Mean to Me
Dean Martin Lyrics


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You're mean to me
Why must you be mean to me
Gee, honey it seems to me
You love to see me crying

I stay home Each night when you
Say you'll phone, you don't and I'm left alone
Singing the blues and crying

You treat me coldly
Each day in the year
You always scold me
Whenever some body is near, dear

It must be, great fun to be




Mean to me. You shouldn't for can't you see
What you mean, to me.

Overall Meaning

Dean Martin's song Mean to Me is a ballad about a heartbroken man who is pleading with his lover to stop treating him unkindly. He is asking why she is purposely causing him emotional pain by being cold and distant towards him. He is also expressing his feelings of isolation and abandonment that he experiences when his lover does not follow up on her promises and leaves him singing the blues and crying. The singer is depicted as someone who is deeply in love with his partner, but is increasingly frustrated and hurt by her detached and unkind behavior towards him.


The lyrics of Mean to Me largely revolve around the themes of unrequited love and heartbreak, offering a glimpse into the psyche of a man who feels neglected and mistreated by the person he loves. Throughout the song, Dean Martin's sorrowful vocal delivery highlights the raw emotions of the singer, which adds to the melancholic mood of the track.


Line by Line Meaning

You're mean to me
You're cruel and hurtful towards me


Why must you be mean to me
Why do you choose to treat me this way?


Gee, honey it seems to me
Honestly, it appears to me


You love to see me crying
You derive pleasure from witnessing me in pain


I stay home Each night when you
Every night I remain at home when you


Say you'll phone, you don't and I'm left alone
When you promise to call and you don't, I'm left feeling lonely


Singing the blues and crying
I'm deeply sad and distressed


You treat me coldly
You treat me with indifference and detachment


Each day in the year
This is the way you behave every single day of the year


You always scold me
You frequently criticize and reprimand me


Whenever somebody is near, dear
And you do so specifically when other people are around


It must be great fun to be
You seemingly derive pleasure from acting this way towards me


Mean to me. You shouldn't for can't you see
You shouldn't treat me this way, don't you understand how much it hurts me?


What you mean to me
The impact your harsh behavior has on me




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Bluewater Music Corp., Peermusic Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Fred E. Ahlert, Roy Turk

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