Shall I Tell Her
Dionne Warwick Lyrics


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Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?
Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her you're not, you're not here?

[?] calling on the phone
Wants to know if I'm alone
Shall I tell her that I'm holding you
Doing all the things I've longed to do
Or shall I, shall I tell her you're not here?

Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?
Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?

She's asking me if you dropped by
But it's so hard for me to lie
If I tell the truth I'll lose a friend
I would hate to see our friendship end
So shall I, shall I tell her you're not here?

Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?
Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?

Oh, time will ease the pain, and she'll soon forget
Then she'll fall in love again, forget we ever met

[?] a gonna cry I know
Because she really loves you so
Shall I send you back into her arms
Spend my life just dreaming of your charms




Or shall I, shall I tell her you're not here?

Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?
Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her you're not, you're not here?

Shall I tell her you're not here
Shall I tell her?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Shall I Tell Her by Dionne Warwick deal with the idea of loyalty and honesty, and the conflict that arises when these two values are at odds. The song is sung from the perspective of a woman who is being pursued by another woman, likely a friend or acquaintance, who is looking for her partner. The singer is torn between telling the truth about their partner's whereabouts and potentially losing her friend or lying to maintain the friendship at the cost of her own honesty.


The singer grapples with her conscience, wondering if she should tell her friend the truth that her partner is not there or if she should lie to protect the relationship. She acknowledges that telling the truth might ruin a friendship, but she also doesn't want to live in a world of deceit. She is clearly conflicted about how to navigate this difficult situation.


The final verse of the song is particularly poignant, as the singer realizes that no matter what choice she makes, time will eventually heal the pain. Her friend will move on and fall in love again, forgetting about this particular moment in their relationship. It's a bittersweet reflection on the fleeting nature of love and the inevitable changes that come with the passage of time.


Overall, Shall I Tell Her is a contemplative and emotional song about the complexities of human relationships and the difficult choices that we all must make at various points in our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

Shall I tell her you're not here
Should I inform her that you're not present with me?


Shall I tell her?
Should I reveal your absence to her?


Shall I tell her you're not, you're not here?
Should I emphasize that you are truly not here with me?


[?] calling on the phone
Someone is calling me on the phone


Wants to know if I'm alone
That person is curious if I am by myself


Shall I tell her that I'm holding you
Should I betray the truth that I am with you


Doing all the things I've longed to do
Doing all the things I have desired for so long


Or shall I, shall I tell her you're not here?
Or should I keep the secret that you are not here with me?


She's asking me if you dropped by
She is inquiring if you paid me a visit


But it's so hard for me to lie
Deception is difficult for me to commit to


If I tell the truth I'll lose a friend
If I speak honestly I might lose this friendship


I would hate to see our friendship end
I would be very unhappy if our friendship ended


So shall I, shall I tell her you're not here?
Should I confidently keep the truth from her?


Oh, time will ease the pain, and she'll soon forget
Eventually, time will heal her sorrow and she will forget


Then she'll fall in love again, forget we ever met
She will eventually move on and forget that we ever crossed paths


[?] a gonna cry I know
She is likely to cry, I am aware


Because she really loves you so
Her emotions for you are very strong


Shall I send you back into her arms
Should I return you to her embrace


Spend my life just dreaming of your charms
Should I just spend my life wishing I had your desirable qualities


Or shall I, shall I tell her you're not here?
Or should I conceal the truth of your absence from her?


Shall I tell her you're not here
Should I express that you are currently not present


Shall I tell her?
Should I announce your absence to her?


Shall I tell her you're not here
Should I report to her that you are absent?


Shall I tell her you're not, you're not here?
Should I inform her that you are indeed not here with me?




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DOC POMUS, MORT SHUMAN

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