When I'm Gone
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Dolly Parton)

You say that you're bored with life and that you're bored with me
'Cause you say that this love of ours ain't what it ought to be
Now you despise this little house that we've always called home
I know that you don't love me now, but you'll love me when I'm gone
Gone
You'll love me when I'm gone and then you'll realize just what I meant to you
You-oo-oo-oo
You'll miss me when I'm gone and then you'll realize how good I've been to you
You-ooo-ooo-ooo
You'll want me when I'm gone and then you'll realize you've loved me all along
Oh, it's true you may not love me now, but you'll love me when I'm gone
Gone

We've grown too familiar with each other, so you say
You say there's no excitement now. Too bad you feel that way
Well, I wonder how exciting that your life will be alone
Oh, I know you may not want me now, but you'll miss me when I'm gone
Gone

You'll love me when I'm gone and then you'll realize just what I meant to you
You-oo-oo-oo
You'll miss me when I'm gone and then you'll realize how good I've been to you
You-ooo-ooo-ooo
You'll want me when I'm gone and then you'll realize you've loved me all along




Oh, I know you may not want me now, but you'll miss me when I'm gone
Gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Dolly Parton's song "When I'm Gone" conveys a message of regret and realization of one's true feelings after losing a loved one. In the song, the singer's partner expresses boredom with their current life and relationship, and despises the small house they live in. The singer is aware that their partner may not love them at the moment, but they will realize the depth of their love only after they are gone.


The singer questions the excitement their partner is seeking and wonders how exciting their life will be alone. It seems like their partner has taken their relationship and love for granted, but they will eventually realize how good the singer was to them only after they are gone. The repetition of the phrase "You'll love me when I'm gone" emphasizes the inevitability of this realization and regret.


The song highlights the importance of valuing and cherishing our relationships and loved ones while they are still with us. It reminds us not to take them for granted and to appreciate the small things in life. Ultimately, the song is a poignant reminder that our perspective on the things we hold dear can change drastically depending on whether we have them or not.


Line by Line Meaning

You say that you're bored with life and that you're bored with me
You claim that both your life and relationship with me lack excitement and passion.


'Cause you say that this love of ours ain't what it ought to be
You believe that our love is not measuring up to what you deem as proper, leaving you unhappy.


Now you despise this little house that we've always called home
You have grown to loath the humble abode that has been the roof over our heads and source of stability for years.


I know that you don't love me now, but you'll love me when I'm gone
I am aware that your current feelings towards me are not of love, but my departure will make you realize what you have lost.


You'll love me when I'm gone and then you'll realize just what I meant to you
When I leave, your love for me will surge, and you will begin to appreciate the importance of my presence in your life.


You'll miss me when I'm gone and then you'll realize how good I've been to you
My absence will create a void that will make you realize the extent of my love and affection towards you.


You'll want me when I'm gone and then you'll realize you've loved me all along
After I leave, you'll yearn for my return and discover that you had already been madly in love with me all along.


We've grown too familiar with each other, so you say
According to you, our relationship has become too predictable and bland due to being together for too long.


You say there's no excitement now. Too bad you feel that way
You express disappointment in the current state of our relationship, where you perceive it as lacking excitement and stimulation.


Well, I wonder how exciting that your life will be alone
I question how eventful and lively your life will be when you decide to be alone and break off our relationship.


Oh, I know you may not want me now, but you'll miss me when I'm gone
Although you might not desire me right now, you will experience withdrawal symptoms and feel the absence of my companionship after I leave.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Mark Blackburn

Four minutes of musical Joy (when we can really use it!)
“When you lay your head on that big feather-bed
you can rest assured -- I'll be gone.”
You're only as good as your most recent work, and Dolly's latest is giving us goosebumps. The lyrics are brilliant and the melody has change ups (multiple bridges) that song writers yet unborn will study a hundred years from today.

Really, what can't Dolly Parton do? – an actress, a multi-instrumentalist and a singer whose voice never grows old, who writes songs Hank Williams would have admired. [My wife and I have been saying 'forever' that Dolly Parton is the “best singer-songwriter since Hank” --who wrote lyrics like “None of us are gettin' out of here alive.”]

