Where Were You When I Needed You
Del Shannon Lyrics


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Don't bother cryin, don't bother crawlinIt's all over now, no use in stallinThe love I once felt, I don't feel anymore for youThis time I'll even, open the door for youYou walked out when I was downWell now I'm well offAnd look, look who's comin round Where were you when I needed yaWhere were you when I wanted yaWhere were you when I needed yaWhere.
ere...
ere Well you're lookin good, it's hard to fight itBut no use explainin, I've already decidedThat livin with you, it's worse than without yaI won't spend a lifetime a worryin about yaOh, things got rough and you disappearedNow I'm back on my feetBut look, look who's standing there Where were you when I needed yaWhere were you when I wanted yaWhere were you when I needed yaWhere.
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ere Well you were so young, and you were so wildI knew you were nobody's innocent childThat first day I saw you, you really got to meI thought I could change you, what good did it do meOh, things got rough and you wouldn't waitNow you're tripping backBut babe, babe it's too late Where were you when I needed yaWhere were you when I wanted yaWhere were you when I needed yaWhere.
ere...
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Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Del Shannon's song "Where Were You When I Needed You" tell the story of a lost love that has returned now that the singer is no longer in need. The chorus repeats the question "where were you when I needed ya?" indicating that the other person was not present during a difficult time in the singer's life. However, now that the singer has moved on and become "well off," the love interest has reappeared. Despite their newfound confidence, the singer ultimately decides that being with this person is "worse than without ya" and chooses to move on without them.


The lyrics speak to the universal experience of losing love and the pain of feeling abandoned during a difficult time. The singer's decision to move on and not spend a lifetime worrying about this person suggests that they have gained some perspective and are no longer willing to tolerate a toxic relationship. The line "I thought I could change you, but what good did it do me" is particularly poignant, as it speaks to the futility of trying to change someone else, especially when it comes at the cost of one's own happiness and wellbeing.


Overall, Del Shannon's "Where Were You When I Needed You" is a powerful song that captures the heartache of lost love, as well as the strength and resilience it takes to move on and build a better life for oneself.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't bother cryin, don't bother crawlin
Don't waste your tears or try to beg for forgiveness


It's all over now, no use in stallin
Our relationship has come to an end and delaying won't change that


The love I once felt, I don't feel anymore for you
I've fallen out of love with you


This time I'll even, open the door for you
I'll let you go without resistance


You walked out when I was down
You left me when I was in a vulnerable state


Well now I'm well off
I'm doing much better now


And look, look who's comin round
You've come back into my life


Where were you when I needed ya
Where were you when I was going through a tough time


Where were you when I wanted ya
Where were you when I desired your presence


Where were you when I needed ya
Where were you when I required your support


Where... ere
Repeating the question of where you were when I needed you


Well you're lookin good, it's hard to fight it
You appear attractive, but it doesn't change my decision


But no use explainin, I've already decided
There's no need to justify my choice, I've made up my mind


That livin with you, it's worse than without ya
Being with you is worse than being alone


I won't spend a lifetime a worryin about ya
I won't spend my life stressing over you


Oh, things got rough and you disappeared
Our relationship hit a rough patch and you left


Now I'm back on my feet
I've recovered and moved on from the tough time


But look, look who's standing there
You've returned after everything has been settled


Well you were so young, and you were so wild
You were young and reckless


I knew you were nobody's innocent child
I realized you weren't a naive and innocent person


That first day I saw you, you really got to me
I was attracted to you from the moment we met


I thought I could change you, what good did it do me
I believed I could influence you, but it didn't benefit me


Oh, things got rough and you wouldn't wait
Our relationship became difficult and you didn't stick around


Now you're tripping back
You've come back into my life


But babe, babe it's too late
But it's too late, our time has passed


Where were you when I needed ya
Questioning where you were when I faced trouble


Where were you when I wanted ya
Questioning where you were when I desired your presence


Where were you when I needed ya
Questioning where you were when I required your support


Where... ere
Reiterating the question of where you were when I needed you




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Comments from YouTube:

@Featureman

I liked Del's version of The Big Hurt which was mostly unnoticed.

@donaldlang4152

This version is the best

@yolandamarsh1329

i still love you Dell Shannon πŸ’›πŸ’—πŸ’•πŸ’‹πŸŒΈπŸ’š

@ardalla535

C'mon, give her another chance.

@josebelindo1641

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