I Can't
David and the Bear Lyrics


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While you wait with arms wide open
Fading in against the tide
Holding on, but we're still broken
It's different on the other side
I can't breathe
All you want to feel is misery
But everything that I believe
You've taken from me
You're all I need
We both know
That all our dreams are underneath
Below our feet
And now I can't breathe
Day by day we never notice
We're waiting for our world to change
Acting on all that you told us
Expecting things to stay the same
I can't breathe
All you want to feel is misery
But everything that I believe
You've taken from me
You're all I need
We both know
That all our dreams are underneath
Below our feet
And now I can't breathe
Now I can't breathe
I can't breathe
All you want to feel is misery
You're all I need
We both know
That all our dreams are underneath




Below our feet
And now I can't breathe

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "I Can't" by David and the Bear talk about the struggle and feeling of being suffocated in a relationship. The singer is waiting for something to change, but everything seems to be falling apart. They are holding on, but they feel broken, and the weight of the situation is causing them to feel like they can't breathe. The person they are with seems to only want to feel misery, and in turn, they are taking away everything that the singer believes in.


The lyric "We both know that all our dreams are underneath, below our feet" suggests that the situation has become so heavy that it's impossible to move forward. The singer and their partner once shared the same dreams and aspirations, but now those dreams seem out of reach. It seems that the relationship has become toxic, and the singer feels trapped, unable to see a way out.


Overall, the song conveys a sense of despair, isolation and hopelessness. While the meaning of the song may vary from person to person, the poignant lyrics and haunting melody are sure to resonates with anyone struggling to breathe in a difficult relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

While you wait with arms wide open
As you eagerly anticipate something or someone, you keep your arms figuratively open, ready to accept what comes next.


Fading in against the tide
You feel like you're disappearing slowly, like a ship in the distance as the waves get higher and higher.


Holding on, but we're still broken
You're attempting to persevere or endure but the distress continues to wear you down despite your efforts.


It's different on the other side
Things are dissimilar or altered in contrast to how they are right now, but you're not sure if it's better or worse.


I can't breathe
You're struggling to catch your breath, emotionally or physically, under the weight of your circumstances.


All you want to feel is misery
You're seeking to experience negative emotions because they feel familiar, easier to handle, or you believe you're undeserving of happiness.


But everything that I believe
The principles, ideas, or values you hold dear, that guide your actions, are being challenged or disregarded.


You've taken from me
You feel as though someone or something has robbed you of the beliefs, people, or possessions that you hold dear or that you are entitled to.


You're all I need
Despite other shortcomings, you remain reliant on this one thing or person for support, comfort, or direction.


We both know That all our dreams are underneath Below our feet
Collectively, we acknowledge that our aspirations lie below us, unrealized, and seem out of reach.


And now I can't breathe
The previous thoughts, emotions, and sensations become too much to bear and it feels as though they're suffocating you.


Day by day we never notice We're waiting for our world to change
We're going through the motions of life, doing our daily routine with little thought, yet simultaneously waiting for something to change.


Acting on all that you told us Expecting things to stay the same
We've taken advice or guidance and followed it, but we still anticipate things to remain constant or to progress smoothly without deviations.


Now I can't breathe
It's become even more difficult to take in oxygen, either from a heightened emotional state or a worsening situation.




Lyrics © DistroKid, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: James Harker

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Comments from YouTube:

Andre Coleman

Me and my fiance would listen to this on road trips before she passed it's a very great song. I listen to it just about every day

Proceid

Sorry for your loss brotha

Alma Garrett

I’m so sorry for your loss, stay strong, Sir

rosa lopez

So sorry

Anthony Brown

Sorry for your loss

Sean Roach

Much love brother

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mskishimari

This song always puts me in a good mood, even if I don't have a beer. Love the energy and vocals of these two teaming up!

Jimmy Holy

Same here....lol

Laura Partain

😮😢😮

Laura Partain

😮fm😮 2:40 😮😮

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