Rude
Dinosaur Jr. Lyrics


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I'm here to curse my own tongue again
For it's wrong again
Untrue

Oh I'm the only one, they noticed it[?]
Hung over it, seem to

(Be) falling from my mouth before I move
Not helping any point I'm trying to prove
Just smiling there, darling in the end

I wish I didn't care,
'Cause caring is rude

I'm here to curse my own name again
Make it plain again
For you

Do you really think that if I could change,
The world could change, that's not true

'Cause you are young and we don't share a soul
And nothing I could say would gain control
Oh nature rushing me back to the cell
It's better for my health –

If I hold it true[?],
'Cause caring is rude

You are young and we don't share a goal
And nothing I could say would gain control
Oh nature rushing me back to the cell
It's better for my health –

If I hold it true[?],




'Cause caring is rude
Nature is cruel

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Dinosaur Jr.'s song Rude depict the struggles of the singer with his own words and actions. The song starts with the singer cursing his own tongue, for it has been wrong and untrue. He goes on to mention that he is the only one who noticed this, and that he wishes he didn't care, for caring is rude. The singer also mentions his desire to curse his own name and make it plain for the listener. While he acknowledges that he needs to change, he doesn't believe that one person can change the world, especially since he and the listener don't share the same soul and goal. The song ends with the belief that it's better for his health to hold the truth, as nature can be cruel.


The theme of the song seems to be the conflict between self-reflection and the desire to be accepted by others. The singer acknowledges his own shortcomings and the need to change, but is also distrustful of others and their ability to understand him. The line "caring is rude" suggests a fear of vulnerability and a belief that showing too much emotion or concern for others' feelings can be viewed as weakness. Ultimately, the singer seems resigned to the fact that he can't change the world, and must focus on his own health and personal growth.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm here to curse my own tongue again
I have a habit of speaking inaccurately and insincerely


For it's wrong again
My tongue is once again causing problems


Untrue
What I'm saying is not true


Oh I'm the only one, they noticed it[?]
I feel like everyone is aware of my mistakes


Hung over it, seem to
I am fixated on my shortcomings


(Be) falling from my mouth before I move
I say things without thinking first


Not helping any point I'm trying to prove
My words are not making my point clear


Just smiling there, darling in the end
I'm trying to hide my true feelings with a smile


I wish I didn't care,
I want to stop caring


'Cause caring is rude
Because people see caring as a weakness or impolite


I'm here to curse my own name again
I'm criticizing myself again


Make it plain again
To make something clear


For you
In the eyes of someone else


Do you really think that if I could change,
Do you think I have the ability to change everything?


The world could change, that's not true
What I do will not have a significant impact on the world


'Cause you are young and we don't share a soul
Because we are different and have different values


And nothing I could say would gain control
I cannot persuade you to agree with me


Oh nature rushing me back to the cell
I'm being taken back to my natural state - reserved and introverted


It's better for my health –
It's better for me to avoid stressful confrontations


If I hold it true[?],
If I stand by my beliefs


'Cause caring is rude
Because people see caring as a weakness or impolite


You are young and we don't share a goal
You are inexperienced and don't have the same aspirations as me


And nothing I could say would gain control
I cannot persuade you to agree with me


Oh nature rushing me back to the cell
I'm being taken back to my natural state - reserved and introverted


It's better for my health –
It's better for me to avoid stressful confrontations


If I hold it true[?],
If I stand by my beliefs


'Cause caring is rude
Because people see caring as a weakness or impolite


Nature is cruel
The natural state of things is often harsh




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Comments from YouTube:

Augustine Coronado

I love lous vocals. They always come to me as honest and natural, rather than forced

Fails_for_the_win

I can actually relate to this song.

Marshall Law

more than we know can 😔

Deidra J'Nay

always love how Lou strums.

Robert Malear

Danm these guys still rock, what an awesome tune, I cant stop listening to it.

Dr. Totz

I was so happy with this album. I remember when I heard this song I was like...YEAH....Lou gets to sing a song again!

Mike Debauched

Such a great song.

Kate Animates

I wish Lou sang in more Dinosaur jr songs I love his voice

drawrings

J went ahead and J'd Lou's song. Nice.

Deidra J'Nay

and where'd J get all these cute glasses?

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