09.Death Of An Interior Decorator
Death Cab for Cutie Lyrics


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You were the mother of three girls so sweet
Who stormed through your turnstile and climbed to the street
But after conception your body lay cold
And withered through autumn and you found yourself old

Can you tell me why have been so sad?
He took a lover on a far away beach
While you arranged flowers and chose color schemes

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
Can you tell me why you have been so sad?

The girls were all there, they traded their vows
The youngest one glared with furrowed brows
They tenderly kissed then cut the cake
The bride then tripped and broke the vase
The one you thought would spend the years
So perfectly placed below the mirror
Arriving late, you clean the debris
And walked into the angry sea

It felt just like falling in love again
And it felt just like falling in love again





Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
Can you tell me why you have been so

Overall Meaning

sad?


"Death of an Interior Decorator" by Death Cab for Cutie tells the story of a mother who had three daughters who were full of life and energy. However, after her last pregnancy, her body began to weaken and age rapidly. The mother had spent her time arranging flowers and choosing color schemes for her home while her husband had taken a lover on a faraway beach. The song is practically a conversation between the people wondering why the mother was so sad. The song ends with the mother cleaning up debris from her daughter's wedding that leads her to walk into the angry sea. The sea felt like falling in love again. The lyrics can be interpreted to mean that the frustrations of being confined by societal expectations may have led the mother to feel trapped between her maternal duties and her desires.


The imagery of the storming through the turnstile may symbolize how the daughters feel like they are tearing through a barrier or limitation they have in their life. The mother had been an interior decorator, which suggests a person who has an eye for beauty, but perhaps cannot translate it into her life outside of her job. The vase breaking at the end of the song may symbolize the shattered dreams and expectations that accompany traditional societal roles.


Line by Line Meaning

You were the mother of three girls so sweet
You had the joy of being a mother to three sweet daughters


That storm through your turnstile, and climbed to the street
Your daughters were full of energy and always eager to explore the world around them


But after conception, your body lay cold
After giving birth to your daughters, you experienced a sense of emptiness and detachment from your own body


Withered through Autumn then you found yourself old
As time passed, you felt the effects of aging and the changes in your own body


Can you tell me why have been so sad
Someone is concerned and wants to understand the reason behind your sadness


He took a lover on a far away beach,
Your partner cheated on you with someone else in a distant location


While you arranged flowers and chose color schemes
Meanwhile, you were preoccupied with decorating and making your surroundings beautiful


The girls were all there; they traded their vows.
Your daughters got married and exchanged their marriage vows


The youngest one glared with furrowed brow as
One of your daughters was not entirely happy or at ease during the wedding ceremony


They tenderly kissed and cut the cake.
The newlyweds shared a tender moment when they cut the wedding cake together


The bride then tripped and broke the vase,
Unfortunately, the bride made a mistake and accidentally broke a vase


The one you thought would span the years,
It was a vase that you thought would be a timeless and lasting addition to your home decor


So perfectly placed below the mirror
You had carefully chosen the spot where the vase would be displayed, under a mirror


Arriving late, you clean the debris
You arrived at the scene of the accident after it had already happened, and started cleaning up the broken pieces


And walked into the angry sea;
You then walked into the ocean, which represented a wave of emotions you were experiencing


It felt just like falling in love again.
You felt a rush of emotions similar to falling in love, as you were overwhelmed by the situation


And it felt just like falling in love again.
You continued to feel a sense of emotional intensity and excitement


Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
The question is repeated, as the person still wants to know why you have been feeling sad


Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
The question is repeated again, emphasizing the concern for your well-being




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Written by: Benjamin Gibbard

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kosong

You were the mother of three girls so sweet
That stormed through your turnstile and climbed to the street
But after conception, your body lay cold
And withered through autumn and you found yourself old

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
He took a lover on a faraway beach
While you arranged flowers and chose color schemes

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
Can you tell me why you have been so sad?

The girls were all there; they traded their vows.
The youngest one glared with furrowed brow
As they tenderly kissed and cut the cake.
The bride then tripped and broke the vase
The one you thought would span the years
So perfectly placed below the mirror
Arriving late, you cleaned the debris
And walked into the angry sea;
It felt just like falling in love again.
And it felt just like falling in love again.

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
Can you tell me why you have been so...



All comments from YouTube:

Guitarkid 1991

In my opinion Chris Walla is hands down the greatest producer around. The production on this album and every album for that matter is second to none. This song does it for me, specifically the bride. The way the layers on sound keep building and building all while adding tension and depth is unbelievable! As if that wasn't difficult enough it somehow never becomes overdone or too busy. Simply amazing!

evanpeartree

Anybody notice that weddings are a very common theme in Death Cab songs? But it always focuses them negatively, which is beautiful, because weddings always have this sort of false delusional perfectness in our minds when we think of them. Death Cab's lyrics are so realistic and true.

Mori Ro

Your opinion...one might disagree...

Mori Ro

In case of weddings I might agree: pumped up events, mostly every time. But a marriage is another thing.

Sturm

Death cab is the only band that reached into the abyss of my anxiety and stress, grabed my hand and pulled me out. since then I 've been looking up and not down. this was the band that gripped my heart and did not let it break when the worse came knocking.

Koryn Galen

The song deserves way more credit then it gets

Origami and Cats

I wonder what Woody Allen thinks of this homage?

kosong

You were the mother of three girls so sweet
That stormed through your turnstile and climbed to the street
But after conception, your body lay cold
And withered through autumn and you found yourself old

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
He took a lover on a faraway beach
While you arranged flowers and chose color schemes

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
Can you tell me why you have been so sad?

The girls were all there; they traded their vows.
The youngest one glared with furrowed brow
As they tenderly kissed and cut the cake.
The bride then tripped and broke the vase
The one you thought would span the years
So perfectly placed below the mirror
Arriving late, you cleaned the debris
And walked into the angry sea;
It felt just like falling in love again.
And it felt just like falling in love again.

Can you tell me why you have been so sad?
Can you tell me why you have been so...

QueenOfAmber

I love how they have stories in every one of their songs. It's like you can actually see the events happening... That's something only truly awesome bands can do. Love Death Cab For Cutie! Im/

Betty Jojoe Harper: Re- Imagination

I've been fans of these guys since I was like six. I didn't fully understand this song until I was around eleven or twelve. But, this song is so good and yet depressing. I can't help but feel a strange mixture of happiness and sadness when I listen to this song. Thank you Ben Gibbard for my childhood soundtrack.

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