You Can Do Better Than Me
Death Cab for Cutie Lyrics


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We're starting to feel
We stayed together out of fear
Of dying alone
I've been slipping through the years
My old clothes don't fit like they once did
So they hang like ghosts
Of the people I've been
It's like my heart can't take
My fall in love every day
And I feel like a fool

I have to face the truth
That no one could ever look at me like you do
Like I'm something worth holding on to

These times I think of leaving
But it's something I'll never do





'Cause you can do better than me
But I can't do better than you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Death Cab for Cutie's song "You Can Do Better Than Me" reveal a relationship that is being sustained not by love, but by fear. Fear of being alone. The singer confesses to slipping through the years, as his old clothes hang like ghosts of the people he used to be. He is falling in and out of love every day, and it is crushing him. He feels like a fool for not being able to control his emotions. The singer acknowledges that his partner could do better than him, but he also realizes that he could never find someone who can look at him like his partner does. The song's lyrics convey a bittersweet feeling of resignation, where the singer accepts his place in the world, but at the same time, he is also yearning for something better.


The song's title, "You Can Do Better Than Me," reveals the singer's lack of self-esteem. He feels like he is not good enough for his partner, and this belief is causing him anguish. In the song's chorus, he tells his partner that she could do better than him, but he also acknowledges that he cannot do better than her. This sentiment underscores the singer's fear of being alone and his lack of confidence.


One interesting fact about the song is that it was produced by Chris Walla, who is also the guitarist for Death Cab for Cutie. The song was released in 2008 and featured on the album "Narrow Stairs." Another interesting fact is that the song's music video features a puppet that bears a striking resemblance to the band's lead singer, Ben Gibbard. The video was directed by animation artist Walter Robot. The song has been performed live by the band at numerous festivals, including Coachella and the Sasquatch Music Festival. "You Can Do Better Than Me" is considered one of Death Cab for Cutie's most poignant and emotional songs.


Chords: G, D, Em, C


Verse: G, D, Em, C
Pre-Chorus: D, Em, C, G
Chorus: G, D, Em, C


Line by Line Meaning

We're starting to feel
We have started to develop feelings


We stayed together out of fear
We were in a relationship due to fear


Of dying alone
We were afraid of being alone forever


I've been slipping through the years
I have been losing myself over time


My old clothes don't fit like they once did
My old ways of life don't seem to fit anymore


So they hang like ghosts
They linger and haunt me like ghosts


Of the people I've been
From the person I was before


It's like my heart can't take
It seems like my heart can't handle


My fall in love every day
Falling in love all over again daily


And I feel like a fool
Feeling ashamed and foolish about it


I have to face the truth
I need to confront the reality


That no one could ever look at me like you do
No one could see me in the way that you do


Like I'm something worth holding on to
Like I am someone worth keeping and not letting go


These times I think of leaving
There are times when I want to leave


But it's something I'll never do
But I know deep down that I will never leave


'Cause you can do better than me
You deserve someone better than me


But I can't do better than you
I know I could never find someone better than you




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: BENJAMIN GIBBARD

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Frank


on I Will Follow You Into The Dark

This song sucks

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