Released August 12, 2003
Format CD
Genre Alternative rock, emo
Length 3:06
Label Vagrant Records
Writer(s) Chris Carrabba
* The song was heard playing on the Pilot episode of One Tree Hill.
* The song is available as downloadable content for the music video game series Rock Band.
* The song is in the music video game Band Hero
Hands Down
Dashboard Confessional Lyrics
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This air is blessed, you share with me
This night is wild, so calm and dull
These hearts, they race, from self control
Your legs are smooth as they graze mine
We're doing fine, we're doing nothing at all
My hopes are so high that your kiss might kill me
My heart is yours to fill or burst to break or bury
Or wear as jewelry, whichever you prefer
The words are hushed, let's not get busted
Just lay entwined here, undiscovered
Safe in here from all the stupid questions
"Hey, did you get some?" Man, that is so dumb
Stay quiet, stay near, stay close, they can't hear
So we can get some
My hopes are so high that your kiss might kill me
So won't you kill me, so I die happy?
My heart is yours to fill or burst, to break or bury
Or wear as jewelry, whichever you prefer
Hands down, this is the best day I can
Ever remember, I'll always remember the sound
Of the stereo, the dim of the soft lights
The scent of your hair that you twirled in your fingers
And the time on the clock when we realized it's so late
And this walk that we shared together
The streets were wet, and the gate was locked
So I jumped it and I let you in
And you stood at your door with your hands on my waist
And you kissed me like you meant it
And I knew that you meant it
That you meant it
That you meant it
And I knew that you meant it
That you meant it
The song “Hands Down” is a romantic ballad about a night filled with stolen moments and intense emotions. In the opening lines, the singer asks his partner to take a deep breath and share the moment with him. The night is described as both wild and dull, reflecting the contradictory feelings that can arise in a relationship. The singer admires the physical closeness of his partner, describing her smooth legs grazing his own. They both savor the moment spent together, even as they try to stay quiet and hidden from the outside world.
The chorus of the song is a declaration of the intense feelings that the singer has for his partner. He hopes that her kiss might kill him, so that he can die happy. He offers his heart to her to do as she wishes, giving her the power to fill him up or break him down. The repeated refrain of “hands down” emphasizes the intensity of his feelings, suggesting that there is nobody else who can compete with his partner.
The final verse of the song is a reflection on the preciousness of the moment they have shared together. The singer remembers the details of the scene – the sound of the stereo, the soft lighting, the scent of his partner’s hair. He also notes the lateness of the hour and the fact that they are alone together. They share a kiss that is filled with meaning and passion, cementing their connection and creating a memory that will stay with the singer forever.
Overall, “Hands Down” is a powerful and emotional song about the joys and intensity of a romantic connection.
Line by Line Meaning
Breathe in for luck, breathe in so deep
Take a deep breath, hoping that it brings good luck
This air is blessed, you share with me
The air we are breathing feels special and holy
This night is wild, so calm and dull
This evening is full of potential but also restrained and uneventful
These hearts, they race, from self control
Our hearts are beating fast because we are trying to hold back our emotions
Your legs are smooth as they graze mine
The touch of your legs against mine feels lovely and soft
We're doing fine, we're doing nothing at all
We are just enjoying each other's company without any need for activity or excitement
My hopes are so high that your kiss might kill me
I am extremely hopeful that your kiss is as intense and life-changing as I imagine it to be
So won't you kill me, so I die happy?
I want you to fulfill my high hopes and make me so happy that I feel like I am dying
My heart is yours to fill or burst to break or bury
You have complete control over my heart - you can either fill it with love or utterly destroy it
Or wear as jewelry, whichever you prefer
You could also choose to display my love for you as a personal adornment
The words are hushed, let's not get busted
We should be quiet and careful to not get caught doing anything we shouldn't be doing
Just lay entwined here, undiscovered
Let's just lay here together, intertwined and unseen by others
Safe in here from all the stupid questions
We are safe from the annoying and irrelevant questions that other people might ask about us
"Hey, did you get some?" Man, that is so dumb
Those kinds of questions are unnecessary and unimportant
Stay quiet, stay near, stay close, they can't hear
If we stay silent and close to each other, nobody will notice us
So we can get some
So we can have some intimate time together without anyone interrupting us
Hands down, this is the best day I can
Without a doubt, today is the best day I can recall
Ever remember, I'll always remember the sound
I'll always be able to remember the sounds of this day
Of the stereo, the dim of the soft lights
The soft music playing on the stereo, along with the dim lighting, is a pleasant memory
The scent of your hair that you twirled in your fingers
I have a clear memory of the way your hair smelled, and how you played with it
And the time on the clock when we realized it's so late
We both acknowledge that it's getting late and time is passing quickly
And this walk that we shared together
We shared a lovely walk together on this memorable day
The streets were wet, and the gate was locked
The streets were damp and we encountered a closed gate
So I jumped it and I let you in
I took the initiative to jump over the gate and let you in
And you stood at your door with your hands on my waist
I remember you standing at your door and holding onto my waist
And you kissed me like you meant it
The passionate kiss you gave me demonstrated your true feelings for me
And I knew that you meant it
I had no doubts that your kiss was genuine and heartfelt
That you meant it
It was clear that the passion between us was real
That you meant it
I was certain there was no pretense - our love was true
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Christopher Andrew Carrabba
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@miranoviana7068
Hands down this is the best day I can ever remember
I'll always remember the sound of the stereo
The dim of the soft lights
The scent of your hair
That you twirled in your fingers
And the time on the clock
When we realized it's so late
And this walk that we shared together
And the streets were wet
And the gate was locked
So I jumped it
And I let you in
And you stood at your door
With your hands on my waist
And you kissed me
Like you meant it
And I knew
That you meant it
That you meant it
That you meant it
And I knew
That you meant it
That you meant it
@sunna8476
OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE I FOUND THIS SONG AGAIN, I'm 32 years old and I used to listen to this all the time back in 2005! <3
@oo0RJ0oo
Same here, same age also.
#Nostalgic
@TheValledorLife
may i know your facebook or instagram?
@thisisanarchy6355
yeaaayyy whooaaa
@GuyManley
Yo I'm 35 now. 😅
@lovulalove
Lmao same 💚😌
@andin916
I’m 38 and this randomly popped into my head… such a great throwback 😍
@Piecrab
I'm 32 and thought of this song for the first time in ages
@andin916
@@Piecrab isn’t it weird? 😂
@EvanWagner-fq4eo
I'm 14 and I listen to this stuff