I Can't Make You Love Me
Diana Rouvas Lyrics


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Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices
Inside my head
Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close
Don't patronize
Don't patronize me

I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Somethin' that it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart
And I will feel the power but you won't
No you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me
When you don't
When you don't

I'll close my eyes
'Cause then I won't see
The love you don't feel
When you're holdin' me
Morning will come
And I'll do what's right
Just give me till then
To give up this fight
And I will give up this fight

'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Somethin' that it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart
I will feel the power but you won't
No you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me




When you don't
When you don't

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Diana Rouvas express the heart-wrenching feeling of being in love with someone who doesn't reciprocate the same love back. The song talks about the desperation of wanting to feel loved by someone who cannot provide that feeling. The first few lines talk about trying to silence the voices in your head that remind you of the love that's not returned, and then it goes on to express the desire to just be held by this person, but not with lies or in a patronizing way.


The chorus is the most impactful part of the song as it repeats the phrase, "I can't make you love me if you don't." This line is so powerful because it reveals the reality that love cannot be forced or manipulated. The next line, "You can't make your heart feel somethin' that it won't," emphasizes the point that love cannot be controlled or coerced. The song ends with the admission that the fight to make this person love you will be given up in the morning, but it still hurts to know that love is not returned.


Overall, "I Can't Make You Love Me" is a beautiful and melancholy song that can resonate with anyone who has ever been in love or has experienced unrequited love. It's a reminder that sometimes love just cannot be controlled no matter how much you may desire it.


Line by Line Meaning

Turn down the lights
She is setting the mood for a private moment


Turn down the bed
She is preparing the bed for them to lay down together


Turn down these voices, Inside my head
She is asking him to help her quiet down her own thoughts and doubts about their relationship


Lay down with me
She is requesting to be physically close to him


Tell me no lies
She wants him to be honest with her about his feelings


Just hold me close, Don't patronize
She wants him to show her affection without pretending to feel something he doesn't


Don't patronize me
She feels like he is being insincere and misleading about his emotions


I can't make you love me if you don't
She accepts that love cannot be forced or manufactured


You can't make your heart feel, Somethin' that it won't
She acknowledges that he cannot control his own feelings either


Here in the dark, in these final hours
She is feeling vulnerable and emotional as they spend their last moments together


I will lay down my heart, And I will feel the power but you won't
She is willing to open herself up emotionally, even though he may not reciprocate


No you won't, 'Cause I can't make you love me
She knows that his feelings cannot be changed by her own actions


When you don't, When you don't
She repeats the refrain to emphasize her acceptance of the situation


I'll close my eyes, 'Cause then I won't see
She is trying to avoid the pain of rejection by avoiding eye contact and physical intimacy


The love you don't feel, When you're holdin' me
She feels his emotional distance even when they are physically close


Morning will come, And I'll do what's right
She plans to move on and accept the reality of their relationship


Just give me till then, To give up this fight
She needs time to come to terms with the end of their relationship


And I will give up this fight
She will stop trying to change his feelings and focus on her own emotional healing




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Unison Rights S.L., AMPLIFIED ADMINISTRATION, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Allen Shamblin, Michael Reid

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Comments from YouTube:

@demdarkon

This is still the greatest single singing performance on Australian television ever

@Lishmaa

Yessss! The raw emotion in this is bloody unmatched. I was mesmerised, this is what you call singing from the heart.

@stevenfaults4160

The only thing wrong with this performance is that I wish it were about 5 minutes longer

@user-bc2jn3gf8g

This is truly the one and only best performance of Australian Voice ever which still sits in my memory as the most heartfelt and perfect version of this song and even, dare I say, better than the original. I cannot believe her mentor/judge (Keith) did not recognise the sheer beauty and perfection of this performance. Thankfully others out here did....and it still lives on. Thank you Diana

@carlosg2843

No useless riffs or runs or pushing or oversinging... Just MUSIC! This is a true performance! AMAZING

@belindabonham2093

You are pretty good, yourself, mate. And a gentleman, too.

@lisiatejrfatafehi2250

Totally agree, she should've won and even after all these years i always go back to this version of the song

@oehosi

Brings those great memories back in an instant... gorgeous

@nutsaboutnames3805

This version is 100% the best version I've ever heard.

@gabrielcarvalho5008

SHE'S BACK DUDE :D

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