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If I go
Before I'm old
Oh, brother of mine
Please don't forget me if I go

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus that set him free
After three days in the ground

Oh, and if I die
Before my time
Oh, sweet sister of mine
Please don't regret me if I die

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus that set him free
After three days in the ground

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus that set him free
After three days in the ground

I'm on bended knees, I pray
Bartender, please

When I was young, I didn't think about it
Now I can't get it out of my mind

I'm on bended knees
Father, please

Oh, and if all this gold
Should steal my soul away
Oh, dear mother of mine
Please redirect me if this gold

Bartender, you see
The wine that's drinking me
Came from the vine that strung Judas from the Devil's tree
His roots deep, deep in the ground

Bartender, you see
The wine that's drinking me
Came from the vine that strung Judas from the Devil's tree
Its roots deep, deep in the ground
Ground

I'm on bended knees
Oh, Bartender, please

I'm on bended knees
Father, please

When I was young, I didn't think about it
Now I just want to run and hide

I'm on bended knees




Oh, Bartender, please
Bartender, please

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Dave Matthews Band's song "Bartender" are metaphorical and deep, with the singer addressing the bartender while pouring out his heart about his worries, fears, and doubts. The lyrics open with a fearful plea to not be forgotten if he dies before old age. The singer addresses his siblings, asking them to not regret him if he dies before he has lived his life. The references to wine are symbolic, representing life and its experiences. The wine that the bartender serves the singer is the same that Jesus drank, which is believed to have set him free after three days in the ground. The reference to Judas's betrayal and the devil's tree is another metaphor for how the mistakes of one's past can haunt and consume them.


The song's chorus is a repetitive plea to the bartender to fill his glass, representing the singer's need for life experiences. He confesses that he didn't think about life's unpredictability when he was younger, but now it consumes him. He prays to God ("Father") and the bartender, asking them to help him overcome his fears and find meaning in his life. References to the soul-stealing qualities of gold highlight the singer's anxieties about wealth and fame, and how they can lead him astray. The song closes with a final plea to the bartender to help him find his way.


Line by Line Meaning

If I go
If I pass away


Before I'm old
Before I reach old age


Oh, brother of mine
Addressing a sibling


Please don't forget me if I go
Please remember me after I pass away


Bartender, please
Addressing a person who serves drinks at a bar


Fill my glass for me
Pour me another drink


With the wine you gave Jesus that set him free
Referring to the sacramental wine from the Bible


After three days in the ground
Referring to the resurrection of Jesus after three days


Oh, and if I die
If I pass away


Before my time
Before my natural lifespan


Oh, sweet sister of mine
Addressing a sibling


Please don't regret me if I die
Please don't feel guilty about my passing


I'm on bended knees, I pray
In a position of supplication


When I was young, I didn't think about it
In the past, I didn't consider the possibility of death


Now I can't get it out of my mind
Currently, I am preoccupied with the idea of death


Father, please
Addressing a paternal figure or God


Oh, and if all this gold
If the riches I possess


Should steal my soul away
If my wealth corrupts me spiritually


Oh, dear mother of mine
Addressing a maternal figure


Please redirect me if this gold
Please guide me if my material possessions lead me astray


You see the wine that's drinking me
Referring to the consumption of alcohol


Came from the vine that strung Judas from the Devil's tree
Referring to the loss of morality


His roots deep, deep in the ground
Referencing the evil deeds of Judas


Ground
The earth or soil


Now I just want to run and hide
Feeling overwhelmed and desiring to escape


Bartender, please
Addressing a person who serves drinks at a bar




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DAVID JOHN MATTHEWS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@vinaskth

If I go before I'm old
Oh, brother of mine please don't forget me
If I go

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus
That set him free
After three days in the ground

Oh and if I die
Before my time
Oh sweet sister of mine
Please don't regret me
If I die

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus that set him free
After three days in the ground

I'm on bended knees, I pray
Bartender, please
When I was young I didn't think about it, now I can't get it outof my mind
I'm on bended knees, father please

Oh if all this gold
Should steal my soul away
Oh, dear mother of mine please redirect me
If this gold

Bartender, you see
The wine that's drinking me
Came from the vine that stung Judas
From the devil's tree
It's roots deep, deep in the ground

I'm on bended knees, oh bartender please
I'm on bended knees, father please
When I was young I didn't think about it now I just wanna run andhide
I'm on bended knees, oh bartender please
Bartender, please



All comments from YouTube:

@vinaskth

If I go before I'm old
Oh, brother of mine please don't forget me
If I go

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus
That set him free
After three days in the ground

Oh and if I die
Before my time
Oh sweet sister of mine
Please don't regret me
If I die

Bartender, please
Fill my glass for me
With the wine you gave Jesus that set him free
After three days in the ground

I'm on bended knees, I pray
Bartender, please
When I was young I didn't think about it, now I can't get it outof my mind
I'm on bended knees, father please

Oh if all this gold
Should steal my soul away
Oh, dear mother of mine please redirect me
If this gold

Bartender, you see
The wine that's drinking me
Came from the vine that stung Judas
From the devil's tree
It's roots deep, deep in the ground

I'm on bended knees, oh bartender please
I'm on bended knees, father please
When I was young I didn't think about it now I just wanna run andhide
I'm on bended knees, oh bartender please
Bartender, please

@delesdog

Are you dead?? Jus checking

@vinaskth

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@justinbam-ih9xz

Great

@victoriagirard6877

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@teleuser

Strung Judas not stung.

@bradyspringfield6237

I’m only 14 and I love this song and love the band. Im so glad my dad has good taste in music to show me good songs like this

@203Rez

Good stuff man! Your dad started you off good. incredible era of music

@iainhorne2509

Soooo banging when I read your message,my son's 15,just thought it was banging.....

@troywitkowski3732

Call me when you turn 32

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