It’s Not Love
Dokken Lyrics


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Told you I had to leave, I had my reasons
I said that it hurt to stay, the way that I'm feelin'

It's not love
That left you standin'
It's not love
That left you cold
It's not love
Misunderstandin'
Only a mistake
There's nothing left to take

Why, baby, why did you make me let you go
And leave you so lonely
Why, baby, why did you have to hold on
You know it's not love anymore

Gave you your last chance but you didn't believe me
You can't keep me satisfied, the way that you treat me

It's not love
That left you standin'
It's not love
That left you cold
It's not love
Misunderstandin'
Only a mistake
There's nothing left to take

Why, baby, why did you make me let you go
And leave you so lonely
Why, baby, why, stop playing with my heart
I told you

It's not love
Telling you to be this way
It's not love
Sayin' you can never change
It's not love
When I told you




Is he putting you down
Down, down, down

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Dokken's song "It's Not Love" tell the story of the end of a romantic relationship. The singer, who is presumed to be the one ending the relationship, tells their former partner that they had to leave for reasons that were important to them. The singer acknowledges that it hurt to stay in the relationship and that they were feeling restless and unhappy. However, the singer denies that it is love that has led to the breakup. Instead, they argue that the breakup was caused by misunderstandings and mistakes. The singer expresses frustration with their former partner, asking why they had to hold on and why they had to treat them poorly. The singer concludes by confirming that it is not love that has caused the breakup, but the actions and behaviors of their former partner.


The lyrics to "It's Not Love" are a powerful statement about the importance of communication and mutual understanding in a romantic relationship. By denying that love is the cause of the breakup, the singer is suggesting that a lack of communication and understanding has led to the relationship's demise. This sentiment is echoed throughout the song, as the singer expresses frustration with their former partner's inability to listen to their needs and treat them with respect. In the end, the song is a cautionary tale about the dangers of neglecting the emotional needs of a partner in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Told you I had to leave, I had my reasons
I explained to you my motivation for leaving.


I said that it hurt to stay, the way that I'm feelin'
I specified that it was too painful for me to remain.


It's not love That left you standin'
Your unfortunate situation is not due to affection.


It's not love That left you cold
Your lack of warmth is not the result of romantic emotions.


It's not love Misunderstandin'
Our confusion is not due to love.


Only a mistake There's nothing left to take
We made an error, and there is no longer anything for us to gain.


Why, baby, why did you make me let you go And leave you so lonely
I am questioning why you caused me to abandon you and leave you feeling isolated.


Why, baby, why did you have to hold on You know it's not love anymore
I am curious why you continued to hold onto our relationship when neither of us truly loved each other anymore.


Gave you your last chance but you didn't believe me You can't keep me satisfied, the way that you treat me
I offered you one final opportunity to make things right, but you didn't believe me, and your actions were insufficient to keep me fulfilled.


It's not love Telling you to be this way
My actions and feelings towards you are not based on love and are not responsible for your current behavior.


It's not love Sayin' you can never change
I am not expressing love toward you by saying you cannot change as a person.


It's not love When I told you Is he putting you down Down, down, down
Love is not the motivation for my inquiry into whether someone is making you feel inferior.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DON DOKKEN, GEORGE LYNCH, JEFF PILSON, MICK BROWN

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