Count Me In
Deana Carter Lyrics


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Could there be a different ending
To the same old story
?Cause you're not the first to say
You're gonna be there for me
I need to know what's in your heart
Can you finish what you start
Tell me how can I be sure I wont' be sorry
If heartaches and tears and shadows of doubt
Are part of the deal, you can count me out
But if you're talking about a game I can win
You can count me in

When you tell me you're the one
I've always needed
You don't know how much I'm wanting
To believe it
But I've heard it all before
Now I'm needing something more
A promise is no good if you can't keep it

If heartaches and tears and shadows of doubt
Are part of the deal, you can count me out




But if you're talking about a game I can win
You can count me in

Overall Meaning

The song "Count Me In" by Deana Carter is a ballad that explores a common theme of love and commitment. The lyrics tell the story of a skeptical lover who has been hurt in the past and is cautious about a potential relationship. The opening lines suggest that while the situation may seem familiar, perhaps there could be a different outcome this time. The persona wants to know what is really in the suitor's heart and whether he can follow through on his promises. She expresses a fear of being hurt again, a feeling that comes from past experience.


The chorus of the song is the most compelling part. It is where the singer lays out the ultimatum. She basically tells her suitor that if the relationship comes with heartaches, tears, and doubt, then she is out, but if it's a game she can win, he can count her in. The persona is willing to take a chance on love, but it cannot come with misery and struggle. She wants to be sure that the relationship is worth it and that her suitor is genuine.


Overall, the song seems to be about the fear of getting hurt again and the cautious hope that love can sometimes bring. The singer is looking for evidence of genuine love, expressed through action and commitment.


Line by Line Meaning

Could there be a different ending
Is there a chance that this time things will turn out differently?


To the same old story
To the repetitive, predictable narrative of failed relationships


?Cause you're not the first to say
Because you're not the first person to make promises and offer reassurance


You're gonna be there for me
That you'll be there to support and care for me


I need to know what's in your heart
I need to understand your true intentions and feelings


Can you finish what you start
Will you follow through with your promises and commitments?


Tell me how can I be sure I wont' be sorry
Help me feel confident that I won't experience heartache or regret in our relationship


If heartaches and tears and shadows of doubt
If pain, sorrow, and uncertainty will be part of our relationship


Are part of the deal, you can count me out
I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship with that kind of emotional cost


But if you're talking about a game I can win
If you're speaking of a relationship that has a real chance of being successful


You can count me in
I'm willing to risk my emotions and invest in our relationship if I believe it's worth it


When you tell me you're the one
When you claim that you're the person I've been seeking


I've always needed
The one who can fulfill my emotional needs and desires


You don't know how much I'm wanting
You can't understand how much I crave finding the right person


To believe it
To have confidence in your claim


But I've heard it all before
I've been disappointed by empty promises in the past


Now I'm needing something more
I require more than mere words and reassurances; I need proof of your commitment


A promise is no good if you can't keep it
It's meaningless to make promises that you can't or aren't willing to fulfill




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CHUCK JONES, DEANA KAY CARTER

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Could there be a different ending
To the same old story
Cause you're not the first to say
You're gonna be there for me
I need to know what's in your heart
Can you finish what you start
How can I be sure I won't be sorry

If heartaches and tears and shadows of doubt
Are part of the deal, you can count me out
But if you're talking about a game I can win
You can count me in

When you tell me you're the one
I've always needed
You don't know how much I'm wanting
To believe it
But I've heard it all before
Now I'm needing something more
A promise is no good if you can't keep it

If heartaches and tears and shadows of doubt
Are part of the deal, you can count me out
But if you're talking about a game I can win
You can count me in

If heartaches and tears and shadows of doubt
Are part of the deal, you can count me out
But if you're talking about a game I can win
You can count me in

You can count me in



All comments from YouTube:

Hi hello

I’ve met her a handful of times. She is so incredibly sweet and just as beautiful as always. 2020 looks great on Deana!

Shayla Crossland

This song still gives me chills

Marcos Bryant

What do you admire most about Deana

Jonathan West

I can remember growing up and listening to this kind of music in the 1990s love her music she's such a good musician she puts her feelings into a song and you can hear it in her voice

lakewobegonboy74

I think that this has always been my favorite of your videos ever since I first saw it back in the 90’s. You look positively like an Angel in the color shots. Thank you for sharing your talent with the world!

JAMES HUCKNALL

unbelievable. needs to be more like her today

azimuth361

Deana is my absolute favorite country singer. I hear a lot of Dolly in her voice... which is a good thing.

Jim Noe

Love this girl! I saw her in concert in 2001!

Kenneth Lingle

Deana Carter had/has one of the most beautiful voices that country music has ever offered us. The voice of an angel. Thank you Deana......

Amanda Housley

Love this song!!! This is my whole motto right now!!! Real or nothin’

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