Just Because I'm a Woman
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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I can see you're disappointed
By the way you look at me
And I'm sorry that I'm not
The woman you thought I'd be
Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

So when you look at me
Don't feel sorry for yourself
Just think of all the shame
You might have brought somebody else

Just let me tell you this
Then we'll both know where we stand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

Now a man will take a good girl
And he'll ruin her reputation
But when he wants to marry
Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her
To do the best she can
While he looks for an angel
To wear his wedding band

Now I know that I'm no angel
If that's what you thought you'd found
I was just the victim of
A man that let me down

Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman





No, my mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "Just Because I'm A Woman," the female protagonist is defending herself against the judgment and disappointment of a man who expected her to be someone she's not. She apologizes for not living up to his expectations, but reminds him that her mistakes are no worse than his own simply because she is a woman. She urges him to not feel sorry for himself but instead consider the possible shame he may have brought upon others as well. She concludes by acknowledging that she is not an angel, but rather a victim of a man who let her down.


The song highlights gender inequality and the societal double standard that exists for men and women when it comes to morality and shame. The singer recognizes this within her own life and the experiences of other women who have been wronged and blameless. Women's reputations and honor are often judged more harshly than men's, and the song sheds light on this unfortunate reality.


Overall, "Just Because I'm A Woman" is a powerful and thought-provoking song that challenges traditional gender roles and perceptions. Dolly Parton's passionate delivery captivates the listener and emphasizes the importance of fairness and equality.


Line by Line Meaning

I can see you're disappointed
I can sense the disappointment from your looks


By the way you look at me
From the way you gaze at me


And I'm sorry that I'm not
I apologize for not being


The woman you thought I'd be
The woman you envisioned me to be


Yes, I've made my mistakes
Indeed, I have committed errors in my life


But listen and understand
Please pay attention and comprehend


My mistakes are no worse than yours
My errors aren't any graver than yours


Just because I'm a woman
Purely because I am female


So when you look at me
Therefore, when you stare at me


Don't feel sorry for yourself
Abstain from feeling pity for yourself


Just think of all the shame
Instead, contemplate on all the disgrace


You might have brought somebody else
You might have caused somebody else


Just let me tell you this
Allow me to tell you


Then we'll both know where we stand
We'll both know our positions


Now a man will take a good girl
Typically, a man would take away an honorable woman


And he'll ruin her reputation
He will ruin her character


But when he wants to marry
However, when he desires to wed her


Well, that's a different situation
That's a different case altogether


He'll just walk off and leave her
He will simply abandon her


To do the best she can
To try to survive on her own


While he looks for an angel
While he searches for the perfect woman


To wear his wedding band
To be his wife


Now I know that I'm no angel
I acknowledge that I am not perfect


If that's what you thought you'd found
If that's what you assumed you had discovered


I was just the victim of
In reality, I was just a target of


A man that let me down
A man who disappointed me


No, my mistakes are no worse than yours
No, my faults aren't any more severe than yours


Just because I'm a woman
Simply because I am a female




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Dolly Parton

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@latoya3872

[Verse 1]
I can see you're disappointed
By the way you look at me
And I'm sorry that I'm not
The woman you thought I'd be



[Verse 2]
Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman



[Verse 3]
So when you look at me
Don't feel sorry for yourself
Just think of all the shame
You might have brought somebody else
Just let me tell you this
Then we'll both know where we stand



[Bridge]
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman

[Verse 4]
Now a man will take a good girl
And he'll ruin her reputation
But when he wants to marry
Well, that's a different situation




[Verse 5]
He'll just walk off and leave her
To do the best she can
While he looks for an angel
To wear his wedding band



[Verse 6]
Now I know that I'm no angel
If that's what you thought you'd found
I was just the victim of
A man that lets me down



[Outro]
No, my mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman



All comments from YouTube:

@JohnDonovanProductions

Who DOESN’T love Dolly? She’s so pure. So loving.

I love this quote: “I believe in rights for all people , Dolly says . " I think there are many women that are qualified for many jobs , and everybody should be paid well for what they're qualified to do think children and blacks and reds and all people should have an equal shot . I just think we're all God's children and should be treated with respect .”

@howardslicker1737

God bless you all thank you so very much..xoxoxo

@LeeBee1111

Pure and Free Spirited. <33 : )

@Thabo_Modisakeng

I guess the year is 2025 and we're still hooked on to this masterpiece.

@ayamusic7976

Yhoo she is too much❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭💎💎💎, who’s still here in 2023. The wild is crazy as hell but this kind of purity lives on…I wasn’t born when she released this music but hell ,this music takes me back and I don’t know where but it’s a place im find off❤️❤️. She is a living legend 🤞🏽

@ayamusic7976

Wild* world !!!

@LeeBee1111

"I've struggled enough in my life to be appreciated and understood. I've had to go against all kinds of people through the years just to be myself. I think everybody should be allowed to be who they are, and to love who they love. I don't think we should be judgmental. Lord, I've got enough problems of my own to pass judgment on somebody else."

Dolly Parton (Inspired by)

@nomaswazitshabalala1438

Same here hope I find a way to breakthrough and find myself because I'm hurting and unstable now

@LeeBee1111

@@nomaswazitshabalala1438 Today (7th) is tull moon... time of transition... everything seems crazy these days. Hope you're doing well.

@FreedomofSpeech865

This woman is a national treasure

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