A Question of Lust
Depeche Mode Lyrics


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Fragile, like a baby in your arms
Be gentle with me, I'd never willingly do you harm
Apologies are all you seem to get from me
But just like a child, you make me smile when you care for me
And you know

It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
It is all of these things and more
That keep us together

Independence is still important for us though
(We realise)
It's easy to make the stupid mistake of letting go
(Do you know what I mean?)
My weaknesses, you know each and every one
(It frightens me)
But I need to drink more than you seem to think before I'm anyone's
And you know

It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
It is all of these things and more
That keep us together

Kiss me goodbye when I'm on my own
But you know that I'd rather be home

It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
It is all of these things and more
That keep us together
It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
It is all of these things and more
That keep us together

It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
It is all of these things and more
That keep us together
It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust




It is all of these things and more
That keep us together

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Depeche Mode's "A Question of Lust" are about the delicate and vulnerable nature of love and the importance of trust and understanding in a relationship. The singer acknowledges his weaknesses and apologizes for his mistakes, but also recognizes the value of his connection with his partner. The chorus repeats the phrase "It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust, it's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust" emphasizing the idea that love is not just a feeling, but also a commitment and a choice to maintain the relationship.


The verses also explore the tension between independence and dependence in a relationship. While the singer acknowledges that he needs his partner's care and affection, he also values his own autonomy. The line "Independence is still important for us though" suggests that the couple must find a balance between their individual needs and their shared bond.


Overall, the lyrics of "A Question of Lust" convey a sense of vulnerability, fear, and uncertainty in love, but also a deep sense of commitment and connection between the singer and his partner.


Line by Line Meaning

Fragile, like a baby in your arms
I am vulnerable and need your care and protection


Be gentle with me, I'd never willingly do you harm
I am asking for your kindness and assuring you of my intentions


Apologies are all you seem to get from me
I have made mistakes and feel regretful


But just like a child, you make me smile when you care for me
When you show me love and attention, it makes me happy


And you know
You are aware of how I feel and what I need


It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
Our relationship depends on both physical desire and emotional reliance


It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
We must work to maintain and sustain our relationship


It is all of these things and more
Our relationship involves multiple factors and complexities


That keep us together
These elements are the glue that holds us as a couple


Independence is still important for us though
We value our individuality even as a couple


(We realise)
We understand the importance of this balance in our relationship


It's easy to make the stupid mistake of letting go
Ending our relationship out of impulse can be a foolish action


(Do you know what I mean?)
I want to make sure you understand my point of view


My weaknesses, you know each and every one
You are aware of my flaws and shortcomings


(It frightens me)
I fear my vulnerabilities may push you away


But I need to drink more than you seem to think before I'm anyone's
I require more self-care and attention than you might realize


And you know
You are aware of my needs and how to support me


Kiss me goodbye when I'm on my own
I need your affection even when we are apart


But you know that I'd rather be home
I want to be with you and feel your presence


It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
Our relationship involves both physical and emotional connection


It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
We must work to maintain our connection and not let it fall apart


It is all of these things and more
Our relationship is complex and multifaceted


That keep us together
These factors are what hold us together as a couple


It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
Our relationship is based on both physical attraction and emotional reliance


It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
We must work to maintain our connection and not let it fall apart


It is all of these things and more
Our relationship is complicated and encompasses many aspects


That keep us together
These elements are what bind us as a couple


It's a question of lust, it's a question of trust
Our relationship involves physical attraction and emotional dependence


It's a question of not letting what we've built up crumble to dust
We must work to keep our connection strong and not let it fall apart


It is all of these things and more
Our relationship is intricate and involves many different components


That keep us together
These components are what hold us together and keep us strong as a couple




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Written by: Martin Gore

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Comments from YouTube:

@saintnicole3209

I love Dave’s voice, but oh my god there’s just something about the sheer clarity and power behind Martin’s voice that gives me chills. He puts soooo much emotion behind even just the simplest notes. And it WORKS. No wonder why my favorite vocal lines from DM are when Martin and Dave harmonize.

@wasserpigeon1197

Dave and Martin are musical soulmates. They were made for each other and I love them so much 😭🖤

@saintnicole3209

HL Dreger 💖💕

@alregis8668

I've listened some live version of DM and I've found a version of Ice Machine with one of their best harmonization : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpITNQV6cX0&t=1643s

@ecm467

I hope I'm not ruining this for you, but that's actually Alan's voice. He's doing the backing vocals on this song, not Dave. :)

@saintnicole3209

EC M I had no idea! But still, their voices sound incredible together

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@normanjames9780

There is something about Martin's singing. It can be gentle and delicate and then very forceful and powerful. Each has the same way to cause a feeling within you as you listen.

@AndreaAnd-gg4ye

Conmueve,emociona y una se identifica con él.Se siente como si me lo cantara a mí!😍

@gregorys.5215

Martin has an incredible vocal range! He goes to his upper register then back down flawlessly. He’s able to show this in his masterpiece ! Total awesomeness x

@luckyluciano911

Gut gesagt.. der „Fritz Wunderlich“ of the modern times.

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