Yes, getting goosebumps again watching this one on re-play: With each viewing you spot things you didn't see before. Thanks, in part to note-perfect 'retro' look of the 80's graphics which has you asking: 'Is this REALLY new?'

The best kinds of ART are artless – you listen or look, and say: “Heck I could do that!” Oh no you can't. Case in point.

“She's a saint,” declares my eldest son; and this is my favorite quote from Saint Dolly this day: “There are two kinds of people in this world and you're not one of them.”


Thanks for sharing, Dolly Parton. Celebrated this day at Sinatra Family - Forum - "Siriusly Sinatra" - MY FAVORITE VERSION, YOURS TOO? https://sinatrafamily.com/forum/showthread.php/50225-My-Favorite-Version-%28yours-too-%29?p=1287488#post1287488



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Lyrics
Some chewing gum and candy
Some magazines and snacks
Some startin' over money
That I've been holdin' back
A change of clothes and notepad
To write a letter back to say, "So long"
A one-way ticket sayin', "Goodbye everything"
Threw my weddin' band out the window of the train
All I want's my freedom
Reclaim my maiden name, I'm movin' on
'Cause I'm gone
You can tell the truth or you can lie
You can say I left you or I died
Say I'm in the Himalayas on some spiritual quest
And could spend years lookin' for the light
Say I'm in the witness program with the F.B.I.
Say a U.F.O. abducted me from home
You can say what you choose, but I tell you the truth
You can say for sure I'm gone, 'cause I'm gone
You think that you're above me like I'm not good enough
You make me feel unwanted, unwelcome and unloved
You're selfish, vain and greedy
You're hateful, rude and rough and you're so wrong
But you'd rather live unhappy and tolerate the pain
Than separate and have me takin' half of everything
Well, I'm leavin' your possessions
Left on the goodbye train, left you alone
'Cause I'm gone
You can have the house, the car, the boat
My records, books and stereo
The dog and the cat, my ceramic shop out back
My doll collection and my clothes
You can keep all our friends and all the pictures in the den
And the fluffy pillows you sleep on
When you lay your head on that big feather bed
You can rest assured I'll be gone, I'll be gone
You can tell the truth or you can lie
You can say I left you or I died
Say I'm in the Himalayas on some spiritual quest
And could spend years lookin' for the light
Say I'm in the witness program with the F.B.I.
Say a U.F.O. abducted me from home
Well, you can say what you choose, but I tell you the truth
You can say for sure I'm gone
You can say what you like, but I'll tell you twice
You can say for sure, say for sure I'm gone, gone
Some chewing gum and candy
Magazines and snacks
Startin' over money
I've been holdin' back
A change of clothes and notepad
To write a letter back to say, "So long"
I got a one-way ticket sayin', "Goodbye everything"
I threw my weddin' band out of the window of the train
All I want's my freedom
Reclaim my maiden name, I'm movin' on
'Cause I'm gone
Oh, I'm gone
(I'm gone) Gone, gone
(I'm moving on) I'm gone, I'm so gone
(I'm gone) I'm gone
(Gone) Gone, I'm gone



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Fairly Vague

And who doesn’t need a bit of Dolly right now?! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Pamela Cook

I love her

AnAngelWithHornzZ

Right!!!!

Christine C.

Dolly will always be the queen of country music. A complete Goddess... songwriter, actress, vocalist, musician, & very beautiful & talented woman.

Kimyana

I freaking love this Dolly Parton acid trip, I’m replaying it.

Bo Pitbull Live Music

There's never a bad Dolly Parton song just going to be the queen of country forever

Jeffery D Smith

Only Dolly could get away with this video in the country genre. This was released 17 years ago. Wow!

Kelton Jeter

Jeffery D Smith it was never released

Stephss

@Kelton Jeter The song was released in 2002.

Kelton Jeter

Steph Ss I know that I meant the video

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