?
You were a part of my life
Early December
Think I remember?
Sentiment cuts like a knife
The seasons are changing
Life's rearranging
Full of could have dones
Would a have beens
It's all your fault
And where've you been
And how times goes
And though I don't even know
How to fill in the spaces
of the love you've erased in my life
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you get there easily?
Did I make you sacrifice?
Did you make a sharp left
When you should have turned right?
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you sell off all of your gold
Did you trade it in?
Did you wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold?
And barely symphonic
But strangely ironic
Moments contained in one glance
Oh how I adored you
But now I'm ignored by you.
Nowhere a tint of romance
And now it's vaguely familiar
I think I remember sharing every single intimacy
It doesn't seem so strange to me that we barely entertained
Even the politest of phrases
But sometimes at night
I conjure you up in my mind.
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you get there easily?
Did I make you sacrifice?
Did you make a sharp left
when you should have turned right?
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you sell off all of your gold
Did you trade it in?
Did you wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold.
While I was busy
Perfecting the art
Of deflecting compliments
I took it too far
And I let a ripple run right through my heart
Of battle stations we're building
You and I just grew apart
We grew apart
While I decided
To make everyone else happy
I just put aside
My foolish pride
I guess I denied
My own desire
I was too busy pleasing
To ever be pleased
I forgot how to breathe
Or question anything
Or ask why?
Am I?
Am I where I wanted to be?
Did I get here easily?
Did I make a sacrifice?
Did I take a sharp left
When I should have turned right?
Am I where I wanted to be?
Can I sell off all of my gold?
Can I trade it in?
Will I wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold.
I'd settle for somebody to hold now
You know that I've been up and I've been down
I've been picked up and spun around
I'd do it all again
If I could just have somebody to hold now
I just need somebody to hold me now
Could somebody hold me now?
I just want somebody to hold me now
I'd do it all again



All comments from YouTube:

Yulia Shegay

2019 year... Darren Hayes is still the greatest artist I ever heard 💯🎶

Janie Holland

His melodies are fantastic and his vocal range is amazing. I have the words "Savage Garden" tattooed on the top of my left arm in bamboo writing. Had it done as soon as I knew they were splitting up.

Junior vong

I agreed

Lelouch

Some of his best songs are his B-sides.

Spongebobs Codpiece

knux911 Darren has no “B” sides 🙂 all are A sides x

Channeling Science + 🐼

What a powerful man. Powerful song. Powerful love.

Yulia Shegay

Heartbreaking song... Darren is very powerful Man. No one compares to him.

Robbie Louis

Written about Daniel. This song is heartbreaking. The words, the yearning, the regret ... should have been a single. Perfection.

Kitaruth Kawshik

This is real music, very few people can do it like this¥

mmafan2223

Used to date a girl and we were both huge fans of Savage Garden. We used to sing the songs to each other, so in love were we. We drifted apart. Many years have now passed, and we've started our own families and careers. Through it all it feels like we both matured along with Darren over the years on this journey we call life. This song is so appropriate and bitter sweet for us, yet ultimately I wouldn't change a thing :)

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