Reciprocity
Demia Lyrics

The song Reciprocity by Demia is a reflection of one's search for validation in friendships and relationships. The first verse suggests that perhaps the cause of animosity between people is the lack of reciprocity, which is the act of mutual exchange or giving back. The singer then questions where the other person was when they needed them and asks why they cannot embrace their mistakes, flaws or imperfections with open arms. The chorus refers to the singer's acknowledgement that they have learned nothing new about themselves from this other person, suggesting that they have become tired of waiting for validation and appreciation.

The second verse is a direct challenge to the absent person who did not reciprocate their friendship or love. The singer declares that they are done with waiting and uses an expletive to express their frustration. The bridge of the song repeats the question posed in the first verse, with the singer demanding an explanation for the other person's lack of involvement in their life. The lyrics carry themes of disappointment, betrayal, and hopelessness, and the overall message is that it is important to value oneself and not rely on the validation of others.