I Can't Make You Love Me
Darren Hayes and Anna-Maria Laspina Lyrics


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When you take your first breath
You're gon' take mine away
When you take your first step
I won't miss a thing
When those monsters in the closet
Won't let you sleep at night
I'll chase 'em right on out
And make it all alright

'Cause I'm always gonna be
The steady rock you need
You're always gonna be
The best part of me

I can't wait to hear your laugh
I can't wait to see your smile
I can't wait to look into your eyes
And get lost for a little while
I can't wait to feel your hand
When it's holding on to mine
I can't wait for you to say my name
It's gon' get me every time
But out of all the things that I can't wait to do
I can't wait to love you

I hope you take after your momma
Hope you're headstrong like I am
Hope you keep that sense of wonder
When you wonder if you can

'Cause I'm always gonna be
The shoulder that you need
You're always gonna be
The best part of me

I can't wait to hear your laugh
I can't wait to see your smile
I can't wait to look into your eyes
And get lost for a little while
I can't wait to feel your hand
When it's holding on to mine
I can't wait for you to say my name
It's gon' get me every time
But out of all the things that I can't wait to do
I can't wait to love you

Like nobody's ever gonna love you
And for you to love me too

I can't wait to see you dance
While I'm playin' you a song
I can't wait to hear that pretty voice
When you sing along

I can't wait to feel your hand
When it's holding on to mine
When you run into my open arms
I'm gon' catch you every time
But out of all the things that I can't wait to do
Out of all the things that I can't wait to do

I can't wait to love you




I can't wait to love you
I can't wait to love you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "I Can't Make You Love Me" express the profound love and anticipation of a father towards his child. The song explores the deep emotional connection between a parent and child, as the father promises to be the "steady rock" and the "shoulder" his child needs throughout life. The lyrics are filled with hope and excitement as the father shares his dreams for his child to grow up strong and confident like him, but also maintain a sense of wonder and curiosity.


The line "When you take your first breath, you're gonna take mine away" shows the overwhelming feeling of love a parent experiences when they see their child for the first time. They become so emotionally invested in their child that the mere act of breathing takes a piece of their own breath away. The father also promises to chase away the monsters that keep his child up at night, making everything all right. The song taps into the universal experience of wanting the best for one's children and to be a source of comfort and support throughout their lives.


In conclusion, "I Can't Make You Love Me" is a beautiful song about the powerful bond between a parent and child, filled with hope, love, and promise.


Line by Line Meaning

When you take your first breath
From the moment you're born, you captured my heart.


You're gon' take mine away
Your arrival will steal my heart forever.


When you take your first step
I'll be there to witness and support every milestone.


I won't miss a thing
I'll never let anything important pass me by.


When those monsters in the closet
Even when you're scared or facing problems, I'll be there to save the day.


Won't let you sleep at night
When you're afraid or restless, I'll stay by your side.


I'll chase 'em right on out
I'll work hard to remove any obstacles you face and bring peace and calmness.


And make it all alright
I'll do anything to make sure you feel safe and secure.


'Cause I'm always gonna be
As your parent, I'll always be there for you no matter what.


The steady rock you need
I'm a reliable and supportive force in your life.


You're always gonna be
My child, you will always have a special place in my heart.


The best part of me
You are my greatest joy and accomplishment.


I can't wait to hear your laugh
I look forward to hearing the sound of your happiness and joy.


I can't wait to see your smile
Seeing your smile brings me immense joy.


I can't wait to look into your eyes
Your eyes reveal so much about you, and I cherish every moment I spend gazing into them.


And get lost for a little while
Being with you makes me forget about the rest of the world.


I can't wait to feel your hand
Holding your hand is a symbol of our unbreakable bond and love.


When it's holding on to mine
No matter what life brings, we'll face it together with our hands intertwined.


I can't wait for you to say my name
Hearing you say my name fills me with immense love and happiness.


It's gon' get me every time
Every time you say my name, my heart overflows with joy.


But out of all the things that I can't wait to do
There are so many things I look forward to sharing with you as your parent.


I can't wait to love you
Above everything else, I'm thrilled to love you and be a part of your life.


Like nobody's ever gonna love you
I'll love you more than anyone else ever could or will.


And for you to love me too
I hope you'll love me in return and feel the same joy and contentment I do.


I can't wait to see you dance
Watching you find joy and excitement in dancing brings me immense happiness.


While I'm playin' you a song
Playing music and dancing together is a special bond and connection we share.


I can't wait to hear that pretty voice
Hearing your voice is a reminder of your unique personality and the love I have for you.


When you sing along
Singing together is a special moment that forms unforgettable memories.


When you run into my open arms
I'll always be waiting with open arms to give you a warm embrace.


I'm gon' catch you every time
No matter what happens, I'll always be there to catch you and keep you safe.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Anna Moon, Joshua Thomas Murty, Niko Moon

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Comments from YouTube:

@danielasro5887

2021 and this song is still the perfect balm for my heart... This should have so many more views & likes.. What an underrated jewel. Thanks for uploading it!

@coopercentralaveune

I love him ❤ i listen to him everytime i turn on my Spotify 😊

@SuperTruetunes

I just watched the original composer performer singer Bonnie Raitt sing her song VEVO original and then this cover version popped up and looove💕 it ! In the same key, but as a duo, Darren and Ana Maria just nail it!!! Sings right into the heart 💜 ♥️ ❤️

@leabraja8476

Darren and Ana María are lovely, I love them !

@Romchikthelemon

Man, she is so amazing.

@VonnieWeathersby79

I love this song so much. Thank you for uploading it! I've been trying to find it all evening.

@ron8675309

Thanks for uploading this! I've wanted to hear it again since I saw SG in 1998 (he did this cover then too), and I could never find it anywhere.

@orladuffy2182

Im so grateful u posted this song because i always want 2 listen 2 it & canonly ever find it here ❤

@debraparker833

Darren and Anna Maria sing perfectly together. Wish she was touring with him in 2024.

@wendystewart1867

They were a powerhouse

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