They Are In Love
David Byrne Lyrics


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She put the scar on the side of his face
When he disappeared for three days
And they say that they are in love
He took her cocaine when she was asleep
And friends say he gave half away
And they say that they are in love

Run away, run away
Run away before it's too late
There is danger but they will not see
If they're blind, then it's blind that they'd rather be.

This town's destroyed more than one friend of mine
Funny that they never leave
They say that they are in love
Some say it's rotten, some say it's wrong
Some say it's hard to believe
And some say that they are in love

Move away, move away
Move away before it's too late
And the lion sleeps with the lamb
Only love lets me forget who I really am

This land is small and it's cold and it's damp
But there's no place that I'd rather be
I know that I am in love
Ethnic divisions, screaming demands
A little bit like you and me
I guess that we are in love

Stay away, stay away
Stay away you might end up like me
It's the pain that keeps us alive




But that beauty is all that we need to survive
That damn beauty is all that we need to survive

Overall Meaning

David Byrne’s song They Are In Love is a cautionary tale about a toxic relationship that is heading towards destruction. The lyrics suggest that the couple is deeply in love and cannot see the damage that they are causing to themselves and those around them. The song begins with the woman putting a scar on the side of the man’s face after he disappeared for three days. The lines “She put the scar on the side of his face, when he disappeared for three days” illustrate how the relationship has scars and wounds that are caused by the couple’s actions.


The man in the song is indicated to have taken advantage of the woman by taking cocaine from her when she was asleep and sharing it with his friends. The lyrics “He took her cocaine when she was asleep, and friends say he gave half away” underscore how the couple lacks trust and respect for each other. However, despite their troubles, the couple insists that they are in love. The chorus line, “Run away before it’s too late” suggests that the couple is in a bad place filled with danger and delusion, yet they cannot see it.


The song seems to be a commentary on the idea of love and what happens when we become blind to the faults in our relationships. The chorus line “Only love lets me forget who I really am” suggests that love can be all-consuming, and we may lose our sense of self when we become too engrossed in our relationships. Similarly, the line “That damn beauty is all that we need to survive” suggests that the couple is willing to ignore the toxicity of their relationship in favor of the positive feelings that remain.


Line by Line Meaning

She put the scar on the side of his face
He received an injury on his face when she hit him, but they believe this shows her passion and intensity


When he disappeared for three days
He left without explanation for three days, but they are still together and believe in their love


And they say that they are in love
They insist that they are in love, regardless of what others may think or say


He took her cocaine when she was asleep
He stole some of her drugs while she was asleep, but they still believe they are meant to be together


And friends say he gave half away
His friends noticed that he shared some of the stolen drugs with them, yet he still professes his love for her


Run away, run away
Someone is warning them to get out of the relationship before it's too late


Run away before it's too late
They are being urged to end their relationship before something terrible happens


There is danger but they will not see
Their love has blinded them to the potential dangers of their situation


If they're blind, then it's blind that they'd rather be.
They are happy being blind to the situation as long as they can stay together


This town's destroyed more than one friend of mine
The town they live in has already caused other people they know a lot of pain and hardship


Funny that they never leave
Despite knowing the negative aspects of their town, they have never left it


Some say it's rotten, some say it's wrong
People have criticized their relationship, saying that it isn't healthy or right


Some say it's hard to believe
Others have a hard time believing that their love is genuine


And some say that they are in love
But despite their critics, they still insist that they are in love


Move away, move away
Again, someone is warning them to leave their current situation


Move away before it's too late
They're being urged to leave before something terrible happens


And the lion sleeps with the lamb
Despite the dangers of their relationship, they still have a deep and intense love for each other


Only love lets me forget who I really am
Their love has allowed them to escape their reality and forget their problems


This land is small and it's cold and it's damp
Despite their town's disadvantages, nothing can stop their love for each other


But there's no place that I'd rather be
They wouldn't rather be anywhere else as long as they can be together


I know that I am in love
Despite all of their problems, they are sure that they're in love and meant to be together


Ethnic divisions, screaming demands
There are social, political, and cultural limitations in their relationship, but they still continue to love each other


A little bit like you and me
Their relationship is similar to other relationships that have to contend with societal expectations and prejudices


I guess that we are in love
Despite the complications and challenges, they believe that they're in love


Stay away, stay away
Again, someone is warning them to leave the relationship


Stay away you might end up like me
The person warning them may have had a similarly destructive relationship and doesn't want them to meet the same fate


It's the pain that keeps us alive
The pain caused by their relationship is what keeps them going and feeling alive


But that beauty is all that we need to survive
The beauty of their love outweighs any pain or hardship that they endure, making their relationship worth it




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID BYRNE

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