Bender
Deftones Lyrics


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WAIT...CONTAIN ME AROUND
ONLY TO...I SPIT
Step on my disease -
so nice to see me bleed
Step on my disease - I cannot contain

SLOW IT DOWN...I'M SO winded
I've fallen down...again

Taste numb of my teeth
Forever makes me...sick!!

Step on my disease-
so nice to see me bleed
Step on my disease - I cannot contain

SLOW IT DOWN...I'M so winded
I've fallen down...again
I follow the walking dead

Now that you found out
- somewhat about me
I wonder how long it will be before
you leave

SLOW IT DOWN - I'M SO winded -
SLOW IT DOWN
I've fallen down...again
SLOW IT DOWN - I'M so winded

- So end it
I've fallen down...again I follow the
walking dead




SPIT!!
STUPID FUCK.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Deftones's song Bender seem to convey a sense of frustration and helplessness. The phrase "wait...contain me around" suggests a desire to be held accountable, not allowed to act out in self-destructive ways. However, the following lines, "only to...I spit," indicate a resistance to this containment. The repetition of the phrase "step on my disease" creates a sense of masochism- enjoying the pain inflicted by another- and a lack of control over one's own self-destructive tendencies. The lines "taste numb of my teeth" and "forever makes me sick" suggest a hopelessness in addiction or self-harm.


The chorus repeats the phrase "slow it down" and "I'm so winded" indicating exhaustion and the need to stop moving so quickly. The line "I follow the walking dead" could imply a feeling of being trapped in a cycle of self-destruction and mimicry. The final lines, "now that you found out - somewhat about me - I wonder how long it will be before you leave" suggest that these self-destructive tendencies have pushed away others and that the singer knows their behavior is unhealthy, but feels trapped nonetheless.


Line by Line Meaning

WAIT...CONTAIN ME AROUND
Hold me back, restrict me in this space.


ONLY TO...I SPIT
The only thing I can do in this containment is spit.


Step on my disease -
My flaws and weaknesses are being exploited.


so nice to see me bleed
The person causing harm enjoys seeing me suffer.


Step on my disease - I cannot contain
I am unable to control the damage being inflicted upon me.


SLOW IT DOWN...I'M SO winded
I cannot keep up with the pace of life and feel exhausted.


I've fallen down...again
My life is constantly filled with hardships and failures.


Taste numb of my teeth
I am emotionally desensitized to the pain and suffering I experience.


Forever makes me...sick!!
The constant feeling of misery is making me ill.


I follow the walking dead
I am surrounded by people who are emotionless and lifeless.


Now that you found out - somewhat about me
Now that you have some knowledge about me, I wonder how long you will stay and tolerate me.


I wonder how long it will be before you leave
I am doubtful that anyone will stick around for long.


SLOW IT DOWN - I'M SO winded -
I need to slow down and take a break from life's difficulties.


SLOW IT DOWN
I need to take it easy and relax.


So end it
I want the suffering and pain to end.


SPIT!!
All I can do is express my anger and frustration through spitting.


STUPID FUCK.
The pain and frustration has made me lose control and act irrationally.




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@hectorcollazo8845

As a huge fan of Sevendust and Deftones, I lose my shit every time I listen to this blistering song. 🤘🔥
Same for Chino's collab with ill Niño's Faith No More Cover "Zombie Eaters".

@ChildrenAtLakeBodom

Chino's voice is so haunting and smooth in this song I love how Sevendust choose him for the part it's a song where you just close your eyes, shut up and listen to the music. Diffidently a listen-to-while-driving-home song!

@JoeWhite3572

I like that - Diffidently ... Definately Different

@woop8764

worded perfectly

@mr.bonesthedirector4728

Probably shouldn't close your eyes while driving, just sayin lol

@NewYorksMostWanted

Be quiet and drive.

@THESLOWDEATHHOOKS

Such an underrated track

@surj138

Agree 100%!!!

@ZsH85

+95dank thats why its so good. a pearl which is finally all yours...

@ReptilianGodMana

Hey I know U

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