On My Own
Debra Laws Lyrics


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Time has come, take my stand
Show the world who I am
I've been waiting so long
For this day to come
On my own, I'll survive
Leave the past far behind

Reach out, as far as you can see
Reach out (oh), and fulfill your dreams
Reach out (ooh), as far as you can see (oh, oh)
Reach out, and fulfill your dreams
All your dreams

People say it won't last
Time will tell, I don't care (time will tell)
Having faith (having faith) in my dream
And I know what it means
Make the right (make the right) sacrifice (sacrifice)
Need this thrill in my life
Never doubt (never doubt), or look down (or look down)
On my own (on my own), feeling strong (feeling strong)

Reach out, as far as you can see
Reach out, and fulfill your dreams
Reach out, as far as you can see
Reach out, and fulfill your dreams

Time has come, take my stand
Show the world who I am
I've been waiting so long
For this day to come




On my own, I'll survive
Leave the past far behind

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Debra Laws's "On My Own" are about a woman who has grown and evolved from a past relationship where she allowed herself to be overshadowed and controlled by her partner. She is now more mature and confident, having learned from her mistakes, and is ready to take control of her own life, regardless of whether she makes mistakes or not. The song is about empowerment, self-discovery, and self-reliance, as she takes charge of her life and goes down her own path, defying society's expectations.


The first verse of the song shows the singer acknowledging her growth, understanding how she used to be in the past, and taking responsibility for her mistakes. She has learned which direction to take, and it's time for her to make her own choices now. The second verse is where she lets her partner know that their relationship is over, and she cannot go back to living as someone else. The decision is hers to make, and it's time to let go of the past and move forward. In the chorus, the singer emphasizes that she's not afraid of taking charge of her life, whatever the outcome might be, and regardless of what others might think.


The bridge of the song, "Oh I start again go back to one, I'm running things my way," shows the singer's determination to start fresh, to put herself first, and to take control of her life. The outro highlights the confidence gained from this newfound freedom and independence, with the singer stating that she is "not afraid to try it on my own."


Line by Line Meaning

I'm wiser now
I have gained knowledge through my experiences and have become more intelligent


I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
I have grown into a mature woman and am no longer the naive girl from our past


So long ago
It has been a significant amount of time since we were last together


I'm stronger now
I have become mentally and emotionally stronger after learning from my mistakes


I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
I have gained clarity on which path to take in life by making and learning from my mistakes


And I should know
I am confident in my decision-making abilities and trust my own judgement


I put myself aside to do it your way
I have neglected my own desires and needs in order to follow your wishes


But now I need to do it all alone
I have realized that I must be independent and pursue my own path in life


And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I am confident and not scared to venture out on my own


I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I am willing to take risks and make mistakes in order to find my own way


I'll live my life the way I feel
I will make decisions that align with my personal values and beliefs


No matter what I'll keep it real you know
I will always be true to myself and my principles


Time for me to do it on my own
It is time for me to embark on my own journey and take control of my life


It's over now
Our relationship and the past is behind me and I cannot go back to it


I can't go back to living through your eyes
I cannot continue to live my life based on your perspective and opinions


Too many lines
There have been too many boundaries and expectations placed on me by others


And if you don't know by now
If you have not realized it yet


I can't go back to being someone else
I refuse to be someone that I am not in order to please others


Not anymore
I have grown and changed from who I used to be


I never had a chance to do things my way
I have never been given the opportunity to make my own decisions and follow my own path


So now it's time for me to take control
I am ready to take charge of my life and steer it in the direction that I choose


Oh I start again go back to one
I am beginning a new chapter in my life and starting from the beginning


I'm running things my way
I am leading my life in the way that feels authentic to me


Can't stop me now, I've just begun
I am determined to succeed and there is nothing that can stand in my way


Don't even think about it
Do not even consider hindering my progress or trying to control me


There ain't no way about it
It is inevitable that I will pursue my goals and live life on my own terms


I'm taking names, the ones of mine
I am taking ownership of my life and becoming responsible for my own decisions


Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It is my time to shine and accomplish my goals


It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone
It is time for me to break away from dependence and become self-reliant


See I'm not afraid
I am fearless and ready to take on any challenges that come my way




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Written by: Lisa Peters, William Jefry

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@garrygalloway5043

So sophisticated, so stylish, so expensive 👍

@traceebottoms3498

I was in a hair salon a couple of days ago and this came on and I have been jamming ever since. I love the message in this song.

@joannehines7806

The greatness of the Laws Clan!! 💘

@melsmith2669

I like this song. Although hard to believe this song is obviously 4O years old. Wow the years just go by so fast. Golly.

@joannehines7806

Used to play this song looking forward to the future; still inspirational & motivational to all those dreamers out there!! 💘 🌈

@sarrhodes8277

Anthem for a hopeful life and such a great, uplifting song.  Deserved far wider audience.  Gorgeous Deborah - thank you.

@geeskin5750

love that opening bass line, brothas n sistas we slept on this jam

@michellerichards9948

I Love This SONG and Her Music!😍

@TyrroneHinton

Man, I'm feelin' this right here!!! The Laws family is full of of funk!!! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you my friend!!!

@FunKiiN

Tyrrone Hinton Ehehe thanks to you man !!! And to those kind of artist who keep us dreaming with their timeless songs ! Keep the funk alive bro, peace !!!

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