To Ramona
David Gray Lyrics


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Ramona, come closer
Shut softly your watery eyes
The pangs of your sadness
Will pass as your senses will rise
The flowers of the city
Though breathlike, get deathlike at times
And there's no use in tryin'
To deal with the dyin'
Though I cannot explain that in lines.

Your cracked country lips
I still wish to kiss
As to be by the strength of you skin
Your magnetic movements
Still capture the minutes I'm in
But it grieves my heart, love
To see you tryin' to be a part of
A world that just don't existv It's all just a dream, babe
A vacuum, a scheme, babe
That sucks you into feelin' like this.

I can see that your head
Has been twisted and fed
With worthless foam from the mouth
I can tell you are torn
Between stayin' and returnin'
Back to the South
You've been fooled into thinking
That the finishin' end is at hand
Yet there's no one to beat you
No one to defeat you
'Cept the thoughts of yourself feeling bad

I've heard you say many times
That you're better 'n no one
And no one is better 'n you
If you really believe that
You know you have
Nothing to win and nothing to lose
From fixtures and forces and friends
Your sorrow does stem
That hype you and type you
Making you feel
That you gotta be just like them.

I'd forever talk to you
But soon my words
They would turn into a meaningless ring
For deep in my heart
I know there is no help I can bring
Everything passes
Everything changes
Just do what you think you should do
And someday, maybe




Who knows, baby
I'll come and be cryin' to you.

Overall Meaning

The song "To Ramona" by David Gray is a contemplative piece filled with vivid imagery that speaks of a state of longing for connection with someone who seems to be caught in a world that is different from the one the singer is inhabiting. The singer implores Ramona to come closer and allow herself to feel her senses, so as to be able to overcome the sadness that is enveloping her. He compares her to the flowers of the city which though beautiful can also be fragile and fleeting. He seems to be addressing Ramona affectionately as he talks about her skin and the magnetic qualities that she possesses.


The singer seems to be trying to encourage Ramona to leave behind the falseness of the world around her and to be her true self. She appears to be caught up in a world that does not align with her true essence, represented by the south, which he urges her to return to. He suggests that she has been misled into believing that the finish is near and that she must be like everyone and everything else. The singer, however, encourages her to be authentic and true to herself, to do what she thinks she should do.


Overall, "To Ramona" presents a message of staying true to oneself and being authentic despite the pressures and expectations of the surrounding environment.


Line by Line Meaning

Ramona, come closer
The singer is requesting for Ramona to approach him.


Shut softly your watery eyes
The singer is requesting for Ramona to close her eyes gently.


The pangs of your sadness will pass as your senses rise
If Ramona allows herself to feel her emotions, she will eventually start to feel better.


The flowers of the city, though breathlike, get deathlike at times
The beauty of the city is fleeting and can sometimes seem lifeless.


And there's no use in tryin' to deal with the dyin'
There is no point in trying to hold onto things that are inevitably passing away.


Though I cannot explain that in lines
The singer cannot fully convey what he means through words alone.


Your cracked country lips, I still wish to kiss
The singer still longs to be with Ramona despite any physical flaws she may have.


As to be by the strength of you skin
The artist is drawn to the strength and resilience of Ramona's character.


Your magnetic movements still capture the minutes I'm in
The artist is enchanted by Ramona's movements and cannot help but watch her.


But it grieves my heart, love, to see you tryin' to be a part of a world that just don't exist
The artist is saddened to see Ramona trying to fit in with a society that is not realistic or genuine.


It's all just a dream, babe, a vacuum, a scheme, babe, that sucks you into feelin' like this
The singer believes that society is an illusion that draws people in and makes them feel a certain way.


I can see that your head has been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth
The artist can tell that Ramona's thoughts and beliefs have been manipulated by others and are of no value.


I can tell you are torn between stayin' and returnin' back to the South
Ramona is conflicted about where she should be and what she should do.


You've been fooled into thinking that the finishin' end is at hand
Ramona has been misled into thinking that the end is near.


Yet there's no one to beat you, no one to defeat you, 'cept the thoughts of yourself feeling bad
The only thing that can defeat Ramona are her own negative thoughts and feelings.


I've heard you say many times that you're better 'n no one, and no one is better 'n you
Ramona tends to compare herself to others and believes that she is better than some and worse than others.


If you really believe that, you know you have nothing to win and nothing to lose
If Ramona truly believes that nobody is better than her and vice versa, then she has nothing to gain or lose from comparing herself to others.


From fixtures and forces and friends your sorrow does stem, that hype you and type you, making you feel that you gotta be just like them
Ramona's sadness stems from social pressures to conform to expectations and be like everyone else.


I'd forever talk to you, but soon my words, they would turn into a meaningless ring
The singer would love to always talk to Ramona, but he fears that eventually his words would lose their value and become empty.


For deep in my heart, I know there is no help I can bring
The artist realizes that he cannot solve all of Ramona's problems and is powerless to help her in some ways.


Everything passes, everything changes, just do what you think you should do
Life is constantly changing and moving forward, so Ramona should do whatever she thinks is best for herself.


And someday, maybe, who knows, baby, I'll come and be cryin' to you
Someday, the roles may reverse and the artist may need Ramona's help and comfort.




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Comments from YouTube:

Don Pringle

Dylan would weep listening to you. How immaculate this work truly is.

Life’s Too Short

I think it was Gray doing the weeping when he first heard the genius of this stunningly beautiful song

Daniyal Naqvi

Excellent version

Brian

All things in my life have led me here now to listen to this.
Thank you so much for this, Mr. David Gray

Marky

Beautiful David perfect

Chris

The Irish lady Sinéad lohan imo sings it better

Stef Euphoria

U might as well clean ur ears out 😅

Kees Schoone

Both Sinéad and David do a fantastic job, Christian..you can't deny that David Gray has a fabulous voice slightly reminding me of the great late Luke Kelly. However you and I might be blinded (and thus prejudiced in favour of Sinéad) by Miss Lohan's stunning beauty....

peter smith

Neither come close to the original.

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