5.The Sound of Settling
Death Cab for Cutie Lyrics


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I've got a hunger twisting my stomach into knots; that my tongue is tied off
My brain's repeating if you've got an impulse, let it out!
But they never make it past my mouth

This is the sound of settling
This is the sound of settling

Our youth is fleeting, old age is just around the bend and I can't wait to go gray
And I'll sit and wonder of every love that could have been
If I'd only thought of something charming to say

This is the sound of settling
This is the sound of settling





I've got a hunger twisting my stomach into knots

Overall Meaning

"The Sound of Settling" is a song by American indie rock band Death Cab for Cutie, released in 2003 as the second single from their fourth studio album "Transatlanticism." The song's lyrics describe the feeling of being stuck in a state of indecision or immobility, with the singer's hunger representing a desire to move forward and take action. However, he finds himself unable to express his impulses, leaving him feeling frustrated and trapped. The repeated phrase "This is the sound of settling" suggests that this inability to act is leading him to accept a life of mediocrity and compromise, rather than pursuing his dreams.


The second half of the song touches on the idea of aging and missed opportunities. The singer imagines himself as an old man, looking back on his life and regretting the moments when he failed to seize the chance for love. The line "If I'd only thought of something charming to say" implies that the singer's inability to express himself has led him to miss out on romantic possibilities. Overall, the song is a poignant reflection on the human tendency towards stagnation and passivity, and the importance of taking risks and pursuing our desires.


Line by Line Meaning

I've got a hunger twisting my stomach into knots
I am feeling a strong desire or longing that is causing physical pain and discomfort.


that my tongue is tied off
I am unable to articulate my thoughts or express myself verbally.


My brain's repeating if you've got an impulse, let it out!
My mind is urging me to act on my impulses and desires, to not hold back.


But they never make it past my mouth
Despite my desire to express myself, I am unable to do so due to fear, insecurity, or other factors.


This is the sound of settling
This feeling of being stuck, unable to express myself, or move forward is what it means to settle in life.


Our youth is fleeting, old age is just around the bend and I can't wait to go gray
Life is short and unpredictable, and I am eager to embrace all of its stages, including aging and wisdom.


And I'll sit and wonder of every love that could have been
I will reflect on missed opportunities for love and connection, wishing I had taken more risks and expressed myself more fully.


If I'd only thought of something charming to say
Regretting missed chances for connection, and recognizing that the ability to express oneself in a charming or engaging manner could have made a difference.


This is the sound of settling
The song repeats this line to emphasize the idea that settling means feeling trapped or stuck in one's life, unable to truly express oneself or pursue their dreams.


I've got a hunger twisting my stomach into knots
I am feeling a strong desire or longing that is causing physical pain and discomfort.


that my tongue is tied off
I am unable to articulate my thoughts or express myself verbally.


My brain's repeating if you've got an impulse, let it out!
My mind is urging me to act on my impulses and desires, to not hold back.


But they never make it past my mouth
Despite my desire to express myself, I am unable to do so due to fear, insecurity, or other factors.


This is the sound of settling
This feeling of being stuck, unable to express myself, or move forward is what it means to settle in life.


Our youth is fleeting, old age is just around the bend and I can't wait to go gray
Life is short and unpredictable, and I am eager to embrace all of its stages, including aging and wisdom.


And I'll sit and wonder of every love that could have been
I will reflect on missed opportunities for love and connection, wishing I had taken more risks and expressed myself more fully.


If I'd only thought of something charming to say
Regretting missed chances for connection, and recognizing that the ability to express oneself in a charming or engaging manner could have made a difference.


This is the sound of settling
The song repeats this line to emphasize the idea that settling means feeling trapped or stuck in one's life, unable to truly express oneself or pursue their dreams.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BENJAMIN GIBBARD

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@jurgenkulup5882

I've got a hunger twisting my stomach into knots; that my tongue is tied off
My brain's repeating if you've got an impulse, let it out!
But they never make it past my mouth

This is the sound of settling
This is the sound of settling

Our youth is fleeting, old age is just around the bend and I can't wait to go gray
And I'll sit and wonder of every love that could have been
If I'd only thought of something charming to say

This is the sound of settling
This is the sound of settling
I've got a hunger twisting my stomach into knots



@Fernandogenius7.

Lyrics

I've got a hunger, twisting my stomach into knots
That my tongue is tied off
My brain's repeating,
"If you've got an impulse, let it out"
But they never make it past my mouth

Bop-ba (bop-ba)
This is the sound of settling
Bop-ba, bop-ba (bop-ba)

Bop-ba (bop-ba)
This is the sound of settling
Bop-ba, bop-ba (bop-ba-a)

Our youth is fleeting
Old age is just around the bend
And I can't wait to go gray
And I'll sit and wonder
Of every love that could have been
If I'd only thought of something charming to say

Bop-ba (bop-ba)
This is the sound of settling
Bop-ba, bop-ba (bop-ba)

Bop-ba (bop-ba)
This is the sound of settling
Bop-ba, bop-ba (bop-ba)

Bop-ba (bop-ba)
This is the sound of settling
Bop-ba, bop-ba (bop-ba)

Bop-ba (bop-ba)
This is the sound of settling
Bop-ba, bop-ba (bop-ba)

I've got a hunger, twisting my stomach into knots



All comments from YouTube:

@Blade2xtremeFTW

"And i'll sit and wonder of every love that could've been If i'd only thought of something charming to say." Story of my life

@tinamcqueen8734

Ditto

@casaundramegan

I feel bad for guys, us ladies can be a tough crowd (vice versa too but guys have more pressure) - but if she really feels ya she wont mind mistakes and will have patience, we call it hope ✌ 10yrs later hopefully you found a charming one lol

@TheSpokenBanana

After feeling like I screwed up a date recently, this song hits hard. Not all hope is lost, but damn that date made me realize how awkward I am. Here's hoping she'll be up to give me another chance. Wish me luck, fellas.

Edit: unfortunately, doesn't look like she's up to give me another chance. Which I was kinda expecting. Maybe one day I'll find someone, but today wasn't that day. Sucks.

@drpeppercowboy

i’ve got the biggest crush on this guy in one of my classes but i have no idea how to talk to him. i just wish i’d think of something charming to say

@dylancooper8536

Anyone here during the Pandemic? Need some nostalgia from a decade that didn't suck as bad.

@margauxlao2508

meee :)

@kobiyorke9897

Dude I’m here in 2021

@mcortezwriter

along with "tiny vessels," this song does a bang up job of capturing the queasy self disgust that comes not just from knowing that you're lying to another about how you feel, but to yourself about what you want and don't want. i suppose that's a common enough thing--especially when you're young and haven't fucked up enough to know better--but gibbard's ability to render the familiar ickiness of emotional self-betrayal is both awesome and disturbing.

@anniepeace8704

+Marisol Cortez Definitely. But it's also kind of happy, right? Maybe perfection does not exist, or only exists in fleeting moments. Maybe allowing imperfection, settling, is necessary to lasting connection.

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