Only Tender Love
Deacon Blue Lyrics


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Way out there in the wilderness
Of love and pain
Under the gentle arches we rode
The silver streets
Couldn`t see a difference between gold or
Wooden cross
Could never see where we`re falling
Came in to love

Then hounded by love
Hounded by the very thing you dreamed up
Chased inside the walls you tried to breach
Sent crashing to your knees
Only tender love
Understood the need you need with
Understood the time it took
To take you where nothing ever was

Never was there once nothing
And everything once was
Not dead but still and ready to be born anew
Looking back now it all
Seems so clear
Like staring so long unseeing for someone to light inside a
Darkened room

Then try your tender love
Push you back till there`s nowhere left
Nowhere to feel nothing anymore
Nothing that will comfort you more
More than tender love
Understands the need you need with
Understand the time it takes to get home and have a love again
More than tender love
Understands the need you need with
Understand the time it takes
To get home and have a love

Then try your tender love
Push it till there`s nothing left
Nowhere to feel nothing anymore
Nothing that will comfort you more

Then hounded by love
Hounded by the very thing you dreamed up
Chased inside the walls you tried to breach
Sent crashing to your knees

Then only tender love
Understood the need you need with
Understood the time it took
To take you where nothing ever was

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Deacon Blue's song Only Tender Love depict the journey of love and pain a person experiences in life. The opening lines, "Way out there in the wilderness of love and pain," suggest that the path of love can be both beautiful and challenging - a journey through unfamiliar terrain. The metaphor of "gentle arches" and "silver streets" is used to describe the ups and downs of the journey, the highs and the lows that come with love. The reference to "gold or wooden cross" indicates that love is blind to material possessions or social status. Once one falls in love, they can't see where they're falling, they just know they're in love.


The chorus of the song stresses the importance of tender love, the kind of love that understands and accepts the deepest need of an individual, no matter how long it takes. The line "Only tender love understood the need you need with" emphasizes the unique understanding that true love brings; a comfort that cannot be found elsewhere. However, the second verse talks about the challenges of love. It depicts the moments where love can be suffocating, almost like being pushed in a corner till there's nowhere left to go. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, reaffirming the idea that in the end, only tender love can take you where nothing ever was.


Line by Line Meaning

Way out there in the wilderness
In the unknown and uncharted territory of your heart


Of love and pain
Experiencing the joys and sorrows of love


Under the gentle arches we rode
Navigating through the ups and downs of a relationship


The silver streets
The bright and hopeful path we were on


Couldn`t see a difference between gold or
Unable to distinguish between the value of things


Wooden cross
Even if it's something as plain as a wooden cross


Could never see where we`re falling
Unable to predict where the relationship is heading


Came in to love
Entered into the relationship with an open heart


Then hounded by love
Then pursued and tormented by the overwhelming power of love


Hounded by the very thing you dreamed up
Pursued by the very thing that you wished for


Chased inside the walls you tried to breach
Trapped inside the emotional walls you tried to break through


Sent crashing to your knees
Reduced to a state of vulnerability and surrender


Only tender love
Only the gentle and compassionate aspects of love


Understood the need you need with
Understood your deepest desires and wants


Understood the time it took
Understood that it takes time to heal and recover


To take you where nothing ever was
To take you to a place where there was no pain, doubt, or fear


Never was there once nothing
There was never a time when there was nothing there


And everything once was
Everything that exists now was once created


Not dead but still and ready to be born anew
Not dead yet stagnant, but ready for new growth and change


Looking back now it all
Reflecting on the past


Seems so clear
Becomes evident and understandable


Like staring so long unseeing for someone to light inside a
Like searching for a long time, blindly, for someone to guide you


Darkened room
In a place where you couldn't see or perceive anything


Then try your tender love
Then attempt to rely on the kind and compassionate parts of love


Push you back till there`s nowhere left
Push you away until there's no room left in your heart for love


Nowhere to feel nothing anymore
No place to escape the void of emptiness and loneliness


Nothing that will comfort you more
Nothing that will ease your pain and make you feel better


More than tender love
More than just the gentle and kind aspects of love


Understands the need you need with
Comprehends the specific desires and wants that you have


Understand the time it takes to get home and have a love again
Understand that it takes time to heal and recover before being able to love again


Then try your tender love
Then attempt to rely on the kind and compassionate parts of love


Push it till there`s nothing left
Push it to the brink until there's no more love left to give or receive


Nowhere to feel nothing anymore
No place to escape the void of emptiness and loneliness


Nothing that will comfort you more
Nothing that will ease your pain and make you feel better


Then hounded by love
Pursued and tormented by the overwhelming power of love


Hounded by the very thing you dreamed up
Pursued by the very thing that you wished for


Chased inside the walls you tried to breach
Trapped inside the emotional walls you tried to break through


Sent crashing to your knees
Reduced to a state of vulnerability and surrender


Then only tender love
Only the gentle and compassionate aspects of love


Understood the need you need with
Understood your deepest desires and wants


Understood the time it took
Understood that it takes time to heal and recover


To take you where nothing ever was
To take you to a place where there was no pain, doubt, or fear




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Written by: ROSS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@patrickstocks3986

Way out there in the wilderness
Of love 💓 and pain
Under the gentle arches we rode
The silver streets
Couldn’t see a difference between gold or
Wooden cross
Could never see where we’re falling
Came into love 💓

Then hounded by love 💕
Hounded by the very thing you dreamed up
Chased inside the walls you tried to breach
Sent crashing to your knees
Only tender love 💓
Understood the need you need with
Understood the time it took
To take you where nothing ever was

Never was there once nothing
And everything once was
Not dead 💀 but still and ready to be born anew
Looking back now it all
Seems so clear
Like staring so long unseeing for someone to light 💡 inside a
Darkened room

Then try your tender love 💕
Push you back till there’s nowhere left
Nowhere to feel nothing anymore
Nothing that will comfort you more
More than tender love 💕
Understands the need you need with
Understand the time it takes to get home 🏠 and have a love 💓 again

More than tender love 💕
Understands the need you need with
Understand the time it takes
To get home 🏠 and have a love 💓

Then try your tender love 💓
Push it till there’s nothing left
Nowhere to feel nothing anymore
Nothing that will comfort you more

The hounded by love 💓
Hounded by the very thing you dreamed up
Chased inside the walls you tried to breach
Sent crashing to your knees

Then only tender love 💔
Understood the need you need with
Understood the time it took
To take you where nothing ever was



All comments from YouTube:

@rachel2005lucy

What a song their best by far! Often on repeat for me!

@enoughalready3657

2024 Still sounds great🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@Rachael121

You're just out for a peaceful mountain road walk and here come Deacon Blue walking towards you! Fantastic song ❤

@mikepaolo3169

Seriously reminds me of INXS this track with the way Michael Hutchence would act (if you get my drift)

@michelleelfazzate178

My favourite band when I was a teenager and I'm now 50 still brilliant ❤ this song is just amazing on repeat

@dalecollins2085

The best song they have ever written........

@gmshadowtraders

Dale Collins It's really good but I think Your Town is their best track

@George292Rainbow

Your Town, Dignity, Let Your Hearts Be Troubled, but yes I also love it too alot...

@Tomgood1984

Your town... powerful song, should be played for this time were in.

@nategood505

With you....such a colossal belter. 😍😎

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