Growing Pains
Deas Vail Lyrics


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What's a name
When in the darkness we all look the same?
Holding candles looking for the flame,
For the fire to chase the night away
As we wait for daylight to break.

What is life kept to ourselves?
Careful words composed?
It's a book upon the shelf,
Its story never told.

We are frames,
Chasing photos of our happier days.
Clinging to the ones they can't erase.
Going on to find that perfect place,
Where we can love each other.
We can find each other,
We can shape the world again.

What is life kept to ourselves?
Careful words composed?
It's a book upon the shelf,
Its story never told.

Pages turn and then unfold
To show us where we've been.
As the signs along the road
To lead us home again.

I feel like I am turned inside out.
I've come so far I can't turn around,
But I don't know the next steps to take
'Cause all you left were me and the growing pains.

What is life kept to ourselves?
Careful words composed?
It's a book upon the shelf,
Its story never told.

Pages turn and then unfold
To show us where we've been.




As the signs along the road
To lead us home again.

Overall Meaning

The song "Growing Pains" by Deas Vail is a poignant reflection on life and the struggles that come with it. The opening lines of the song ask, "What's in a name when in the darkness we all look the same?" This sets the tone for the rest of the song as it delves into the idea of finding and holding onto hope in difficult times.


Throughout the song, the lyrics explore the notion of life kept to oneself, how it's like a book upon the shelf, its story never told. The song challenges listeners to find the courage to share their stories, their struggles, and their pain. The chorus talks about chasing photos of our happier days and clinging to the ones they can't erase, in the search for a perfect place where we can love each other and shape the world again.


The last verse of the song speaks to the feelings of being lost and unsure of the next steps to take, all while dealing with the "growing pains" of life. The growing pains are a metaphor for the struggles we all face in growing up and trying to navigate our way through life.


Overall, "Growing Pains" is a powerful and introspective song that reminds us of the importance of hope and sharing our stories.


Line by Line Meaning

What's a name
Does it really matter what we call ourselves?


When in the darkness we all look the same?
In the midst of chaos, we all appear as equals.


Holding candles looking for the flame,
Searching for hope and light in dark times.


For the fire to chase the night away
Hoping for something powerful enough to drive away darkness and despair.


As we wait for daylight to break.
Holding on to the hope that a new day will bring renewed light and life.


What is life kept to ourselves?
What is the point of experiencing life if we never share it with anyone?


Careful words composed?
Do we keep our true selves hidden behind a facade of carefully crafted words?


It's a book upon the shelf,
Our life is like an unread book gathering dust on a shelf.


Its story never told.
Our life remains untold and the world misses out on our unique story.


We are frames,
We are all pieces in a larger picture.


Chasing photos of our happier days.
We cling to memories of happier times and strive to recapture that joy.


Clinging to the ones they can't erase.
Holding onto memories that can never be taken away.


Going on to find that perfect place,
Searching for a place of belonging and acceptance.


Where we can love each other.
Where we can all love and accept one another.


We can find each other,
We can all come together and support each other.


We can shape the world again.
Together, we can make a positive impact on the world around us.


Pages turn and then unfold
Our life unfolds like the pages of a book.


To show us where we've been.
To remind us of the journey we have taken.


As the signs along the road
The signs we encounter along our journey.


To lead us home again.
Guiding us back to where we belong.


I feel like I am turned inside out.
Feeling emotionally exposed and vulnerable.


I've come so far I can't turn around,
Having come a long way in life, it's difficult to go back to where we started.


But I don't know the next steps to take
Feeling lost and uncertain about the future.


'Cause all you left were me and the growing pains.
Feeling abandoned and left to deal with life's struggles on our own.




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