How are you
Deirdre and Conor Lyrics


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I crashed my car the other day
Too busy thinking 'bout your face
Even though I just saw you yesterday
Yeah, it's a hazard to my health
I don't do nothin' for myself
You made me turn up late for work again

Ooh, yeah
I'm talkin' 'bout, talkin' 'bout, talkin' 'bout, talkin' 'bout you, yeah
To all of my, all of my, all of my friends at the room, yeah
They won't go back

Oh, I hate how much I love you
And I hate how much I care
I spend all of my money and all my time
'Cause I hate our love, I do
I hate how much I love you, ooh
Yeah, I hate how much I love you, ooh
I hate how much I love you

I emptied out my bank account
Just so that I could take you out
To somewhere that you never been before
And I told my friends a thousand lies
So I could be with you tonight
They don't believe a word I say no more

Ooh, yeah
I'm talkin' 'bout, talkin' 'bout, talkin' 'bout, talkin' 'bout you, yeah
I told myself I wouldn't fall but I broke my own rule, yeah
I can't come back

Oh, I hate how much I love you
And I hate how much I care
I spend all of my money and all my time
'Cause I hate our love, I do
I hate how much I love you, ooh
Yeah, I hate how much I love you, ooh
I hate how much I love you, yeah

When you're not around me, I swear, I got nothing to do, yeah
It's makin' me wonder what I did before I had you, yeah
I can't go back

Oh, I hate how much I love you (I love you)
And I hate how much I care (I hate how much I care)
I spend all of my money and all my time (and all my time)
'Cause I hate our love, I do
I hate how much I love you, ooh
Yeah, I hate how much I love you, ooh
I hate how much I love you, ooh




I hate how much I love you, ooh
I hate how much I love you

Overall Meaning

The song "How Are You?" by Deirdre and Conor delves into the complicated feelings that arise when deeply in love with someone. The first verse describes a moment when the singer crashed their car due to distractions caused by thinking about the person they love. They confess that they don't take care of themselves and that being with the person causes them to be consistently late for work. The chorus reveals the paradoxical emotions that come with loving someone so much, while at the same time feeling the weight of the effort and sacrifices they make for that love. The second verse shows the extent to which the singer is willing to go to impress their love interest, including emptying their bank account and lying to their friends just to be with them.


Overall, the song captures the struggle of trying to balance intense feelings of love with the practicalities of navigating a relationship, including the anxiety, sacrifice and hardships that come with it.


Line by Line Meaning

I crashed my car the other day
I was so preoccupied with thoughts of you that I crashed my car


Too busy thinking 'bout your face
My thoughts are consumed with thoughts of you


Even though I just saw you yesterday
My infatuation with you is so intense that the briefest of separations feels unbearable


Yeah, it's a hazard to my health
My obsession with you is detrimental to my wellbeing


I don't do nothin' for myself
My love for you has resulted in me neglecting my own needs


You made me turn up late for work again
My love for you has already caused negative consequences in other areas of my life


Oh, I hate how much I love you
I love you so much that it frustrates me and causes me distress


And I hate how much I care
The depth of my affection for you is overwhelming and burdensome


I spend all of my money and all my time
My love for you is all-consuming and has resulted in me ignoring my financial situation and my responsibilities


'Cause I hate our love, I do
I love you so much that it pains me, but I can't help but continue to love you


Yeah, I hate how much I love you
My love for you is intense and difficult


I emptied out my bank account
I have spent all of my money on you and our relationship


Just so that I could take you out
I have gone to great lengths to impress you and show you a good time


To somewhere that you never been before
I have tried to create unique experiences for you and to impress you with my creativity


And I told my friends a thousand lies
I have hidden the truth about my love for you from my friends and loved ones to preserve our relationship


So I could be with you tonight
I have made sacrifices to be with you and to maintain our connection


They don't believe a word I say no more
My friends are aware that I am hiding something from them and no longer trust what I say


When you're not around me, I swear, I got nothing to do
My life feels empty and meaningless without you in it


It's makin' me wonder what I did before I had you, yeah
My love for you has become the center of my life and I can't remember what my life was like before you


I can't go back
I am too deeply in love with you and our relationship to walk away and start over




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew James Bullimore, Jake Torrey, Joshua Peter Record, Noah Conrad

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