The Moment of Conception
David Byrne Lyrics


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At the moment of conception
I could see someone approaching
Will you be my disco dancer?
I could use a little coaching
Will you be my secret lover?
Mother, Father, Sister, Brother too

I was born without a conscience
Full of freedom, full of nonsense
From the mountains to the beaches
Eat the apples, steal the peaches
Will you be this wild child's lady?
Will you carry me to safety?

Lock me up & take me home
I don't want to be free
Goin' crazy - on my own
It's not where I want to be

I behave without compassion
I see things I want to smash them
When I put our love in danger & treat you like a total stranger
I don't really want to hurt you
I would stop it if I could do

Blame my school & blame my parents
& the genes that I inherit
Blame it on my older sister for showing me her dirty pictures
Blame the TV & the movies
Blame the lawyers & the juries

Lock me up & take me home
I don't want to be free
Goin' crazy - on my own
It's not where I want to be





At the moment of conception
At the moment of conception

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of David Byrne's "The Moment of Conception" are complex, touching upon themes of birth, identity, and relationships. The song suggests that from the moment of conception, we are all wild and free, a little out of control, but this is what makes us human. From birth, we carry the weight of sin, and the things we do that hurt others can often be attributed to factors beyond our control. Byrne suggests that the blame lies not only with ourselves but our upbringing, our environment, and most importantly - our genes. The singer of the song is someone who is full of freedom, without compassion or conscience, and is looking for a partner to guide them through life.


The chorus of the song is a plea for someone to take the singer home and lock them up. They do not want to be free, and they do not want to be alone. At the same time, they cannot help but hurt those they care about, treating them like strangers and putting the love they share in danger. Beneath the chaotic surface of the "wild child," there is a desire for safety and love that drives them to seek out partners.


Line by Line Meaning

At the moment of conception
Right from the start of existence


I could see someone approaching
I had an expectation that someone was coming


Will you be my disco dancer?
Will you partner with me on this journey that we're on?


I could use a little coaching
I don't have all the answers, could use some guidance


Will you be my secret lover?
Will you share your innermost self with me?


Mother, Father, Sister, Brother too
Everyone in this world


I was born without a conscience
I came into this world without a sense of right and wrong


Full of freedom, full of nonsense
I had a lot of liberty, but lacked awareness or intelligence


From the mountains to the beaches
Everywhere I go


Eat the apples, steal the peaches
I went after what I wanted, without thinking about the consequences


Will you be this wild child's lady?
Will you be there for me, despite my erratic ways?


Will you carry me to safety?
When I'm lost or need help, will you give me a hand?


Lock me up & take me home
I need someone to care for me


I don't want to be free
I need boundaries and guidance


Goin' crazy - on my own
Making decisions for myself drives me mad


It's not where I want to be
I want to be part of something larger than myself


I behave without compassion
I don't often consider others' feelings


I see things I want to smash them
When I don't get my way, I feel violent towards things I can't control


When I put our love in danger & treat you like a total stranger
I sometimes act in ways that could harm the relationship we have


I don't really want to hurt you
I don't intentionally want to cause you pain


I would stop it if I could do
If only I had the control to prevent these hurtful actions


Blame my school & blame my parents
I assign responsibility to others for my upbringing


& the genes that I inherit
I may have inherited some negative traits from my ancestors


Blame it on my older sister for showing me her dirty pictures
I blame others for exposing me to things that may have influenced my behavior


Blame the TV & the movies
I hold outside influences accountable for my actions


Blame the lawyers & the juries
I even blame institutions and systems that are separate from me


At the moment of conception
As soon as my existence began


At the moment of conception
From the start of my life




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID BYRNE

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